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Monday, 8 May 2017

Huddah Monroe shades Mercy Aigbe, says women are to blame for not walking away from violent marriages

Kenyan socialite and former BBA star, Huddah Monroe took to Instagram shade actress, Mercy Aigbe, whose marriage to Lanre Gentry has broken down over domestic violence allegations. There have been back and forth rants over this on social media between husband and wife. Huddah feels Mercy and other women chose to stay in their marriages even when they know their husbands are violent. Read her rant after the cut...




56 comments:

Chioms said...

I can't agree less
"Social media is a bunch of stranger following you....they don't need to know what's happening in your life" cos really they don't care....we don't care!

osazee iyekekpolo said...

Crazily true.

Anonymous said...

It's high time people "stopped"..not "stop:

Anonymous said...

It's high time people " stopped ". . not "stop"

MAYBUMS123 said...

For the first time I totally agree with this ashawo she is right ovsay no to domestic starts with YOU

ary said...

She could not have said it any better

Anonymous said...

That is why U will remain single for the rest of your life...idiot....To marry a Nigeria female celebrity is like getting sucide rope for urself because you will die before your time....small thing they will come on social media and claim its domenstic violence. Very useless set of women in industry this days retired prostitute. They use social media to gain sympathy for them self . Even when the celeb is caught cheating red handed and the man react their will still blame the man. I pity who will come and marry una. If its left to me....all of una go die of conji....Better go buy vibrator like Mercy Macjoe does always.... Na because of this issue make Rita Donmic enter menopus no man gree marry her....cause no man on his rightful sense will see all this campaign and come for her....Anyway na una biz...Written by Ruben Abati

Anonymous said...

That is why U will remain single for the rest of your life...idiot....To marry a Nigeria female celebrity is like getting sucide rope for urself because you will die before your time....small thing they will come on social media and claim its domenstic violence. Very useless set of women in industry this days retired prostitute. They use social media to gain sympathy for them self . Even when the celeb is caught cheating red handed and the man react their will still blame the man. I pity who will come and marry una. If its left to me....all of una go die of conji....Better go buy vibrator like Mercy Macjoe does always.... Na because of this issue make Rita Donmic enter menopus no man gree marry her....cause no man on his rightful sense will see all this campaign and come for her....Anyway na una biz...Written by Ruben Abati

Anonymous said...

She's right!

Anonymous said...

Simply because we guys don't come to social media and talk about violent women,every blame is now on us.

Nnenne George said...

She stayed because of ojukòkokoro.. long throat for his money.. and also to answer "mrs" someborri. Now we won't hear word.. everyday somebody will be disturbing my peace with "say no to domestic violence" slogan as if she was glued to the man with dogtape..

Nnenne George said...

She stayed because of ojukòkokoro.. long throat for his money.. and also to answer "mrs" someborri. Now we won't hear word.. everyday somebody will be disturbing my peace with "say no to domestic violence" slogan as if she was glued to the man with ductape..

Nnenne George said...

She stayed because of ojukòkokoro.. long throat for his money.. and also to answer "mrs" someborri. Now we won't hear word.. everyday somebody will be disturbing my peace with "say no to domestic violence" slogan as if she was glued to the man with duct tape..

Anonymous said...

It's "high time people stopped" not stop.

Anonymous said...

True talk... God bless you

Anonymous said...

Hudda shut up.

Anonymous said...

Stupid ignorant prostitute. Is she married? Some foolish man's sidechick who thinks she is a marriage counsellor.

The pressure and resources put into marriage in the first place, would make anyone think twice before wanting to consider the word divorce.

After that, the children, not having anywhere to go to, where they won't return you to sender, the shame.

No one should suffer in silence, but she is absolutely right, no one should stay in an abusive relationship because of the children, the trauma and example set for those children, will scar them for life, and what's the point of being the dutiful mother or wife, if one day you end up in a body bag? Your children will rather have you alive and free from abuse, than battered and unable to function, probably eventually focusing your anger and frustration on them, for problems you walked into.

Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

See this ashawo,who ask for her opinion, I beg pack well

Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

See this ashawo,who ask for her opinion, I beg pack well

Anonymous said...

Where exactly is your stand...abi you just type rubbish

merryfrancee said...

And you think your opinion matters? Small girl.. stfu!.. and marry 1st!.. every body is now a marriage councillor!!!.. bad radiance for complete bad rubbish!!!!

gentle said...

She's kind of right.

Anonymous said...

Stop contradicting yourself. Which is it? Should be stay or leave? Based on "the pressure and resources put into the marriage"?

Anonymous said...

No she is not right.
Her reality and how she grew up is different from others.
You cant expect someone that grew up in a stable environment to be expectant of violence.
And when it happens they first blame themselves and try to be better.
And then try to maintain an image they think is expected of them.
They do all untill they lose or almost lose their lives. It doesnt mean tgey are stupid, its just that they try to hold on and hope for a reality that doesn't exist.
#moodybetie

Anonymous said...

Fuck what she thing!! It's high time yuall should start teaching Women how to manage their tongue and respect their husband too !!!

