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Thursday, 11 May 2017

Beautiful woman says her beauty makes it hard for her to find true love

Everyone hopes to be more beautiful than they are but there is one woman who doesn't feel that a beautiful face is a blessing. 26-year-old Cherelle Neille from Manchester is claiming that she is unable to find a boyfriend because of how beautiful she looks.

According to the former model, her beautiful face is a curse because it only attracts men who see her as a trophy and only want her to show off to their friends and take lovely photos.
She went on to say that her looks can make men intimidated by her, with most assuming she doesn't have a nice personality.


The single mother has now given up on love because, according to her, she is sick of men objectifying her. She said her only wish is for men to like her for who she is within and her character, not just because of her external appearance.
"I feel as though plain Janes have it easier because men will actually get to know their personality as their looks are merely average," she said.

"Whereas for me, it's always the wrong attention, they never want to know me as a person. Plain girls end up with the long lasting relationships and I'm the one kissing all the frogs. I am sick of people assuming I am nasty when I am really a lovely person. My looks attract the wrong guys and it has been really hard, now I am completely over men. They continually think just because I'm good looking, I am going to be rude or stuck up. They say to me 'oh you think you are too good-looking don't you?' - which is ridiculous."
Cherelle added:
"Whenever I am on a date, they only care about what I look like, they never even listen to what I am saying. My last boyfriend just paraded me around to his friends and only cared about having his photo taken with me. No man I've met so far is ever actually interested in having a conversation with me."
Cherelle, who has more than 23,000 followers on Instagram, also claims that being attractive has also affected her friendships negatively.
"Girls are jealous too, I only really have one friend. There was this one time I was clubbing with my friend and when we were in the bathroom, loads of girls I didn't know were complimenting me, my hair and my looks. Then suddenly my friend walked out and left the club, and she hasn't talked to me since!"
She added: "
If I see a pretty girl I will definitely tell them every time what I love about them, it's nice to be nice. I just don't associate myself with many girls as friends anymore. I find a lot of girls are insecure and don't know how to compliment each other, other than the drunk strangers in bathrooms. On my Instagram I receive countless spiteful messages. One girl messaged me saying 'you think you're so pretty but you're not, go kill yourself.' Another guy recently messaged me saying 'you think you are too good for everyone.' I just wish people didn't judge a book by its cover, because I am not like that."
Cherelle said she doesn't want to be less pretty but she just wants men to take the time to know her for herself and listen to her, not just compliment her looks. She is funny and loves to laugh and she hopes men will see that too.

57 comments:

obiora said...

Keep fooling yourself!

Chike TEFLON said...

You go dey alright last last... Inugo?

Nadreb said...

Sweetheart, I agree with her, most men go for beautiful women to sleep with them first, they dont want to settle with one, they feeel its a treat, I have the same situation and sometimes ask God if it is a crime to be beautiful.

Anonymous said...

This happens a lot to women with that extra 'look'. The best thing for her is to focus on amassing as much money as she can, make herself comfortable and pray. Life is a bitch sometimes. At the same time, she doesn't need to go with just anybody to please the public. If all fails, she should head to intercontinental hotel Lagos Nigeria whenever there is a wedding. Omoh,she will find at least two Nigerian men willing to marry her on the spot! Hahaha. God's time is the best.

Okorie Rowland said...

Beauty is not a crime ,all you can do is step up your game ,go for the right reason a serious guy can knock on your door

adenrele adekunbi huldah said...

I NEED A HOT HUSBAND THAT IS GOOD IN BED

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Sorry 🙏

oki royalty said...

eyaa,Pele God will give u Mr Right very soon.

Hrm paul said...

Rubbish talk

Anonymous said...

Let her come over to Nigeria

musicnation wohlay said...

If the guy of your dreams won't come to you,why not go to him! ;)

Mamush said...

Is all rite

Morgan said...

na, she should just work out a formula based on her

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condition to get a man. there is no use in complaining or giving up. lots of beautiful women still find love.

chinelo okafor said...

Hmmmmm!! Hope she was not a man (trans) ooo...

victor kelvin said...

Biko where's the beauty.... mtcheww she just wants us to see her pictures and get more followers on IG.

Anonymous said...

True talk, at times I feel disgusted when I ask men why they love me they say because I am beautiful. I am grateful to God though.

Anonymous said...

It's not fault, a lot of pretty girls have nasty characters that's why men assume all girls are like that

GoldenLily said...

Thought I'm the only one going through this, but it's well, Godwin

Anonymous said...

Your friends are right. You actually think too highly of yourself. Try changing that and see what happens.

Anonymous said...

Come to me and ill show u true love like u never felt all ur life

Roman God said...

