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Thursday, 20 April 2017

TBoss breaks her silence, says she will no longer allow herself to be put in situations that trivialize what happened to her

Tokunbo 'TBoss' Idowu has finally reacted to all the negative attention that followed Kemen's disqualification in the BBN house and backlash against Nigerian comedians who used it to create jokes in her presence. In videos made available minutes ago on her official Instagram page, TBoss thanked Nigerians for their support and revealed that she will now align herself with courses that promote and uphold values she holds dear. In her words;
"First of all, I will like to thank everyone who supported me in my Big Brother Naija journey. I'm beyond grateful for your time and the immense efforts and resources to get me to the Top 3. It has been a big adjustment for me coming back home to Nigeria concerning the attention my participation in the show attracted. Why I've tried to adjust as fast as I can, certain incidents have happened in the past week that have been difficult to shake off. I am not unaware of the the thousands who raised their voices in my defence. I am extremely grateful to you all. I have realized for the foreseeable future, I will always be in the eye of the storm and that is why I have chosen to be measured in my approach and speech. I am however not oblivious to it all. Words are powerful but actions speak louder. Over the next few weeks, I will align myself with several courses that promote and uphold values I hold dear. Going forward, I will no longer allow myself to be put in situations that trivialize and attempt to normalize the unfortunate incident that happened to me on March 5th in the Big Brother Naija house. Conversations must be had on the importance of consent. Thank you so much guys for listening to me. This is TBoss."

133 comments:

mee link said...

Ok

Barbiegyal said...

Muahhh.go nd shine bby girl ure a star.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Okay


... Merited happiness

Anonymous said...

Next time u cover up ur disgusting breast and not act so loose.

Bonita Bislam said...

Slay Mama. This storm has only made you strong. Ride on the stallion of your passion
I got ya baby!

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Aww TBoss boo, we love you moon to back,you are simply the best,so much love❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Wishing you all the best life can offer๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ #BOSSBATION๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿฝ



~glo rule your world~ cos I do•

Aliona marshall said...

You are a woman of strength and power! I use to believe that people with tattoos and piercings are crazy until I met you on my TV! Thanks for being yourself! Nobody can run you down Miss Tokunbo Idowu aka TBoss!
I like your charisma, you good heart and for being who you are without pretending to be poor or a saint! I love you more because of your flaws and I liked when you cried because it proves to me and everybody else that you are a human being! God will continue to bless you and prosper you! My whole family loves you! You are a woman of virtue.

nSI CAn said...

Tokunbo, abeg go hug transformer...must u keep reminding us??..Should Kemen be nailed to the cross for you to feel better??..It is obvious u have a heart of STONE!...Learn to forgive and live on...

Chinyere said...

Attention seeker......

Anonymous said...

Hahaha. Wn are u going to go naked. That is your stock in trade. Now playing innocent. You for wear bra talk now. Yeye de smell.

Anonymous said...

@Aliona marshall: "...I love you more bcos of ur flaws, I love it when you cry, ..and all".
Hey Sir/Madam, is this rather a love letter you are writing? Sounds more like one.

Anonymous said...

You're just an attention seeking irritating lady. You had an opportunity to get a fellow contestant out of the show and you took it. Don't come here claiming not to have consented to what happened. Action speaks louder than words.

dagbolu said...

great speech

Rebecca Udosen said...

My lover... my friend...my boo though I'm yet to physically meet you. Nice one

Cream said...

Tee baby forever.we love you sooo much.bossnation rules

Anonymous said...

You're a very strong woman Tboss. Hold On to your dreams and Do Not allow distractions pull you backwards. We Love you!

Anonymous said...

Hmmm rily! Tboss Tboss! You are rily a drama queen. Looking at everything that has happened in the bbn house, I still want to understand ur kind of person.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm rily! Tboss Tboss! You are rily a drama queen. Looking at everything that has happened in the bbn house, I still want to understand ur kind of person.

Nigerian Health Blog said...

The fact is remains it was a game of perversion and kemen only decided to play it to the full.

