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Wednesday, 14 June 2017

"Stop with self pity and understand the worth of a Queen that you actually are" - IK Ogbonna's wife, Sonia advices ladies

Actor IK Ogbonna's wife and mother of his son, Sonia, shared this message to women via her IG page this evening. She wrote;
"Half of your life you worry about finding a man that will marry you, second half of your life you anxiously and desperately worry about other ladies snatching your man away. Is that one life?
When you start seeing every other woman out there as a threat, best believe that has nothing to do with them, but with a nature of your relationship with your "man". We have been brainwashed through generations with false beliefs that make us think and act like it's better to be humiliated, depressed and bitter in a relationship/marriage then single but happy and in peace. Baby, you can't force or COMPETE for Love or live in constant fear of not being good enough,correct enough, sexy enough, interesting enough - a woman enough. Your problem is not the next chick,but lack of self love, self awareness, self investment and disability of understanding your own worth and power you poses as a woman and that is what keeps you settling and tolerating miserable treatments. Good, healthy and loving relationship is not meant for "lucky few" but for those who are bold enough to move away from bitterness and frustration while not settling for nonsense in the name of tradition or "what will people say". From the bottom of my heart I pray you stop with self pity and understand the worth of a Queen that you actually are. BOSS UP! You are ENOUGH. You are a blessing. And remember,they will treat you bad only if YOU allow them." - Sonia Ogbonna, 2017 #soniaogbonna #IamMySistersKeeper

16 comments:

GALORE said...

For the first time she made sense


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Anonymous said...

Well said. Love this! Most sensible write up i have seen in a while. most men are saying oh it's a harmless conversation but how would you feel if you read ponyor or whatever on your wife's phone? still harmless? we women need to learn to stop freting over men that don't deserve us. Why worry myself die? Not worth it.

Pumpkin

Anonymous said...

Ay's wife oya come and collect your sub!!!!!!

Adebayo Jeremiah oluwasegun said...

in life, 1 + 1 is not always 2. if your arogancy to your husband works for you, it might not work for another person.

Adebayo Jeremiah oluwasegun said...

in life, 1 + 1 is not always 2. if your arogancy to your husband works for you, it might not work for another person.

Alloy Chikezie said...

Beautiful lady.

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Moni said...

Is Jesus really God? Absolutely ! Who wants to die for his sins, let alone his sinlessness (or innocence) and much more for others but one with a superior motive. Mothers, Siblings even lovers are not ready to die for others but God did it because humans are His investments. He died in our place that we might have His life instead. Only God will not be deterred by ephemeral things that we see and get carried away by all around us. Is He God? Yes, He is God because experiencing Him transforms the soul and we place less importance on things that will soon fade away. We then set our hearts on things that will endure forever. Indeed, exchange is no robbery ! He took my place in the dock for me to gain my freedom. His actions was motivated by love and we also will experience that love towards others. May I not make His sacrifice a waste, worthless and regrettable.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm!!!!!good advice!

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Well said


... Merited happiness

Anonymous said...

Who's she?

Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

Ay wife Sha u don hear.

Anonymous said...

Yesso. I av always love Sonia's posts. A non African with too much sense. Love u loads.

sheezee said...

Yes oooh. I like that.

Anonymous said...

Good one my Sonia. Ay wife this piece is for you.

RareSpecie Z said...

Lol.

Anonymous said...

Nna mehn.......dis geh dikwa bitiful

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