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A widow has responded to people telling her not to remarry but to focus on her children.
The mum gave the reason she can't take this advice and why she hopes to find love again soon.
She wrote: 'After I lost my husband, many advised me to just face my children.
' "Men are not good. Men are not reliable. The next man will not take care of your children."
'I am grateful for the concern, but I am curious - how did they know?
'My question is simple: After I face these children, who will face me in the next 15 years?
'Should I remain alone in the house? My boys will grow and start their own lives. Will you come and stay with me then?
' I love my children, but I also have a life to live.
'I am sharing this for every widow who has heard this advice. What are your thoughts?'
Very true concerns she has raised. My mum lost her husband when she was 40 and she raised 3 of us alone, not remarried and she is 70 now. We all take care of her now for the sacrifice she made for us. If you want to remarry, build your capacity to be self reliant, there are good men out there, only that there are more of the bad ones. Build yourself, your business, your brand etc and all will be well with you
She is right on the condition that she finds a man who truly loves and cares for her and her children. He should not be a man that is already legally married to another woman.
Getting legally re married to your husband is better and more honorable than living in immorality or adultery with a married man.
You did not read! Her husband is dead!!! She is a widow. She has a biblical right to remarry
Some idiot actually like this your message that is devoid of understanding of the context of the poster. O ga, e don bad reach like this for Nigerians that they read and don't comprehend??
So marriage na Face me I face you😁
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My dear, follow your heart. The children will definitely grow up and leave to start their own lives. WISHING YOU GOD GUIDANCE TO CHOOSE A GOOD PERSON.
Ma'am you're are right ! Take your time with prayers you will get a good man who knows more desirable than the father of your children that will also love them as his....your thought is what The Bible recommends.
My darling lady and other beautiful women out there, Africa always makes a woman's place small, confined, restricted and limited. Don't buy into the madness. People in the west remarry even at age 60. The goal is to get suitable companionship. When a man loses his wife, he's quickly admonished to remarry, when it comes to a woman the yardstick is never the same. Don't dull yourself baby, half dulling is full dulling, if you know you know. Marry and marry well, may the Lord order your steps.
Madam hope u no dey plan to Snatch person husband? just focus on your children