'Sometimes I wish I wasn’t gay, Is there a pill I can take or surgery I can undergo?' - Gay 'Love and Hip Hop' star Milan Christopher asks

Lol. He made alot of points and I hope all d useless gays in d world and LiB are seeing this. All u need is jesus and counseling bro.. Thank God u know gays are d lowest of societies low and like he said tins would truly be easier if u are straight. No stress,unnecessary lubricants,risky STIs,Cancers etc and indeed peace of mind too. Its never too late mahn,come to Jesus today.❤

na wa ...merited happiness

All he needs is psychological experts. This is an area science has failed humanity. Instead of accepting the problem as being "different," they can be "cured" just by intense psychological checks and all. It's just like getting someone out of addiction or confused attachments. I have a friend who loves seeing dead people, I guess even more than having sex. It gives him pleasure. He told our pastor about it, and it turned out our pastor was the worst counselor you could ever approach. The innocent pastor tagged it as my friend being demonic and not coming to church enough. Long story short, my friend opened up to his parents and phuaaa, they flew him to US and was in psychiatry for about 18months. He's all good and clean now. He has now been programmed to feel grief when he see dead people by thinking more of what their loved ones is going through

@Dapo, deluded and delusional as always. All he is saying is rhetorical, it is speaking his truth, telling you about his challenges. He is literally saying what every gay man experiences, and telling you it is not a choice. He is telling you the ugly words gay men hear daily, like "they will catch cancer" etc. He is telling you why he works so hard and how hard it is, not just to be a gay man, but a gay black man. He is telling people to stop trying to break him. If he dies, he has written his testament and it will forever be on the heads of those who pushed him to his breaking point. Milan does not hate his himself or his sexuality, he hates that it is used as an excuse to hurt him.

We fight daily against the patriarchy for straight women and their liberation, we fight for ourselves, we fight for the protection of children against abuse, because we are often the main victims of sexual and physical abuse, from the Vatican to the school dormitory, we fight for protection at school, we fight our own families and try our hardest to survive alone in a hostile homophobic world, where some of us our killed, burmt alive or physically assaulted, not just by other people, but by our governments. We fight the same fights women fight, but 10 times harder, because not only are we seen as selk-outs to fragile and toxic masculinity, we are literally seen as enemies to the systems that sustain those systems. We are intelligent beyond measure, because the mere fact that we have the survival skills to keep fighting, under immense pressure, is evidence of resilience and ingenuity. We get bullied at school, we get misrepresented in the media, people try to paint pictures of otherworldly and unnatural intents to reinforce the reasons to kill us, imprison us or make our lives unliveable. Yet we have great and deep capacity for love. It is that love that makes us wish for a better world, that makes us make meaningful bonds with even people of other races, creeds, faiths, cultures and experiences. We are more than sex, sex is nothing, people think that's all what sexuality is, because they are too literal. The books of superstitions you use to condemn us, only prove that you have been persecuting us since the beginning of written history, if not before. Milan, and the rest of us will and must keep suffering and fighting not for ourselves, but for our young ones, so that they will see a better tomorrow than what the evil people in this world have made our experiences, the will love, work and live in peace, even if we never get to. We the gays of now are LEGACY. Let them hate us, kill us, destroy our lives and steal our joy, it is their way, maybe their children will do better.

@Anonymous friend of a necrophiliac, you should try to make a "choice" to be gay for a day. If you think changing your "nature", is a simple matter of psychology. Why you illiterates waste so much of your energy in trying to recruit gay men into simply joining you to further make the lives of women harder, when most of you are useless, is beyond reason. There is no psychological or cognitive in the chemical composition of sexual attraction or orientation. Like all mammals, humans use pheromones to communicate our attraction with others who have compatible chemical markers. Initial attraction might be visual, but on a subatomic level, the biological processes at work can not be controlled by thought. Millions of LGBT people have died and suffered, because of stupid, unqualified and unquantifiable notions of people like you, who just throw stupid ideas into the world, if there was a "gay cure", gays would be the first to know.

If you know him, you’ll know he knows Jesus. Goes to show that they were truly born this way. Nigerians love to think they know Jesus pass.. Asampokoto

How assuming of you. How do you know he hasn’t given his life to Christ? Asampokoto

Can you blame them? When people just love to condemn them. Most feel ashamed and neglected and wish they could change themselves. It’s sad. Instead of us to uplift them and let them know they are human too. No one is asking you to participate and be gay with them. But the bible says to love and uplift others. That’s what true Christianity is about. Not judgement and condemnation, which is the type of Christianity practiced in Nigeria. Asampokoto

only if people can understand. it is well personality doesn't change 🌈💞

You're right Vincent. You can become celebate but at the core, the person is and will always be gay. There is no cure and all these Jesus freaks are jokers.

Lol! It’s foolish talks like this that lead gay men into marrying women. They will somehow think they’ve been cured and can change, Marry a woman and then start sleeping with other men. Just keep shut Abeg and allow them to be true to themselves. Asampokoto

Illiteracy is a disease. I hope you recover from it ASAP. Asampokoto

Are you gay? Why hiding under anonymous yet encouraging him not to give in. If it’s something you’re proud of doing why not just reveal your identity for the world to see. Practice what you preach bro

Stainless, people are born gay. The embryo is feminized in the womb. Do some studies. Two brothers grow up in the same home, under the same system, and one proves gay. It's from nature. Nobody would 'choose' to be gay in a country like Nigeria. Some marry and think that will change them. They end up seeking men to sleep with, neglecting their wives, dropping into frustration and depression. To be gay is perfectly natural and normal.

What job is that? Believing that Ghana of all the shithole countries in the world, would be the first place to discover how to cure people of homosexuality? Lol

You don't have to.

He doesn't want a way out, he is just frustrated at the amount of hate, directed at him. "Jesus" hasn't fixed most people's marriages, healed the most simple ailments like Malaria or stopped religious fraudsters from destroying lives with lies and manipulation, but he can heal homosexuality. You're a joker.

Gosh you're so ignorant. How can you say giving his life to Christ will help him? Haven't you learnt, after all these years, that there are certain things that religion can't cure. Being born gay is natural and it's okay. How does it affect you that the next person does not like the same colour as you? Or they do not like rice the way you like rice? Being different is okay gay people are humans so we need to accept them and move on from these old ways. It's just like you saying you wish you were born white because of racism and someone telling you to give your life to Jesus so he can change your race.

Don't be arrogant in your ignorance. He couldn't have chosen to be gay. True gays don't choose to be gay. It is their nature. Only illiterates are rudely dismissive of what they don't know about. Rather than ponder information on a topic, they cling to their uninformed views and dismiss others'. 'Gayness' has been on planet earth throughout recorded history, from the ancient world to the present. Among the ancient Greeks, it was actually part of an adolescent boy's rites of passage to be apprenticed to an older male mentor and lover. Many cultures recognized the gay as part of humanity. Among the American Indians, the gay was deemed the 'jewel.' We would not have civilization and culture if it were not for gays. I'll only mention Alan Turing, the gay inventor of the modern computer system without whom we wouldn't be communicating on this blog. Please, a truly educated person keeps the mind open and seeks to learn new things. They wouldn't simply dismiss what they are not educated upon as 'hogwash.'