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Thursday, 11 May 2017

Lady shades Nigerian women who are anti-polygamists as IBB's daughter is set to become a 3rd wife

Apparently, former military leader, Ibrahim Babangida's daughter, Halima is set to become the third wife of Auwal Lawal, a governorship aspirant in Gombe state and son of the Sarkin Sudan of Gombe. Halima will be getting married to Auwal tomorrow May 12th.
Facebook user/social commentator, Aisha Alubankudi, threw shade at single Nigerian ladies who have refused to become 3rd and 4th wives. According to Aisha, women who are anti-polygamists would wait endlessly. Really, madam?

46 comments:

Hrm paul said...

Yes really. Women population is greater than male .so polygamy should be encouraged

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Just negodi

Vivian Reginalds said...

hmm
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Biko how e take concern us, if she feels she cannot do better than that so how is it our headache Biko, next.

nony bright said...

Watz so wrong with polygamy? Man n their rules that dnt favour dem.

Anonymous said...

Make she clap for herself. They should stop consoling themselves for marrying other women's husbands. Because I want marry na im I go come be 3rd wife? Marriage na ticket to heaven? Polygamy is a curse upon the family especially the children. This one is called DESPERATION. All these Babangida's children, I don't know whether na wetin una papa do dey follow una. Why can't you guys have a decent marriage just like other big men children, other than beign strange women to other women's husbands. Chai na wao, this one na 3rd hand husband. Big man Don suffer chai! Big man atala mpataka.

Anonymous said...

Make she clap for herself. They should stop consoling themselves for marrying other women's husbands. Because I want marry na im I go come be 3rd wife? Marriage na ticket to heaven? Polygamy is a curse upon the family especially the children. This one is called DESPERATION. All these Babangida's children, I don't know whether na wetin una papa do dey follow una. Why can't you guys have a decent marriage just like other big men children, other than beign strange women to other women's husbands. Chai na wao, this one na 3rd hand husband. Big man Don suffer chai! Big man atala mpataka.

Anonymous said...

Make she clap for herself. They should stop consoling themselves for marrying other women's husbands. Because I want marry na im I go come be 3rd wife? Marriage na ticket to heaven? Polygamy is a curse upon the family especially the children. This one is called DESPERATION. All these Babangida's children, I don't know whether na wetin una papa do dey follow una. Why can't you guys have a decent marriage just like other big men children, other than beign strange women to other women's husbands. Chai na wao, this one na 3rd hand husband. Big man Don suffer chai! Big man atala mpataka.

ololade Salaudeen said...

polygamy is allowed in Islam, but I don't think any Christian lady will want to be 2nd or 3rd wife

Anonymous said...

The taste of the pudding is in the eating. By the time you enter demurrage after 30, even 5th wife no go bad at all. Fewer men + broke men done make marriage matter worse.

Anonymous said...

Chai. Muslim women dont have much of a choice. When they start getting to 30. They don't mind. But women are women. Muslim or Christian, they hate to share. There is God o.

Esther Ene said...

Your reason is not cogent please

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Tell.me how old she is then we can start talking. As she no see husband she Don settle for what's available.


Long live LIB

Anonymous said...

LOW SELF ESTEEM IS THE MAJOR REASON WOMEN AGREE TO BE SECOND AND THIRD BEST. MONEY CAN'T BUY YOU SELF ESTEEM(DITTO HALIMA BABANGIDA).

Kelvin said...

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Anonymous said...

This is rubbish,no decent woman would like to share her man and no serious minded man would want polygamy. Though they said is their religion but decent ones among them maintain one wife. So people should stop decievng themselves. Wait for ur time,he or she will come at the right time of God.

Amaka Ubochi said...

Lousy mind who think that marriage is the greatest achievement in life, there is more to life than marriage

Anonymous said...

Your stupidity has no part two!

Anonymous said...

Your Solomon (The wisest Man of all times according to the Bible) had 700 WIVES; Your Abraham(The Father of Faith) had @ least 2 WIVES [Sarah, Hagar, and Keturah (The Bible is confused about the status of Hagar, somewhere it says WIFE and somewhere else it says CONCUBINE)]; Your David (The man after God's heart) had many WIVES. I guess if you christians don't like these men as role models, you'd sha like Jesus, and guess what he had ZERO WIFE (at least that we know of)

Anonymous said...

My dear,countless numbers of Christian ladies are 2nd,3rd,4th,6th and even 7th wife,it is just that they do their's secretly and some pastors are even encouraging their male church members to marry more than one wife,that it is written in the bible. (Hidden wives)

Anonymous said...

Thank u jare.. As if marriage na ticket to heaven

Anonymous said...

My dad is from s polygamy family, and because of d kinda things ive seen from his family, i cant even marry a guy from polygamous family sef

bukki said...

