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I used to wonder what my wife did all day - PhD scientist apologises to stay-at-home mothers after quitting job to care for his children

I used to wonder what my wife did all day - PhD scientist apologises to stay-at-home mothers after quitting job to care for his children

 

A man who quit his career as a PhD scientist to become a full-time stay-at-home dad has apologised to his wife and other mothers after experiencing the demands of raising children.

 

The father of two toddlers revealed that he previously questioned why his wife couldn't keep the house tidy while caring for their children.

 

“I used to come home from work, see the dishes in the sink, laundry undone, house in a mess, and quietly wonder, what has she been doing all day?” he recalled.

 

However, nearly six months into his new role, he admitted that despite spending his days cooking, cleaning, changing nappies and managing his children's tantrums, the house sometimes still looks like nothing has been done.

 

“But everything that matters has been done,” he said, adding that the experience taught him to appreciate unpaid domestic work.

 

He also acknowledged that pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and postpartum recovery involve sacrifices he may never fully understand.

 

The scientist said earning his PhD had once seemed like his toughest achievement, but caring for his children had taught him lessons no university could.

 

Apologising to his wife, he urged other husbands and fathers to share parenting responsibilities rather than simply appreciate their partners.

 

He added that his wife's birthday was approaching and that after years of supporting his dreams, it was now his turn to support hers.

 

 

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