
A Nigerian woman has advised people to involve God in their relationships and marriages, saying many couples struggle because they neglect faith, emotional maturity and personal accountability.
In a video shared online, she argued that choosing the wrong partner could affect a person's future, including their chances of achieving their dreams.
She criticised people who leave relationships blaming their former partners without acknowledging how their own actions may have contributed to the problems.
According to her, many people carry unresolved trauma and bitterness into new relationships without taking time to heal.
The woman also questioned why couples resort to insults, disrespect and threats of divorce during disagreements instead of communicating calmly and resolving their differences.
She maintained that relationships should be enjoyable rather than filled with constant conflict, urging people to work on themselves before seeking partners.
She further advised singles to choose partners who share their values, demonstrate emotional intelligence, respect others and have the fear of God.
“If you are searching for a good partner, you have to be the reflection of what you are looking for,” she said.
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