Onah Caleb said...

She seems somehow right jare.

Vera Okeke said...

Weda she's a prostitute or not, she's right, y bash her and den concur with Wah she said....ppl of ds worl...smh

MissVee

Anonymous said...

She is so right... Tell them

Anonymous said...

She doesn't seem right, she is right....

Kanayo Agu said...

Perfect statement.

Anonymous said...

Ode how old are you? Are you not a small girl.?it is obvious you don't understand English. Kindly tell someone to read and xplain it to you so that you can understand...

Anonymous said...

You are obviously frustrated...you are not making sense

ken christy said...

It's not that easy to walk away but it's only GOD's grace that can save us women from abusive husbands or even change the situations.

Nkem4eva said...

Biko shush joor. If you've never been in those shoes you can't have an authoritative opinion. No one walks into a marriage to work out. Thankfully she didn't get killed. She walked before it got to that point.

wrightabidemi1 said...

Some people are here abusing her for saying the simple truth,nothing but the truth! Why stay when you can away,family pressure,what society would say or because of the children? Let's all be honest,are these reasons good enough to stay in a marriage/ relationship to get battered over and over again and the next thing is to come to social media? Walking away isn't eabut don't forget these same people would turn around and blame you for not walking away. We are 2faced for abusing Monroe for saying the truth,let's look at women killed due through domestic violences ,didn't some people blame them for not walking away or abandon the marriage,she doesn't need to be married to know what to do.

Ushie Blessing said...

She is right

oyaluna blessing said...

If a man beats you and u want to remain in the marriage, go and mobilize guys to beat him back so that he won't do it again.

Dotty said...

The lady is right. Life has no duplicate.A woman with her correct senses should leave immediately her husband beats her the first time. Once a beater, always a beater. If he kills you, in a corrupt society like ours, he may get away with it. He will move on and remarry. If you have children, his new wife will become their mother. Women should not allow society put pressure on them to stay in an abusive relationship. Love yourself and your children first and run as fast as your legs will carry you.

Anonymous said...

Why insult her and still agree ton what she said? You obviously hates her for no reason. May God forgive your hurtful soul

Anonymous said...

She is soooo right. If women say no to DV, men would start respecting women.

Anonymous said...

She is soooo right. If women say no to DV, men would start respecting women.

Anonymous said...

nothing good can come out of some hoes other than 'walk away'. some olosho wifes will now use 'domestic violence' as excuses to junmp ship, if their hubby raised their voice. anything reach naija no dey end. pls it's not also okay to provoke your partner delibrately to the extent of then ruff-handling you.

Anonymous said...

God bless u for this write up! Ur damn right!

Anonymous said...

She is right but sometimes its not that simple. Some people have nowhere to go. Especially when kids are involved. Some people need to save and build something before they can go. Some others thier lives are threatened big thet decide to go and they have to run far. So many issues make it not as straight forward. But the right thing is to leave.

Anonymous said...

So from the later part of what you wrote, i gather that you agree with her. However you just thot it would do your ego some good to insult and call her names first. It's a reflection on your poor self esteem. Your see a beautiful woman, who says something intelligent, who has the guts to say it just as it is and you immediately feel inferior and threatened. I feel sorry for you, whoever you are, man or woman.

Anonymous said...

Jealousy no good oh! And you are not an option urself? It takes one to know one, goat!

Anonymous said...

If you cannot do it, you stfu and let people with the intelligence do. You do not have to be married to counsel, dumbass.

Anonymous said...

Go back and live in the stone age, you sound like a caveman. An ape in fact.

Anonymous said...

She made a good point, but the area reasons who women dinner leave their marriages. In the larger scheme of things, those reasons aren't enough. I'm expanding on those reasons, not saying they are right.

You're all a collection of intellectually stunted idiots, otherwise you would realise that the only thing I agree with, in her fucked up write up, is that you mustn't use the excuse of staying for the children as an excuse.

Anonymous said...

Joyous babe the stick wey dey enter your body Na wetin.... The kettle calling the pot Black. Ode go and sleep.

chinelo okafor said...

U don Baff?
Who ur Correction Epp?!
Stfu abeg...

chinelo okafor said...

Go get a life, Don't insult Ruben abati abeg! Ur a nobody!!

Mumu mmadu...

chinelo okafor said...

Mpama

chinelo okafor said...

Mmehhh

Anonymous said...

You sabi

Anonymous said...

Anon 11.14, what's her being beautiful, got to do with her telling victims of domestic violence that "nobody gives a fuck" about their plight? Especially when she has no first hand experience of the situation, beyond allegedly witnessing it?

Stupid isn't a respector of aesthetics, she needed a clapback, and I'm happy to oblige.

I'm informed enough to acknowledge a single valid point she made, but the overall assessment of her opinion, led to an informed conclusion, that her statement was superficial, insensitive and crass.

Those who confront domestic violence are brave, no one should ever blame the victim, and to reduce their speaking out to attention seeking, is antifeministic and enabling of more violence.

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