I can relate to every single word she said. So people think I'm a playa just cuz I'm 6'2 ft tall with a muscular body. They have this pre conceived notion that I'm overly rude and self absorbed. Sadly, most females don't want anything serious with me. When they need someone to warm their bed, I'm their go-to guy. I used to enjoy it when I was younger. Now its a bit played out.

Anonymous said...

So you people believe her cos she is from London and abroad if it were to be a Nigerian girl they will call her attention seeker

Anonymous said...

She can look ugly in order to attract serious men.is not difficult to look ugly, just do away with make ups

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

It's so true. Have seen a lot pretty girlfriends with same issue .


Long live LIB

Anonymous said...

Nice talk kelvin

Faith Ogaga's (SIM-MATES ACCESSORIES) said...

Love your comment!

Anonymous said...

Lady give ur life to Jesus. He makes all things beautiful in His time

Vivian Reginalds said...

nne you'd find him soon.
TBH, it's so true!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Like you sisters abi. Just type rubbish and paste. Mtschewwwwee

Effiong Udoyo said...

Wrong impression

Anonymous said...

I can relate to her situation, it seems your beauty is all what the men sees not your character. Though it opens lots of doors so I console myself with that.

APPLE said...

Maybe your attitude stinks.

gentle said...

Eeya..sorry. I feel your pain. I hope you get uglier.

Adieze Onyekachi said...

It could also be that she thinks she is too beautiful and finds it difficult to see a guy that completely compliments her beauty. Beautiful girls get plenty shakara.

Anonymous said...

Sorry 'bout your experience. You sound really
articulate and chilled. My advice? Take your case to God in prayer. He'll sort you out in no time.

Emeka Izuogu said...

I understand her..don't worry the right one will come

They will come in Linda's voice

Peace nwadire said...

Odiegwuoooo ooooooh

N said...



I Truly do feel her pain to an extent.

Men assume I'm in a serious relationship already if not 'wifed' up so they don't try, or they get intimidated all together and still don't try.

And when they do, I get the same reaction every time with an apology. Like they hardly expect an Educated, Tall & Beautiful girl (by the grace of God) with substance, knowledge & wisdom. Like I'm too good to be true, then they focus on finding your flaws. Not knowing you're also humble and a born again Christian.

The fact is, Really beautiful girls hardly get approached, even more so when she's tall! Men would always feel like they're competing, when in reality he might be the only one she's talking to.

The worst is when they can't find your flaw so they assume you're probably 'under g' or low-key about your shit. And I am, not just Hoeing!

And that's why you see Beautiful women when no so good-looking but probably well-to-do men that have the balls to approach her and woe her... Cuz he has nothing to lose and all to gain if he wins her over.


Anonymous said...

Women who have no girlfriends are but he's, it's been like that forever. She's just full of herself. Truely beautiful women have friends she's not all that

Anonymous said...

Come nigeria, a17 year old boy go ask u out sharply.......

Anonymous said...

Roman God na your type I like, but no be so so flashy babes Una dey like. I am not flashy but I would be loyal, I am good like that.

ola philip said...

Roman God abi wetin be your name na noise you dey make abeg

Anonymous said...

That's true men feel we are good not enough to be wives or girlfriends.some say I look like a player but how can you just judge someone you don't even know too well.

Kiama Ibe said...

Too busy to comment to this shit

Anonymous said...

This is so true! I am a Nigerian living Good looking and run my own business.
And i can relate with everything this girl said.

Debbie Edwards said...

What an idiot!

Agbomen said...

You call yourself "Roman God" with a capital G. You r a bit self absorbed, if you ask me.

Agbomen said...

Hilarious!!!

Agbomen said...

Let's not pretend being beautiful is a burden. If your attitude stinks, that's where you've got a problem. Men will always be attracted to you, but if your attitude is bad, you hv a problem. No body wants to be around someone with a bad attitude. So you try to work on yourself. It's hard, but u got to try anyway.

Aquachib said...

Marriage is àll about sex

Aquachib said...

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That u didn't see it doesn't mean she isnt a beauty to behold. Gbam!

Uchechi Igbo said...

I feel her pain. I totally understand.

kisbykay (Travelling Agency) said...

I can relate to her story. Glad I found love at last. Don't give up hope babes

Anonymous said...

God bless this girl. Exactly my problem. Ifire. No be only me get this wahala.

Anonymous said...

She's not fooling herself. Same thing is happening to me

Anonymous said...

Some people think she's lying but trust me, I thought I was the only one that was going through this.
Atyms I don't wear makeup when going out. It's that serious

Anonymous said...

Abi o. Don't mind them. They allow the beauty go into their heads and become arrogant and selfish. And most of them are beauties without brains.

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