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Saturday, 6 May 2017

Question of the day!

Married women, what do you have to say?

37 comments:

Cornelius Chukwu said...

I am not a woman but of course.

uniquechic said...

yes ooo both of u shd have ur going out time at least 2ce a, week..if he is d clubbing and hanging out time u cant totally stop him from hanging out with his male crew but dia shd be a balance...
and if he Insists on not taking u at all den dia is a problem..make d woman sit up!.

cordis nlege said...

Yeah.......he should go to clubs with me tagging along

Anonymous said...

Tnk God my husband dnt do all dt...vry indoor type,calm n reservd.spendin tym wit d kids,watchn movies in hs bed,hvn fun wit hs wyf..yet hs gud lukin n earns well....nw I undstnd wt my mum meant wen she said d hip hop guys aint d best wen it cms to marraige.i earn a gud 6 figure pay yet he doesnt let me spend my money,tks gud kia of me..always quick to apologise to me,puts me 1st..yes it sounds 2 gud 2 b tru.ds man hs gvn me peace.n I wish ds kind of husbnd to evry woman.God bless hm

Anonymous said...

Yes naa. Somethings have to change..no be only me go change. I can't be wife and maid at the same time with no enjoyment. If I'm not going, he's going nowhere. Thank God, he no get money now, so he gentle for house. He doesn't have a choice than to sit at home! #married 7 years #mother, #wife.

Anonymous said...

God blessed me with a hubby that doesnt like to club ,hangs out once in a blue moon etc.He aint perfect but at least i dont have that to worry about

Iris Lady said...

Continue to pray for him. Marriage is like a sealed envelope. When you get married, open it and see the content.

Anonymous said...

Yes who's he meeting at the club, not to talk biz. So better to avoid trouble.

nnenna uduka said...

If you r expecting that, Oyo for you my dear.

Anonymous said...

Mine said.oh how many of my friends did u c bringing there wives to clubs and to think am just 22.it sucks been married!

Emeka Izuogu said...

Married ladies oya leggo

wow this is amazing. lovelyn said...

It isn't far fetched when it is said "birds of the same feather flock together", "the way you prepare your bed is how you lie on it".it all boils down to how, where and what manner you met your better half.

Asoge Atelier said...

Amen

Nai said...

It will definately reduce...wether u like it or not...abi u wan dey breastbaby for club...

Nai said...

Sorry breastfeed baby****

Anonymous said...

Must you answer,haba. The question was directed to women. Are you a woman somehow? Must you answer, MUMU.

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Can't even marry anyone who loves clubbing. Any man who's a club lover should turn responsible as soon as he ties the knot.


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Susan Omalicha Stanley said...

My husband clubs without me, if I insist on going out with me it will turn into a big quarrel and he will end up staying out late, said I caused it

Chop Chop said...

the women need to start asking questions during courtship.

Anonymous said...

Silly question tho... Does your life remain the same when you give it to Christ? Can a wife still peck and hug all her male friends the way she used to before getting married? if no then no its not okay for a husband either.----C21

Anonymous said...

Good to hear all dat but am sure the hip hop guys won't like ur type

Anonymous said...

I seriously tap into your blessing sis. I have been loosing sleep cos of this matter about husband. God bless me with a husband like this. Amen

Vivian Reginalds said...

yes na
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Ifesanmi Tim said...

Hmmmmmmmmm.
He has to.....

blaclady said...

amen..

sholetoga said...

As a woman you have to have your own me time and allow your husband have his time with his friends too. Every married woman must know how to allow their man to spend time away from them. It good because it gives you things to catch up on when you meet by gisting each other how you spend your time away.
And women too should ensure they have their time with their friends or timeout with the kids if you have kids. It's always strengthen the marriage.......

Anonymous said...

Sounds wonderful, but have you asked yourself what you give him in return for the love he shows selflessly? I sense the 'I, me, myself' thing here!

Anonymous said...

CHOICES!

Anonymous said...

CHOICES. Life's all about CHOICES. Never compromise your happiness by unmanageable choices. Marriage is a choice too. Don't be pushed by society. Push yourself.

ERIC NESTY IS LIB'S FINEST said...

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Roman God said...

Aww! Take heart dear. Look for cooler ways to unwind. Take yourself out to the movies. Give yourself a good treat. Visit the spa. Buy good books.. update yourself intellectually. Do whatever to uplift yourself spiritually, emotionally, financially and mentally. Watch what happens next.

Anonymous said...

Funny how some husbands quarrel with their wives for offering to club with them. I will be extremely happy to have my wife club with me. Unfortunately, she doesn't like clubbing. We hang out together and it's very lovely. Clubbing is fun. There's no harm in sometimes going with ur wife.

Crush said...

Well said

Anonymous said...

Without me, he wunt reduce it, he'll STOP IT....bt wit me, we r turning up evry weekend lyk kilode!!๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ

Anonymous said...

Nyc one sis, happy u found ur type. My type is turning up & wit hubby ders always smwhere 2 go 2 & he doesnt let me spend my money unless i really hav to & i'm d queen in our kingdom.

Dikemaria said...

Who ask you all this one you talking?

Anonymous said...

Too many people are getting married for the wrong reasons!

If you met at a club or a party, do not expect a change after the wedding!

If you met in church and turned up together regularly, do not expect a change after the wedding!

Marriage starts after the wedding. Whatever is done BEFORE the wedding will follow after it.

Plus, too many guys get married due to social and family pressure - not because they really want to and/or are ready for MARRIAGE itself.




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