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Wednesday, 17 May 2017

"I still want my woman to serve me food and kneel down" 9ice talks about the problem with modern marriages, says marriage is not for this generation

Singer 9ice sat down for an interview with veteran TV personality Funmi Iyanda and they got to discuss 9ice's broken marriage specifically and marriages in general.
Iyanda recalled the last time she saw him was at his house when he was still married to his first wife. She said she was sad that his marriage hit the rocks and asked if he was married again as the papers report. This he denied.

When Funmi asked him to clear the air on his status, the Gongo Aso singer launched into an explanation on the problem with modern day marriages.

"I'm single but I'm not searching because it's not part of my priority right now. I've dealt with this topic so many times and people just tend to take the negative side of it but it's like they don't understand what I'm saying because they're not in my shoe."

He continued: "Marriage is not for this generation... I have my reasons(for saying that) because, as a Nigerian, as a Yoruba man, there are some culture and tradition that you're being taught when you're being brought up as a man. You want the same thing from your wife (but) you're not going to get it from today's woman. because then we have exposure. They are the ones that sent us to school. And I still want my woman to serve me food and kneel down. Ejo Aunty, who's going to do that for me now?"

He added: "but you're not going to get that as a man, so we today's men, we need to get that into our thick skull that you're not going to get the same thing your mom is giving to your dad. You are going to get something different because who you're getting married to is quite different from your mom. But we are not ready. That's why you see that this generation are losing marriages, six months and it's dissolved. 



He went on to advise people to marry for the right reasons and not out of societal pressures and asked that people are certain beyond all reasonable doubt before going into marriage. He warned couples not to go through with marriages if they become uncertain before walking down the aisle.  Citing his wedding as an example, the father-of- four revealed that he had a moment of doubt before he tied the knot but had to go through with it for fear of what people will say.

"Before you go to the altar, like five to ten minutes, your mind will be telling you that this thing is not going to work," he said and when Iyanda asked if that happened to him, he replied, "It happened to me, but I felt it because I was like 'come on, I have so many things to lose more than what I'm going to gain'. Because if I do that, it's like I'm against the rest of the world."

He advised: "So we should hundred percent get married for what will make you happy. Regardless of the culture, regardless of your parents, get married because you want to get married. Get married because it will make you happy. Don't get married because Tinuke got married."

See the full interview below.

59 comments:

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Issokay


... Merited happiness

Anonymous said...

No wonder ur marriage failed. Go to Gbongan or irepodun and search for that wife. Good luck

Anonymous said...

Nice one 9ice

Anonymous said...

Kudos to u

Anonymous said...

These guy is an inglorious Fool..
Can U Imagine.?
I knew he has dumped the last Baby Mama..
Its a shame when U impregnated 3 Women with 4 kids ..don't U think the problwm is from U with ur wandering dick..
Wife to kneel down & serve U Food abi.? Oponu ni Bobo yi sha.
Entitled Monkey..
Ur time don go with the way U treated ur 1st wife that brought you out of Gutter and U think U don arrive and st@rt misbehaving even to the Man that produced ur 2nd and Best album..
Na Curse dey worry U from all the people U stepped on their toes without them even coming out to say shit... They left U for God to deal with..
That's why ur Career disappeared from the surface of the earth.
Fuck off Fool.
I thought U said U have retired from Music .?
Ur Voice sound like shit from a prisoner ass (Mercy Aigbe Mumu Hubby ass)..
Fuck outta here..
Ur time don pass with ur wicked attitude.
Arrogant prick.

Anonymous said...

U r right my brother. The women out there are either Gold diggers or status hungry. Too much ego. And church isn't changing them either.

Anonymous said...

These guy is an inglorious Fool..
Can U Imagine.?
I knew he has dumped the last Baby Mama..
Its a shame when U impregnated 3 Women with 4 kids ..don't U think the problwm is from U with ur wandering dick..
Wife to kneel down & serve U Food abi.? Oponu ni Bobo yi sha.
Entitled Monkey..
Ur time don go with the way U treated ur 1st wife that brought you out of Gutter and U think U don arrive and st@rt misbehaving even to the Man that produced ur 2nd and Best album..
Na Curse dey worry U from all the people U stepped on their toes without them even coming out to say shit... They left U for God to deal with..
That's why ur Career disappeared from the surface of the earth.
Fuck off Fool.
I thought U said U have retired from Music .?
Ur Voice sound like shit from a prisoner ass (Mercy Aigbe Mumu Hubby ass)..
Fuck outta here..
Ur time don pass with ur wicked attitude.
Arrogant prick.

