
Mary Remmy Njoku has warned Nigerian women to beware of abroad based returnees this Christmas.
She said many of them are not what they claim to be.
She recalled a personal experience with a returnee who had a "weird accent and pocket full of lies".
She said the man claimed to run a big law firm in London.
Years later, she saw him in a barber shop in the UK and he couldn't look her in the eye.
"So, be careful with IJGB (I just got back) this Christmas," she wrote. "I wanna gonna is not a measure of one's intelligence or success."
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Them no go hear o. The IJGBs are already prepping them
True talk, Mary.
As an IJGB I feel very seen. Very funny, and really quite true. For me I will say a lot of people pepper you because of your accent and assume my position has to be better than their own. I have never made up stories about my position abroad but my Queens English make people believe otherwise. My only thing is the man being in the barber and not looking at her doesn't say it all, a genuine person could of lost their job since seeing you, made bad moves and lost their business. And honestly some people making 70k£ plus will still travel to the hair salon in the hood cause that place just does it the best. People are suffering in UK for sure but many are doing very well, and embelish come Christmas time, and others have no kobo till month end when they return to the abroad after xmas. Bottom line be careful and don't take everything for truth.
She who has ears, let her hear
This girl too yan potopoto,na you wan marry them and maybe that was how you meant your husband,AMEBO,be exposing yourself
And those girls offer them pussy after they must have spent. In reality you can fuck anywhere in Nigeria with just N1000, yes. This is what I do whenever I'm in Nigeria
Word...😎
IJGB will not oppress me ijn
Never knew this lady is this dumb! This people try their best to dissuade people from relocating abroad, I've seen some pastors do it too. It's wicked! You're not their GOD. Guys, pray sincerely to God with an open heart is He wants you relocating, if He says yes, please go for it. If He says no, stay back in Naija, He will make a way for you. But don't ever listen to all these slave drivers and people who wants people working for them for paltry salaries. They need "house helps". The best thing that happened to me, besides the Salvation of my soul and marrying my wife, is relocating to the west. May be because i didn't jump at the offer when i was offered but prayed about it and He said "GO". With God, it sure would be a better deal for you than that Naija, where your life is not valued.
Laura said she splashed water on her crush....lol
So she indirectly admits that Nigerian women are all goldigging hoes
It’s not always gold digging You can fallfor it if the guy seems nice
Which gold you get? People wey get gold no dey salty and jobless like you.
Look at this one. She thinks barbers shop in jand is the type at the beginning of her street. The man will probably be making more money than even white collar people in jand or even bank managers in Naija so what is she saying. I know a barber called perfect in Australia the guy has like 8 houses plus you are your own boss. There is no shame anywhere barbing salons, beauty salons those things are money spinners in the west. Maybe he is really a lawyer tackling bar exams should he beg while processing his call to the bar. Heck maybe we really does have a law firm and has other side businesses. Even in naija all those barbing salons in VI are owned by established business men. So madam sit down at least he is not doing drugs etc.
This girl talks too much .
Well for all her annoying talks, she is right this time. This is also the first time I have seen her look beautiful. Kudos to who ever dressed her up.
How I wish Nigerians abroad stop sending money to help people in naija for just one month… no school fees, no rent , no food money, nothing.. and then let’s know how far. Nigerians abroad work very hard, May not be filthy rich, but are very comfortable because the system abroad works. They then out of the money they work hard for send something to their loved ones and people like this girl mock them for whatever reason. What if the guy has another job and barbing is his side hustle which he puts that money together and sends to his relatives in naija. Please stop abroad shaming people especially decent people
But the guy don't hammer you once. It seems you were sampling UK guys before you met Jason. Be careful and shut up madam. Don't expose your dirty past.
Abi oh, na so she go run mouth talk wetin dem no dey talk enter domestic katakata
When this girl never married na all this abroad base dey use scope dey finish her punna na why she don wise small ....
Mary Njoku should keep quiet and not try to relevant with her stupid stores, who cares if she falls into fake people, are there not more fake people in Nigeria or these yeyebrities flaunting fake wealth or borrow pose cars and houses and be putting the youth into pressure, Mary Nkokumor what is your name, just face your movies and IRoKo TV
What is wrong with being a barber in England? Some of these folks earn more than me, a professor!
There is money involved nah and some babes depend on that to buy data and Christmas cloth…. dee
Fake life comes to those who live it..hey let's reason the pay side barbering job pays higher in UK than been a lawyer in a struggling economy Nigeria
My sister I stay here in UK and can tell you that some one working in salon here and that is serious with his life is richer than your banker in Nigeria. Hair cut here is 20 to 25£. That is 20 to 25k naira per person. Some weekends my barber attends to over 30 people.
What is this obnoxious woman saying? My barber charges me about $25 per cut. Let’s say on a bad day he cuts 10 people’s hair, that’s $250 a day if he works for only 25 days per month that’s $6,250. That’s about $75,000 a year (at a minimum). Or N57,750,000 per year. How many people make that in Nigeria? So yeah, let IJGB enjoy their groove and let who want to enjoy the IJGB man do so in peace!
That’s before tax. Just saying.
He earns and spends in $. So leave naira out of your calculations. It ain't got nothing to do with exchange rate.
When they post somehow not to sensible talks and have a sex inviting picture as dp, don't ever take them serious. They want you to to compromise that at least she still has sense. Men, don't fall for it at all, these women are mankind deceitful.
Where u for see your own husband. There are over 8 billion people in the world. Do what best for you
The guy chop am woto woot,ghost am and she oloshily enter UK come see say na barber knack am akpako, lolz
I don't think she knows what she is saying because I base in uk, babbers make money more than lawyers and so many business owners.
You talked about UK barber like it's a shame to be one. Shame on you for shaming those who cut hair for living. You stink woman ! They watch Iroko TV all day in their shops. Those UK batbers and hairdressers pay your bills via subscriptions. They don't do drugs but honest and dignified earnings ,yet you are here shaming them. Do you make more money than them ? No high street barber in the Manchester makes less than £300 a day. My barber works from home, we queue up always for his service. You and many like you are the reasons our youths want to do quick rich schemes. Idiot you shaming people that are hardworking. Oloshi olosho radarada
Mary swear say I no chop that your kpomo looking pussy. I am that guy.
Sister off the mic! Nigerian women done wise now! Infact Yahoo boys done spoil market for abroad base guys, dey no dey fit get women easily again. I remember in those days when this abroad guys use to form first class virgin men whereas they done Marry plenty oyibo women , divorce self.
Once a woman gets married there is this form of pride that comes with it, which makes her automatic adviser.
So what about some of the generous ones like us . I training over 8 young ladies in the university and still taking care of my parents and siblings and supporting my friends and still giving my family a good and healthy life in the UK. We also have continue to invest heavily in Nigeria and the UK
Our people in Nigeria tend to think in warped ways. What exactly is Mary saying here? She is making certain assumptions that are simply wrong. He could be a lawyer with a flair for hair dressing and vice versa. Lots of professionals multitask, this friend of hers could very well have green fingers. Furthermore, barbing/hair dressing is a high income producing creative art. From sports people to journalists, barbers/hair dressers are greatly rewarded - especially in the performing arts industry, Mary should know for goodness sake. One has to now wonder how much IrokoTV pays their in-house barbers, hair dressers, stylists, etc.