Anonymous said...

Did u get other housemate consent before exposing ur breast to them and the whole world. playing the victim after a shameful display wont gain u any fame. What the guy did was bad but your behavior didnt promote any decent value if u have any at all. Now every member of ur family wants to cash in on the BBnaija fame. You all go do something better. Coming third in BBnaija is now an achievement na waoh. You represent every thing wrong about a decent hardworking woman. Go fall on the arms of ur sugar daddy private jet owners they may buy u a flat in the Ikoyi building.

raul said...

Dear Tboss I wish to inform you that you were not the victim and as for ur information consent is either express or implied and u were guilty if implied consent so don't even bother u should have known better Raul Gonzaleze says so

Amanfo Williams said...

you re a strong woman..
go girl.

#TeamBossNation

Mrs said...

U re evil and a wizard too.

Anonymous said...

Nice one president. She addressed the Nation in the most impeccable way. I salute you and may your reign be long. Long live the queen.

Anonymous said...

Are you filing a law suit ? This is how your message is coming across . Or is it just me that's reading this and not understanding ? Please can someone make it clearer ?

Anonymous said...

Fuck you haters!!! Psychos who think rape and sexual assault is okay.

Hrm paul said...

Abeg madam d show is over go and get a life look for something to do i wont be surprised if u go on social media and drop more videos na ur way u keep seeking attention ur second gifty d lying chck don relax.

OSINANL said...

awwww...
I Love you TBoss

Aliona marshall said...

Lol! If a completely firm and standing breast is disgusting, I wonder how you will discribe your mother's breast or your own saggy breast fool!
So Ngozika, u think we wouldn't know is you! Sorry we all know is you okay bcs your mode of writing is still the same, you are filled with bitterness and hatred! Pls try and get a life and let TBoss be ok, ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ she's more popular than some of Nigerian big celebrities! Everybody knows the name TBoss and her BossNation is the thing now but I can't say same for you bcs just last week, you were begging money on Lindaikeji's comment section! Please stop using anonymous cuz u look so stupid and confused.

WizzyEsq said...

My Crush

Anonymous said...

See dis one without any talent aside been naked playing the victim,,,,,,, go sit down,,,white witch

Anonymous said...

Wow

Zara said...

Tee tee boo boo kitty๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹

Anonymous said...

Wow

Joshua Whitefield said...

This tboss don old biko

Anonymous said...

Wot of if kemen has actually put his dick inside that your smelling disgusting pussy what would you have done...mumu

Anonymous said...

Wot of if kemen has actually put his dick inside that your smelling disgusting pussy what would you have done...mumu

Anonymous said...

akpa amu

Anonymous said...

linda ikeji ooooo dis ur comment section we not kill me. go gal i love ur sweetness cheers

Anonymous said...

Thanks Linda for translation before some wicked people twist it up as usual.

Zara said...

U are very useless.miserable idiot..no run mouth wen Tboss dey talk.ode

Anonymous said...

Lover ke? Are you...

Anonymous said...

Her advisers have told her the only way to remain relevant is for her to keep the discussion going. ฤนet me spill it here i know someone that knows and confirmed that Tboss is a lesbian. If you think it's a lie push my buttons and I will start giving names.

Anonymous said...

U mean attention keep seeking her if am right hahahah , the girl is like d winner admit it., this one will ring in our ear for a very long time, if u don't like her better don't follow her or click on links anywhere her name is mentioned unless u go just die of heart attack with HATE. Cos wen u hear big endorsement, God 'll not make u to die o

Anonymous said...

Tolodo always playing the victim card, even the card couldn't get you 20% of votes. Attention seeker! Aunty you knew kemen was touching you decided to keep quiet cos you were enjoying it. Tell your family to stop tarnishing the boys image, I have never seen family that is fame hungry like yours. Abeg moveon you can never be a role model, cos you are full of lies and chief manipulator! Kontinu exposing your salicon breast for now your market will sell, cos your market stop selling in abuja 2yrs ago before I forget we know you are broke empty vessel in abuja forming posh. Tokunbo you nor dey anywhere.

