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Saturday, 13 May 2017

Your man does not treat you right because you settled for it and allowed it- Sonia Ogbona's message to women

Sonia who is actor IK Ogbonna's wife, shared this message to women via her IG page. Read what she wrote after the cut...

"I'M SO SICK OF DOUBLE STANDARDS. Help me understand this please: so when a woman cheats on her man ,y'all don't call a side dude "home breaker" and "wife snatcher". Instead,wife is labeled as an irresponsible whore. When a man cheats on his woman,it's not a man that you will blame. You justify his actions just because,(even though in most cases his married self is the one throwing bread at them babes) and it's all "side chick's" fault. She is the one you will abuse,insult and call names,"husband snatcher aka home breaker"..etc... I don't get.. The most painful thing is, it's WOMEN who support,accept and teach their daughters to live according such double standards,not even men sef. It's your fellow lady that will call you names and point fingers at you. Stop shaming one another all in the name of idiotic competition based on jealousy and personal insecurities among women. YOUR MAN DOES NOT TREAT YOU RIGHT BECAUSE YOU SETTLED FOR IT AND ALLOWED IT ,NOT BECAUSE OF ANOTHER WOMAN". 

44 comments:

Nnenne George said...

Your opinion.. keep it to yourself. Cambodian yellow pawpaw 😏

Alloy Chikezie said...

Hmmmm. True talk.

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tsalz said...

Nice one..

Premiumnews24 said...

You said it all. That's absolutely correct πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

Vivian Reginalds said...

well...
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Adeleye Victor said...

i-Vee said....
now everyone posting their messages

Anonymous said...

Watch it Mrs. Ik Ogbonna. My people will say 'owuru m ee, owurum ee'... (if na me ee, if na me ee) If na u, u will do nothing. Just thank God u hv a good marriage n pray God sustains it. Women/men see shi*ts in marriage. But am happy in mine.

Anonymous said...

True... So true

sonia said...

Well said

Onyii Ignatius said...

I concur

O-Ice said...

Some hard truth there. Though the title of the article almost made me dismiss her as one of those self righteous feminists. On reading the piece, I had to agree with her completely. The double standards in men-women relationship is not doing our society any good. Fairness, mutual respect, justice for all, I think is God's plan for humanity. But we no dey hear word.

Anonymous said...

SHUT UP GOAT. YOU SEF WAN DEY TREND ABI. ABEG, ENOUGH OF ALL THIS PEOPLE COMING TO FORM HOLY. THEIR MARRIAGES COULD EVEN BE WORSE THAN ALL WE ARE HEARING. ABEGI JARE.

christie benjamin said...

Spread the word, Mamita..

edosa kelvin said...

Gbamm

Oghenetega said...

Shut up Biatchie..
Wiyukipkwayet there Sonia.
Every1 is having an opinion now abt others..
Yeye dey smell..
Thank God 4 ur Man & don't come online spewing Rubbish.
When U R 10years in Marriage U can start giving advice.
And MRs I too know Ogbonna check out your Man wella.. U have strained the young Man & he doesn't look good like b4 again.
Oversabi Housewife.

gentle said...

It's true. But it seems.like that how women are wired. So pathetic.

Halima Yahaya said...

www.halyms.blogspot.com
Pls check thanks

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

That's right girl! Low self esteem is a major factor


Long live LIB

Nhizzy said...

My wife and I have been married for about 7 years now and we are blessed with 3 LOVELY children. I would do anything to spend eternity with my lovely wife.
But for more than 6 years now of our marriage, I have endured mental torture because she disrespects me, she never admit or apologize for wrongs she did but always looking for whom to blame, she doesn’t let go of any wrong I did in the past.
Most times, I had to leave the house to avoid hitting her because of insults, cursing from her.
While outside the house, I would plead that we need peace in our home to progress and that we can both make our home happy but each passing day she got worse.
Despite all these, I still support her and family financially, morally and in prayers

Also, I observed that most of domestic violence (DV) commenters focus mainly on abuse against women!!! What about domestic violence against men?

Madam Sonia, from your posts, you are suggesting we should leave our marriage because of DV!!!
If yes, then the divorce rate in Nigeria that would follow could be far greater than those of United States.

I believe REAL MEN OR WOMEN should seek God’s help/direction in times of trouble……..

Anonymous said...

This one just the blab because one old man Don givam wetin she take catch her husband .she is always making noise abt how she don't cook and so on
.must u come to the public to tell us how u Don put ur man for ur ampit

Chukwu Cindy said...

Very true speak on

Chizzy Liz said...

******************well said ma'am hope say Iyke dey treat u well****

ovyletty said...

If you've the faith keep up else work out, nobody is god and not everyone can take shits. Personally I do not subscribe to blind perseverance.

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Bolanle said...

Learn to mind your own business ma.lK might be cheating too

Anonymous said...

You be useless person oh. So so abuse nd swear na im you sabi. Haba, what's your problem? You are too abusive and very unobjectionable. Pls try and refine yourself before it's too late. You are abusing her, because you are DEAD jealous. No be her fault say she dey kampe pass you na. Swallow your pride and admit,you don't come close to the tinest toe on her foot.

Anonymous said...

U are such a jobless fool

Roman God said...

Good thing you walked out. I used to do same to ex whenever she starts abusing me verbally. Its not easy to walk away. With all the testosterone in my body.. I think I did a great job not hitting her too. I believe if women had the same testosterone levels as men (or more), they won't be able to perfectly control it all the time. Men and women are built differently.

Didimayanra kay said...

Wetin concern her color and where she's from with the point she's trying to make... some pple ehn...

Asampokoto said...

Which is her point, it can't be her because she already set a strict standard from jump.
These things just don't happen. Her marriage is good because they put in hard work. Not everything is God God God.

Anonymous said...

You come out here to speak trash when u are sleeping with a married man and you are married. Stupid bloody idiot

Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

Who is she?

Anonymous said...

Ever since the world was created, there has only been one perfect marriage - the marriage between Adam and Eve. The first ever incident of DV happened in that marriage and it was by Eve who gave Adam the forbidden fruit, this made Adam to lose his greatness and all his Godly attributes. Since then no marriage could ever meet the original standard intended by God.
So men have since time immemorial been victims of DV at the hands of women.

Anonymous said...

Beautiful woman, just thank God for your own situation.

Anonymous said...

Shut up! Onitsha hood rat

Anonymous said...

My dear u r right to an extent but u r guilty of doing what u preach against. So it's the woman's fault cos she's allowing it? Some men just do it regardless of how the wife is. Kindly try and stop saying such except Uve been thru the experience. Don't lump all women in one category. A bad man is a bad man regardless of the woman. And a bad woman is a bad woman regardless of the man.

dakova web said...

See oyiboo

Agbomen said...

Don't think the DV is one sided. I hv seen women abuse their partners too, verbally and physically. It's just crazy. Personally, i detest violence with a passion, hv sworn not to take and certainly won't give it. It's a deal breaker.

Anonymous said...

And I thought nnenne George had common sense.

Anonymous said...

I agree with her a 100%

Kiama Ibe said...

E never reach that level naah? ?

dee boi said...

Thy own cometh... dee

Anonymous said...

Nice 1 bro.

Anonymous said...

i no even understand the mumu talk sef

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