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Monday, 5 June 2017

BBN's Bisola talks to Rubbin Minds, says she had her child at 23 & not in secondary school

Bisola Aiyeola, 1st runner up of Big Brother Naija 2017, yesterday sat down with Ebuka for an interview on RubbinMinds. She reacted to accusations of being a bully and having anger issues, also speaking up about the stigma that comes with being a single mother.

On the anger and bullying accusations that came up during the show, Bisola said: 

"Those are not true statements. I try ad much as possible to let myself out when I'm upset because I've lived a number of years in my life bottling things in and it didn't do me any good. I walk around with this lump in my chest upset at somebody who doesn't even know that they upset me. So if you make me upset, I'll just let it out  and once it's dine, it's out there. I do not like bullies personally, I have a couple of friends that I have stood up for in the past. When people were saying I was this, I was like maybe that was their own way of trying to make me look bad on the show. But I'm not a bully, I believe in standing up for yourself. If you can defend yourself, just go ahead and defend yourself because nobody else will defend you netter than yourself. I'm not a bully and maybe I talk a lot because I'm a bit expressive and it's something I learnt in the latter part of my life and I do not regret it."

On the standards being used by people to judge single mothers, would it have been different if she was a guy? Bisola replied;

"It definitely would have been different. There's a stigma attached to single mothers, especially if you have a child out of wedlock. You're judged. A lot of people actually said to me that they thought I had my child while I was in secondary school. I was like no, I was a grown woman. I was 23 year old when I had her. They kind of make it seem like the whole world is against you. It's now up to the woman to bring herself up and I have an amazing family. My mum has always been on my side. If I was a guy, I would be celebrated more."

30 comments:

Anonymous said...

But my television set showed me a bully and a racist person. Didn't you deny giving Tony a blowjob when everybody saw it? Whenever I see her face on my screen I change the channel. Bad example to womanhood. Go on with your bad self.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Nice


... Merited happiness

OSINANL said...

GOOD FOR HER... UGLY BITCH

Anonymous said...

My queen B..dont love u any less.

Anonymous said...

The incredible miss versatile. better to say it out and forget it than kip it bottled up. Live free. Kisses dear

Anonymous said...

People and double standards, if others speak out its because they are standing up for themselves, if its bisola, she is a bully. Y'al goan sit down jor. Do you my dear. Still love you big.

Anonymous said...

Miss B baby..me lobe you for a long time. Loud sometimes sha. Lol

Anonymous said...

The girl that can do everything. Children are a blessing jare. Dont mind people.

Anonymous said...

Intelligent BISOLA. Lovely interview

Anonymous said...

Nice. She looked really gud for the interview.

Aj said...

Bisola you were a big bully on the show, haba! How can you say you were not, you were the reason Cocoice, derby rise and others couldn't really be themselves on the show, you swallowed their characters. They couldn't do much. You may have stood up for people being bullied in the past but that was before you became popular
You have become popular before going into the house so it got into your head, you subdued everyone and they all respected you subtly except Tboss. We watched it, I'm typing this so if you read, you should know what you really did, we all make mistakes and fame gets into celebrities head except one who knows God, I've worked with a lot so I know, so I'm not judging u, just stating the obvious

Anonymous said...

Abegy,don't judge her,bad example to womanhood my foot..let her be,u can be worst Dan her who knows...

Ina said...

Lol. This one doesnt know when and how to use the phrase "go on with yoit bad self"...its not a phrase to shame somebody but actually praise them. Smh

ani j Ania said...

Bisola is just a wawu person, gifted mother.

Obaby baby said...

You are who you are,no one can change that and from my own point of view you were aggressive on the show and was very dissapointed especially during the conspiracy.

Anonymous said...

I love bisola mehn. Plenty homo

ken christy said...

My dear Bisola!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

You are a BULLY o' jare.

Vivian Reginalds said...

what's the difference?
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Margaret John said...

Bisola was a cheap commodity. It's no surprise she had a child to someone who didn't love her n is still to learn.

Margaret John said...

Bisola is sexually indiscipline

Anonymous said...

Carry go my queen forget thin tall liar for life

Anonymous said...

What has one gat to do with the other. For Gods sake blow job is blow job irrespective of where. Pls free her, look on to her good heart and remember that no one is perfect and God is the only perfect judge

Ayegbusi Ololade said...

Seriously somtin dey worry ursef...bisola dat i knw is not a bully....naturally her voice is loud so pls stop judging her and keep ur dirty mouth shut

Anonymous said...

Expensive commodity,we Don see u.shameless cow

Anonymous said...

Oloshi, if you have not done a blowjob before be the first to cast the stone.hypocrite like you. Every body engage in blowjob for fun so don't sacrifice Bisola. Judge your hypocrisy

chinedu ifeoma said...

Bully or not I love you very deeply and i'd pay whatever to see you wherever perform or watch you Bisola...you are just like me except the single mother issh but I still love you and respect you so much

Anonymous said...

Swallow characters?? You are so dumb jo?... Those people you mentioned had nothing to offer in the show...#inferioritycomplex

Anonymous said...

IT'S SO SAD TO SEE THAT PEOPLE CAN STILL BE EASILY INFLUENCED BY WHAT THE MEDIA PORTRAYS. BISOLA WAS ONLY BEING HERSELF IN THE HOUSE AND LIKE SHE SAID IT IS GOOD TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. IF OTHERS FELT SHADOWED BY HER PERSONALITY, THAT IS NOT HER FAULT. THEY SHOULD HAVE RISEN TO THE TASK INSTEAD OF EXPECTING HER TO SHRINK HERSELF SO THEY WILL ALSO SHINE.

Anonymous said...

TRUTH IS THAT GETTING PREGNANT AT THAT TIME FOR BISOLA WAS A MEAL TICKET OR WAS SUPPOSED TO BE .... UNTIL SHE UNRAVELLED THE PACKAGING THE BABY DADDY HAD LOL!!!!!!

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