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Wednesday, 7 June 2017

Man tells why he does not help his wife at home and it goes viral

A Facebook user from South Australia wrote a long post explaining why he does not help his wife and the post has become widely publicized. "I do not help my wife" the title of the post read, then he went on to list his reasons, starting with the story of an encounter he had with a friend who complained his wife never shows gratitude whenever he helps in his own home.



The man's reply to his friend was unusual and quickly got lots of reactions. The post has been shared by over 424,939 people. The comments on the post are also almost as much.

43 comments:

Anonymous said...

wonderful. cheers guy.

Isi beke said...

Wow, good men still exist

Neji Takon said...

Real men of great understanding are few. This gentleman replying is a legend. More grace n grease.

MUFC said...

Please give that man a medal of honour

Cornelius Chukwu said...

Gbam, well said.

Vivian Reginalds said...

WOW I LIKE...
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Nicole said...

this is another emasculated man that thinks it is romantic to post his emasculation on social media and then tries to tell other men that it is the way to go.

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tsalz said...

True talk.. U re a partner and not a helper. My wife would be d luckiest woman in d world.

Chynyere said...

Epic! An eye opener to other men.

Susan Omalicha Stanley said...

That man is on point

Ifeoma Ekewuba said...

Amazing, good men still exist

Anonymous said...

It makes sense till you ask your woman to help with bills or split the bill 50/50 then you understand why you need to fucking leave her to do the house work while you go search for money.

Some women don't believe in helping to finance the home even if they have more than you!. If you don't believe in gender roles and you want equality then don't freaking wait or tell a man to foot family bills alone.

A man is not a slave, you can't expect him to work his life and try to get funds to finance the marriage and also come back home to help with domestic shit!!!...That is being used.

Any woman who is not helping to pay bills shouldn't expect any domestic help from a man...simple!!!

Anonymous said...

Wow well said👏👏

Anonymous said...

@Nicole.. Emasculated?? Really? Let me get this.. You are of the opinion that a woman's duties is solely to take care of the home.. while a man should work and provide for the family.. So, what do you say about those women who work and earn money to "support" the family(HUSBANDS(That's the kind of woman men want these days))..? Are they 'Emasculated' too or its just their duty?..

chinelo okafor said...

This is the kind of things Women Loves to hear!!! Me I don't want another Woman in my Kitchen in the name of “ a Helping Husband" a little helping hand once in a While, Thank u!! But let man be man and Woman be Woman. Too much of everything irks...

samuel Ezebuchi said...

Make I hear

Agbomen said...

Wow!!! Awesome! That's a truly great man. A quality person.

Anonymous said...

CHANGE BEGINS WITH ME

Anonymous said...

Not bad but I hope she is a partner when it comes to finaces.i love feminist they want equal rights only when it favours them

Anonymous said...

You are definitely a Nigerian man at alaba market

maad hata said...

simp

Anonymous said...

Bush Gehhhh

ken christy said...

Wow! Very good man!

Anonymous said...

You have said it all. Annoying feminists who in the same breath say men and women are equal but also say it is a man's job to provide. Nonsense.

Anonymous said...

God called a woman help mate n not partner. You daughters of eve, shey una wan destroy what's left of this world like you did to eden?

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Unknown said...

she shud also help wit finances cos she also makes use of money too.gbam!

jdn said...

she should also help wit d finances cos she also spends d money.gbam!

nony bright said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

That's the type of husband I need you can hardly find such a man in Nigeria and that's why I'm running away for them ....with my white guy I stay at home get paid he comes back from work and cook for us not because I can't cook but because he always say to me you work too much taking care of the house and all may God help us and ours

Anonymous said...

not only alaba market...an onitsha man dat stays in mainmaket

JOYCHY said...

@YOUNG MAN ANONYMOUS..............ADVOCATE OF SHARING BILLS 50/50. Are you aware that there are woman who are single handedly talking full responsibilities of bills & still do all the house chores without complains?
When you quit acting as dough you are in competition with your partner it will help you.
In your words, a man cannot work & come & do house chores. But a woman can work, come back & tend to the kids, her husband & the house. HOW SELFISH OF YOU.
Its people like you that enslave their wives all in the name of being a woman.

Sarah Chikezie said...

Best post of the month!

Kiama Ibe said...

I love this ooooo.. hand shake to them man

Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

Better man.

Chi said...

As in, a real bush girl.there is no hope for u

Anonymous said...

Monkey. foots and belly, "but let man be man, and woman be woman". Or let a man be a man nd ..... mtcheeeeew.

rosy rosy said...

The man copied this post, it's not originally his cos I've seen this very write-up some yrs ago

Jenny Ekwe said...

I want to marry him joor

Princess Charming said...

Look around!
Most women these days are working and even if they may not pay rent, they buy clothes for kids and themselves,pay their transport, buy food ingredients & others which is still 'splitting the bills'.

Princess Charming said...

Eh, that means she is go help and not carry the whole burden of the house chores

Princess Charming said...

Thank you jare!

Anonymous said...

Man of valour...

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