Anonymous said...

Those u look so fake to me. All u supporter of Tboss pls I want to ask u guys a question. If someone is fingering u or raping u at night When u are sleeping without ur consent,what will u do immediately? Won't u jumb up and shout out of annoyance? Will u keep quiet, back the person and still keep sleeping on the same bed with the person till morning? Please answer tbossnation

Helen Egesimba said...

Just passing

Anonymous said...

Dear tboss Hope you know What you are doing this is Nigeria and this is social media,don't start What will later catch up with you, yes you came third you are beautiful, let go, the moment dirt start Coming out about you, you will end up losing all, you know you are not a Saint, neither are your folks billionaira, these are the only things that Can save you if this Your move backfire remember Your private jet owners ,flies Wen nor hear word dey follow dead body enter grave.

Anonymous said...

See my love. TBoss shine on. You have an army behind you.

Nnenne George said...

Story.. biko nne jekelu noru ana..meaning goan sit down!

Esther Ene said...

Mtcheeew you are also guilty of the same act kemen displayed in the show

Shampepe said...

Loud it! Best comment so far

Esther Ene said...

She would have cut that uncontrollable organ in-between his thighs yeye answer for senseless question

ifesinachi lovelyn said...

Linda she said "incidencies" not incidents lolz...so u didn't quote her right.
Why is she reading from her phone though? Na news script? Do you need a script to address issues? Una sure say dis babe no pierce her brain too, since she is into piercing๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

Ayam just passing though...

Anonymous said...

Shes very silly!!!! if it was my sister, i will flog her!!most people commenting on the issue did not watch the show. What are you doing in the same bed with a guy u want nothing to do with? for the third day in a row, previous days u were cuddling... the day before u asked him to massage u naked and then you take alcohol and sleep in the same bed with a man that has been making advances for weeks. what are u doing in that situation is what ill ask my sister, u have to be responsible for urself. And then Kemen tried to caress you, U opened the blanket, saw what happened and u turned around and made urself comfortable in his arms!! U claim u were not aware, but later that morning a housemate asked you if kemen snored and u said he did, almost through out the night. It beats me how people cant see through her trying to play victim.

patience yashim said...

It's very unfortunate that some people will never see any good in what tboss says or does because their brain and eyes are clouded by their dislike for her.most of the housemate did disgusting stuff like her but no one is still bashing them. Let the girl be. Efe was drunk,cried and said stuff at their semi final party but he couldn't remember,bisola gave ttt Bj and even said she was horns and wish she had a dildo but all their fans see is they are being real. So what if tboss showed her breast?what is the big deal and what is the difference with other things other housemates did. May same faith befall you all that are still spitting BS about her.*pukes*acting all like saints.

Esther Ene said...

There is no way I would support what kemen did or try to trivialise it.if Tboss comes up tomorrow to say she would sue kemen she is 100% right.those lashing Tboss bcos of this issue are rape advocates knowingly or unknowingly.By the way you are a darling Tboss keep shining.

Anonymous said...

This issue is really irritating...Tboss shld pls take several seats and put her ass on one....haba wat is it nau...Kemen didnt rape you he only I repeat only tried to touch you but his hand didnt get to your punani and you turned away and at this point Kemen stopped its not like he forced you to do anythiong with him...when you turned away he stopped...why were you on the same bed with a man that you claim you didnt like plus why didnt you scream when you felt he touched you there...how can someone touch you there and you wont know??? You were even oblivious of this until bigbro called your attention to it...pls free this guy abeg...do you pple want him to kill himself NO WAY...sm1 that watches this video you put up will think you were molested pls learn to forgive or better still meet with him so you guys can have closure on this matter....forgive and forget so you can also move on with your life....

dj banti said...

Tboss go and slip

patience yashim said...

Fate I meant

Genny said...

I just love this TBoss lady, i dont know why

Sam said...