Anonymous said...

He had better grow up. Marriage is for this generation but women can't be slaves again. They just demand equal rights as men. Why shld she kneel down before you, r u God? Pls what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Anonymous said...

Go marry ur Village sisters or relations to come and kneel down & serve U food.
Oponu Oderinde.
Mumu personified.

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Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

U can't get such in this modern days,bcos most men has aboundon their so call responsibility for their wives.mbok!

Anonymous said...

Local bred illiterate

nony bright said...

Kul

Crush said...

Misogynist

Anonymous said...

Nuisance it's not your fault

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CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Stupid man go an marry your mother!


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Anonymous said...

Actually

Anonymous said...

He is right tho, marriage of 21st century will never be like dat of our parents, and true many pple marry for the wrong reasons these days, fear of what society will say, fear of if u don't go through with him u might never meet someone like him even tho all ur heart is telling u don't go through with it,fear of getting old unmarried peer pressure.

oiza said...

He's such a fool in this day and age? In other words you still want women to Remain naive.. And she will still be contributing as you or more than you financially.. Go to your village and pick her mofo!

Anonymous said...

Please I need an advice on what to do, I have a friend who are husband sister and brother doesn't give a single respect by calling her by name, bcoz dey senior her, even her mother_ in _law, was telling my friend dat she should kneeling down to dem, bcoz dis my friend doesn't want to tell her husband what is going on, my friend is living with her in-laws, when I visit her, I experienced it ,I was shocked by seen d way dey called their (big brother wife by name,(No respect at all), I just can't get it off my mind, bcoz no matter how small a wife can be, you have to give her, her respect.
Please what do u think dis my friend should do and please is it right ?

Anonymous said...

See this Idiot talking! How many baby mamas do you have? Sperm donor! Why don't you kneel down to God and beg him to help control your dick! Goat!

uniquechic said...

hahahahah I laff in greek!!! ds ancient idea is not even our parents generation na lord luggard generation....I never for once saw my mum kneel down or even bend and dey have been married for 40yrs..who kneeling down Epp..I didnt see anyones parent doing dat growing up... puleeeez he is d one with big issues dats y he cant stick to a woman..
Arrant nonsense!! so cos I kneel I will have d best marriage..wot happened to dining tables and trays lmao...no be only kneel..
The issues ppl have in marriages are much deeper and also spiritual not all ds traditional things dese one dey talk..someone can kneel for u and poison u tomorrow.
He shd look inside and find out why he cant commit to a woman for long..or he is looking for d wrong things in d women he has been picking.

Execpt he goes bak in time(time traveller) he will search taya for kneeling down respectable wife for ds generation..wia men are even cooking and helping dia wives in d kitchen..and if he suceeds and finds such a woman he shd be very careful of pretence...odikwa risky!!!

Toy baby said...

I think u should go back to the old generation to pick your grandmother as a wife, that is d only place u can get a wife that will serve u on her knees. Come, what did u understand by been humble and respect, it is not by prostrating or by kneeling down for anybody u see, it is by being humble by heart.
U want a wife that will kill u with her knees. Come off it! If u are dreaming, u better wake up...then u need to check yourself and ask yourself also why are ladies leaving you?..... Keep sampling o, baba japojapo

Anonymous said...

READ O WOMEN READ. He did not say anything bad. He is asking men to catch up with the times and be realistic. He did not say women should kneel down.

Vivian Reginalds said...

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Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...Nice one

Anonymous said...

Haha...you must be 1 of those whose toes he stepped on,if not! Dem born you naturally miserable nii. Go and fill form if you wan follow 9ice drag

AGB said...

Why do we have such terrible comprehension problems in Naija na?
9ice never said anywhere in this interview that he wants his wife to kneel and serve him. He was only citing an example using the illustration that if for instance you grew up seeing your mom kneel to serve your dad and you grew up with that mentality that your wife must be exactly like your mother then you're on a long thing in this present day. He clearly explained that it's those kinds of rigid 'wants' and 'needs' from people that create unnecessary friction in today's marriages. Clearly,he also said up there that people should only love cos of love and all the reasons they think are right for the two parties involved as opposed to 'being in love' due to pressure and all other societal factors.

Agbomen said...

Mm-hmmm. Laughing in my dialect.

Anonymous said...

Nigeria is no longer as cultured as it once were. He needs to adapt to this new age (feminism) because I don't think any woman would do that.

chinenye070 said...