To them they believe they are securing their future should incase their father dies at least they won't suffer.

choco nix said...

wow some people have issues! Aisha needs to justify what she said... Is Halima getting to the man because she does not have a choice? a lot of things need to be taking into account which we might never know and of which ,of course, is none of our business. Ladies should be free to equally choose and not be chosen.

Anonymous said...

Anon 15:23 God bless you. I couldn't agree with you more! Polygamy is a cancer to any family. I am Christian married to a husband who was Muslim and from a polygamous home. I have come to realise that whether in a Christian our Muslim household, polygamy is a curse. It breeds dysfunctional children and there is so much hurt and unforgiveness children from those homes carry into their adulthood. We all don't have to be married to live fulfilling lives. With the way everything is expensive now, why bring children into the world through many mothers to make them suffer or not have the best of both parents? Why should a man have more than one wife? A carnal law/custom made by men to fulfill their inordinate affection....pls don't tell me God supports it...

Anonymous said...

Madam, woman pletty pass man na naturally, I feel say polygamy better pass adultery or fornication.

Anonymous said...

30 billion in your account, how far can u be second now.

prince said...

It is ladies who had lost hope in themselves that snatch other women's husband or become second hand/ third hand/ fourth hand wife IT IS A DISGRACE

Anonymous said...

But u like divorce and remarrying, like oyinbo culture abi? The truth is that Men are polygamous in nature. Please don't let any man deceive u, be warned.

Anonymous said...

Let them keep fornicating and remain single, time will soon tell them the true story.

imade odibo said...

I wonder- as fine and. Rich as they are.

love ify said...

If u love your wife so much, u won't think of marrying another wife. As simple as that.

Anonymous said...

As in, @hrm Paul, you be Ode o. I don't care what your religion or belief is, if you have a daughter, tell her to go and become a dudes 3rd wife. Illiteracy and over under exposure is killing Hausas in Nigeria. Polygamy is never ever advisable...

grande master said...

I m not married, but I don't think polygamy is a sin, so many great men in the Bible married more than one wives, Solomon David Abraham , the names can still go on, the Muslims allow it, so I don't see any reason to fault a polygamist, men are polygamous in nature, that's why so many marriage s ends up in divorce, and which better home to raise a child, broken homes or polygamy, to me the later. I support polygamy if the man is rich and can take care of them all, but better still one man one woman is the best, but if it doesn't work out rather than adultery, take a second wife or a 3rd if u like provided you have the means, it is no sin against God, trust me thiers alot of hypocrite on these comments who would jump at being dangotes 7th wife

Anonymous said...

That is the dumb thing they are taught in the North. Marriage is the ultimate achievement

uniquechic said...

sorry babes not everyone likes sharing and banging same dude with other women all their lives...I wonda how it works yuck...
while growing up my neigbours den had timetable I mean a wall posted time schedule for whose room d man sleeps in everynight..as d muslim wives all stay under one roof..

now I know things are better done wives have diff apartments now..but na nunnery sure pass if am not already settled dan be a second fiddle...
it takes a very strooong woman to agree to be a list of cowives knowing dey r all sharing HIM....religion or not it sucks

3rd wife wey d other 2 don finish all d goodness from HIS body!!!!

Peace nwadire said...

Everybody is entitled to his or her own opinion, if she like let her be the 30th wife to whosoever, wetin concern me. Nonsense!

Kemcin said...

I rather remain celibate than to go for 2nd wife, my dear listen what works for you can't work for me. What a religion!

Anonymous said...

Remaining single is better than entering into polygamy

Anonymous said...

Your the deceived one dear...get well soon

Anonymous said...

Lol you guys make the same statements over again. Just because these men had more than one wife does not make it okay for a man to have more than one wife.
If you want to see God will and plan for mankind you will see that in the story of adam n eve.

Marrying more than one wife is not natural and brings along so much drama abd of course jealously. God is not an author of confusion. Get well soon b

Anonymous said...

Sorry darling it is a sin. Study the bible well. Just because some great men in the bible married more than one wife doesnt make it okay.

Anyway as they say each to their own.

Anonymous said...

Some of the comments here are crazy. So many people need to study the bible properly instead of picking points out and making conclusions. Education is key o.
God is not the author of confusion.
Those saying polygamy is not a sin...get valid points
These men in the bible who God used their actions also caused huge consequences and still affecting us today especially david and solomon.

Anonymous said...

@grande master please if you are not a muslim or pagan and you attend church please theres need for you to get closer to God by studying his words so you can know what the bible says about polygamy.

Anonymous said...

@grande master please if you are not a muslim or pagan and you attend church please theres need for you to get closer to God by studying his words so you can know what the bible says about polygamy.

Anonymous said...

That's old testament

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