Pickin you fine. You wan take fine take kill yourself? Abeg make worwor people go die joor

Emeka said...

TBoss dont mind haters. They actually love you. They dont know how to tell you that they love you. So they pretend to hate you. Hahahahahahahaha. Lmao

Dan said...

TBoss abeg come and marry me

Sandra said...

We love you baby!

Fada Figa said...

See ur mouth, Lesbo like u!y u wan straf am wen man full everywher

Pascal said...

TBoss you have shown that you are a strong woman. I thought you would have been traumatised by now with all the negative news going on. Keep it up virtuous woman!

Chijioke said...

She for just photocopy the speech give us na. Cudoos to the writer sha.

Pat said...

I love TBoss and Soma. These are my best housemates ever!

Anonymous said...

The fact that somebody wears skimpy clothes around the house doesnt mean that she wants sex and even if she wants sex, it doesnt mean that she wants sex with you

Akinolu said...

Big Brother game does not allow you to have your privacy as a lady or man. In the Big Brother game, both men and women share thesame bathroom, toilet, bedroom, dressing room etc. So there is no way you wont see nakedness at some point. Before entering the house, you should prepare yourself to control your stupid penis for 3 months because its a game. Otherwise you will get disqualified when you break the rules. Thin Tall Tony gave TBoss a massage but never tip-toed at night to violate TBoss while she was sleeping without her consent. Kemen should have known better!

Anonymous said...

We love TBoss. Haters hug transformer or fuck your mother! Fools

Anonymous said...

Monkey na after ay show u get sense..lol

Anonymous said...

You are an idiot, jealous bitter human being full of hate. Even if Na ashewo.If Ashewo does not give you a go ahead to touch then you have no right to touch her. You are an illetrate

Tony said...

I love your hair

Anonymous said...

Tboss please go ahead. Go ahead and educate some Olodo's what sexual consent is. Normalizing kemen's act has to stop before they do it our children and they would be telling us it's okay shebi he did not put his dick in there.

Anonymous said...

Tboss please go ahead. Go ahead and educate some Olodo's what sexual consent is. Normalizing kemen's act has to stop before they do it our children and they would be telling us it's okay shebi he did not put his dick in there.

daniel ubong said...

This girl should let u be beko.

albert said...

Dis annonymous is here again! We kno it's tundeednut, stop foolin urself, we kno it's only u pretendin to b so many annonymous, ur yeye dey smell. Tboss is now more famous and richer than u, even chris is now more famous than u and even cracks beta jokes than u! Tboss' msg is clear, it's not a question and answer segment, she's said her piece and she's moved on, wit millions of people thumbs-uping her for it, so stupid fool, stop disgracin urself by commentin on every post dat involves tboss, we wnt buy it, u can't manipulate us. Mbok

semilore said...

Wawuuu bosslady, well said! And congrats on ur heritagebank gift, pls update us on ur payporte visit o, we r hearin underground gists alrdy..

Anonymous said...

I guess being a whore and a bitch on national TV now makes you a celebrity in Nigeria. So much for your women empowerment LINDA. SMDH

Anonymous said...

Park well!!

Catherine Aneke said...

Very good answer to some stupid idiot no body is taking about no one else only Tboss because of the breast, what about Bisola dat always say na d work we she dey do, if it were to b Tboss dat uses dat comment people will not let her rest dey ll nail her wit d word, stupid haters

mrs tams said...

B strong tboss, I just pray u sue kemen so dat all dis pervs supportin him wld learn dat 'touchin' witout consent cld also b charged as a serz offence as rape! Mumus everywhr! Ur story just made me realise nigeria stil has soo many illitrates dt don't understnd d importnce of consent. I neva even liked d kemen and I wnt mind if u use him to teach dis pervs a lesson befor someone else wd do it and feel notin wld happen

baby said...

Pls any comment speakin evil against tboss frm annonymous is tundeednut o! Linda take note

Anonymous said...

Long live the Queen

Anonymous said...

Is that why u should abuse her mother? Jesus Christ what is this society turning into..

diamond berry said...