This explains why your first marriage failed. You were actually looking for a maid not a wife. How many times have you knelt down for God in your church before while praying. And how many people have you knelt down for in your whole miserable life. You couldn't even manage your family not to even talk of your musical career. Sit down there and wait for the victim that will be serving you food while kneeling. Ewu Pam 3 from 4

David Yemo said...

You sre d type of bitch he is talking about..unfaithful and pass around hoe

zulkarnaini shehu bazzah said...

these word or statement you made is exactly as your name 9ce.
kudos to u

Sola Jegede said...

Try and understand this guy. What he wants is what he can't get drom today ladies and he decided to remain single. Good for u 9ice

Anonymous said...

Is it a bad thing that God helped you rise? Can't you improve yourself? Must you remain the gutter person you were??

You take some people out of the gutter, they will refuse to shower!! Illiterate

Vivian Emaduku said...

All this insult for Nice? You dey para ooooo

Jay Emmant said...

Why women forgetting their place??? Modern days my foot, that's why a lot of you can't marry, ndi ara go rewrite bible, yeye dey smell.

Cynthia Obi said...

Nothing person no go hear!me kneel down serve my husband food?after stressing myself to make that food? I think u are mad my brother.... Onye ara

Cynthia Obi said...

Nothing person no go hear!me kneel down serve my husband food?after stressing myself to make that food? I think u are mad my brother.... Onye ara

Jay Emmant said...

Are you alright at all?? U talk too much like an imbecile.

Jay Emmant said...

Some women are talking from their anus, u want equal right with men? Hahahahaha dream of the year.

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Anonymous said...

Skinny fool..no wonder he has no career and the politics he delved in didn't come out successfully..go and marry ur mother to serve u food and kneel down.
Who would want to be with this ugly and skinny dirty looking brokeass nigger

Roman God said...

No, I don't want my wife to kneel down and serve me food. I want my wife to go out there and achieve her goals and aspirations. I want my kids to be proud of her contributions to the world. How can we evolve when all we do is marginalize our women? Wake up people!

Anonymous said...

I am sure d idiot can't even live up to his responsibilities as a man. Some Foolish men everywhere.

Anonymous said...

Cheryl, c'mon no need to insult him. It's very simple. His mum should get him a wife and just like our culture used to be, as an "Omo rere," he should accept it. No he won't na, because like all hypocrites he'll embrace certain parts of our culture that favors him. Please nobody should insult this one, let him use his tongue to count his teeth.

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Nkechi Ibe said...

How much agsin is in ur bank account? Bullcrap.it can still hapoen for u sha..enter one primitive village n get a bride then enjoy all d bowing n kneeling down

Anonymous said...

A woman is a person not a maid if you are looking for someone to seeve you employ a maid,stop disturbing us with your chauvinistic comments and go and join Donald trump, ,,,u nid sense

Anonymous said...

Modern day really, why should a woman wake up at 4am, leave for a stressful work at 6am, come in at 8pm and hubby is back then she goes into the kitchen, cooks and kneels to serve food. On top the food I contribution, on top the house running I contributed to, u must be a joker. Why do u go around looking for a working lady to be a wife so she can suppprt u financially. U no well at all.

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Segun Micheals said...

Abi... all the girls are against 9ice just because he said the truth. It's true, marriage is not for this generation. No girl wants to be loyal to any man. God help us...

Anonymous said...

He wants a woman like his mother yet he has children from modern, educated and established women. What an irony! Better go to a remote area and look for a girl that you can order around everyday. For your info, a modern woman made you what you are today

Anonymous said...

dear 9ice

i cud nt sleep last nite bcos ur song living thing hunted me.in dat song all u re after is to make money in any way possible,wat m abt to say is not out of beef bt of disappointment.u went on hailing yahoo boys,encouraging d act,if u dont hv wat to sing abt dnt sing.pls i beg of u dont encourage rubbish,we hv enuff to deal with in nigeria already.i bought ur first album nd still listens to it cos its a classic nd i will buy it a thousand times.u luk confused nd nobody will even vote u 4 asst class rep.if u wonder y ur com back to d music industry will fail,its bcos u will b competing with pple lik tekno nd u knw y?bcos u re 3310 nd he is andriod so he has alot to offer in dis present day,chew on dat.

thanks
good nigerian

Anonymous said...

Yoruba demon! Segun See your ugly face, loyal ko! You guys aint shit!!!! Empty barrels feeling entitiled! Loyal that you are who na??? Mark Zuckerberg?? who you epp? Who you serve??? All these broke boys feeling cool.

Ushie Blessing said...

Ok oo I hear

ola philip said...

If you cannot walk up to someone to criticise or abuse him
Don't bother to do it hear
Nigeria problems are nigerians

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