Nobody raped her

diamond berry said...

Go and fucking rest tboss,Na people wey on sabi you Na dem dey kiss your ass. I Dont need to meet u in person to know u bcos I have learnt a whole lot about you watching bbn

Kadiri Abdulrahman said...

The BBN organisers have been very unprofessional. The most important thing, after the show would have been to reconcile Tboss and Kemen, by getting Kemen to apologise unreservedly, and getting Tboss to accept his apology whole heartedly. Not allowing comedians to make insensitive jokes about the ugly incident. Kemen, too, is human,is definitely distressed about the whole episode, and he deserves a second chance. He definitely didn't bargain for what he got. If he's hung out to dry things could get out of hand, I heard he was already acting suicidal.

Anonymous said...

Ur a big fool.no be only t boss na t sex slave.

Vivian Reginalds said...

SHUT UP JOOR!
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Vivian Reginalds said...

OLD WOMAN DON'T GOAN HUNT FOR A TALENT OOO
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

'in bisola's voice'

Anonymous said...

You are truly insane. I wish you can reveal yourself anonymous its either you like being raped or you want to be raped or you are actually a rapist. Keep your evil thoughts and wishes to yourself

Anonymous said...

Tokunbo. Bless you. This was long overdue. Thanks so much for holding up. A woman of substance. Love you loads. The ratchets can never get it. Just continue to be you

Anonymous said...

Her pussy is disgusting @anonymous12:52 but the pussy that gave birth to u have maggots and finally gave life to a smelly maggot like u or may b na for nose u take comot as a maggot wey u be

Anonymous said...

You go girl!!!

Anonymous said...

foolish child! that's why I will continue to love what Caroline wrote, if this case goes to court Tboss will loose woefully!!!!! foolish girls that support stupidity.. she was aware that she was being touched and she didn't react.

Emy said...

U sound like a broken record. Were u really interested in your public image and u went into the house throwing caution to the wind? To honest with everybody in that house(BBN), U CANT go in there and not compromise some of your values. Even EFE acknowledge it and that's why to me,he is Real and not a wannabe

balquis said...

Kemen, dis is u, im sure. Perv! Rapist

okechukwu said...

Clap for urself! Animal! Illitrate! And tnx for makin me realise not all comments r worth readin as some come frm idiots like u

Anonymous said...

I must inform you that there is nothing like implied consent. There is only yes or no!

silvia said...

Okay, anoda mumu on d loose! Tboss matter kill u! She's capable of feedin ur family now,endorsements r alrdy rollin in for her, stupid attention seeker

Anonymous said...

Ode you have low self esteem,jobless followers. You don't have a mind of your own.Tboss harass all the the house mate. Go and goggle sexual harassment Ewu.Aliona Tboss house girl

ige said...

At least we kno tboss is white, d witch part im sure ur pathetic mother initiated her into it. Oloriburuku sombori. Tboss is soarin o! Go to her social media page and feed ur HIV ridden eyes, b dere typin senseless hate comments wit ur techno fone, oloshi

Anonymous said...

Strength of a woman ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚na wa o. Mumu Tboss is a runs girl in Abuja. Very soon we go expose her base.Her colleagues are coming after her ASHANA

baby said...

Dat his gonorrhoea infected dick like ur own? We wd v killed him by now na, even dis one he did I swear he wld commit suicide last last and wait for u at d oda end of d world cos u wld join him shortly. Anuofia! Rapist tunde

Anonymous said...

TBOSS is bipolar

Anonymous said...

Next time they will have to screen the contestant properly to avoid crazy HM like April Tokunbo Idowu.

Anonymous said...

Don't mind the stupid Aliona is Tboss. She harras the guy.Tboss is guilty of sexual harassment

Anonymous said...

Let me put this out there somebody that know Tboss confirms that Tboss is a lesbian. Linda I dare you to post this.

Anonymous said...

ALIONA MARSHALL is TBOSS.Go and get a life stop sexual harassment. You harassed everybody in that house and the viewers with your cheap silicon boobs. LIB say no to sexual harassment. TBOSS is a bitch.fuck off and get a life stupid ugly mix race

Anonymous said...

Don't mind her crazy bitch. Ugly molato

Anonymous said...

Dumb boss of insecure ladies somebody sent her the speech and she can't understand and read off hand ehn,see her addressing her followers like a newscaster the house mates really tried to blend her but the olodo will never change see the person that want to run a tv show. ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ˜ญ

Anonymous said...

TBOSS should be sued for sexual harassment. So many times she undress in front of the guys in the bathroom when they want to pea while drunk during the Saturday party all the guys said biggie do call them to the diary room to avoid her.Imagine the harassment towards kemen too in front of the viewers opening her boobs to the other guys and viewers.The video is everywhere. TBOSS God will judge you. I hope the private jet owners come to your rescue cus you can't go back to your runs spot

Anonymous said...

youy are lucky he didn't give you anal sex. your dress sense in that house is worst than sexual harassment to the african public.Africa is not western world where nudity is celebrated. even though that is not an excuse for him to harass you, i am saying both of you are pot and kettle

Anonymous said...

Tboss please you and your desperate family should take several seats! I thought by now you should have been on board your private jets with your toasters or in Romania since you claim to be oyibo? Why are you still up in our faces old woman? Get a life stupid!!!

bernaldine said...

Ugly bitch

bernaldine said...

Tboss I don't like you.see her face like ojuju

RareSpecie Z said...

Yeah!!
She truly Bipolar.
The lovely lady needs urgent treatment to control the psychological issue.

RareSpecie Z said...

Lol.
See comments.
Think say na only me get bad mouth 4 House LIB.
Well, almost all my venoms are like a Job thing as the "Defacto Chief Whip of House LIB". I multitask. I do any assigned job perfectly, thats' why all my bosses get addicted 2 me. Ask Linda.

RareSpecie Z said...

Lol.
See comments.
Think say na only me get bad mouth 4 House LIB.
Well, almost all my venoms are like a Job thing as the "Defacto Chief Whip of House LIB". I multitask. I do any assigned job perfectly, thats' why all my bosses get addicted 2 me. Ask Linda.

Anonymous said...

The queen is addressing the Nation. Quiet!!!

Sweetestariet said...

Big witch. Till kemen die thats when you want to rest.ABEG GO SIDDON

Anonymous said...

Tunde ednut Wetin tboss collect from u that u no return. I can see all your comments. Go find work o.

Anonymous said...

Dumb folks be Normalizing kemen's act. We have a future to protect the future of our children by making them know and understand that a man or woman touching them without their consent is not okay. Kemen signed the terms and conditions of the house and sexual consent is part of it. He broke the rule that was why he was disqualified.
Even if a woman wears jeans and is all covered up a perverted person would still touch without consent. Let nobody tell me shebi she exposed her body. It is her body did she say come and touch it.

Anonymous said...

Dumb folks be Normalizing kemen's act. We have a future to protect the future of our children by making them know and understand that a man or woman touching them without their consent is not okay. Kemen signed the terms and conditions of the house and sexual consent is part of it. He broke the rule that was why he was disqualified.
Even if a woman wears jeans and is all covered up a perverted person would still touch without consent. Let nobody tell me shebi she exposed her body. It is her body did she say come and touch it.

Anonymous said...

Communication ethics my foot,mtcheeewww....... see her like Bansi in Indian (Mama lawo). OLODO!

HOD said...

What more shall man do in his pursuit of happiness oh contemplating generation our tongue is more eager to speak before prompted by the brain box.

ric said...

You are already a queen Tboss. Just maintain your queenship. Haters will always abuse you but deep down in their minds they wish they are you.

Be strong girl and always see your haters as a bundle of wood.
You will go places i assure you.

Anonymous said...

Exactly, she turned and made herself comfortable. I watched d video.

Anonymous said...

I wonder o!How can someone touch u there and u didn't?

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