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Thursday, 27 April 2017

Ali Baba's advice to women who remain in abusive marriages

Ali Baba took to his IG account to give his piece of advice to women who remain in abusive marriages. He shared the photo above - which is of the lady who was recently attacked by her husband and kicked out of her home in the middle of the night in Akwa Ibom- and wrote:

And some will say stay... And take it to the Lord in Prayer... every marriage has it's own challenges... that is just theie way. Until the violebt spouse kills the partner. Shebi God said till death do us part. Now they want to listen to God. When God said Adam and Eve... they said it Adam and Steve. Did you take that to God and he said ride on? John and Jacob... That's ok.

29 comments:

livingstone chibuike said...

nawa o

livingstone chibuike said...

ladies shuld becareful before makin a choice

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No matter how rich a man is, once he starts beating his wife, she needs to take action to stop it or just leave the marriage.

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ikenna J said...

There is no justification for such action towards a partner! #sad

Property Nigeria Social said...

It time the authorities put up strict laws to tackle this issue of abusive and violence in marriage perpetuated by men.

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Nnenne George said...

95% of women are still in an abusive marriage becos they're lazy to work.. totally dependent on the men. My fellow women get up n do something and free yourself from bandage. Walk out before he kills you.

Joyous babe, Linda Ikeji FIrst Cousin said...

@Nnenne i disagree with u, nothing that they are lazy to work I think why some women stay in such marriage is mostly because of their children and not been financially buyant, may God deliver us from such men.

Tina Nkeiru said...

Wonders shall never end,hmmm that man is a beast n deserves no mercy. Dear woman walk away now while u can.

Uduakobong Ekong said...

If u don't know what to comment,please,just shut the f**k up! Some wives that are the breadwinners of the family n are still abused,is that still laziness?no be only free urslf from bandage#mtcheww#

Kele said...

Nnenne George, for the very first time, I agree with you. The point is they don't want to go and look for job or engage in any business no matter how small they start. Depending on the man for everything. Another point is what people will say if I leave my marriage. What my church will say. Let them continue being in abusive marriage. Its their lives.

Nancy Ubah said...

Nnem you said it all, some women are so lazy that they can't afford to buy pad with their money. Its so sad. Women wake up and be independent. Na wa o.

Drewilliams Akin said...

Our society should put strict laws in place against domestic violence

O-Ice said...

We leave in a sick society where the law takes the side of the strong against the weak. Men who batter their wives do it because they can get away with it. Only women can save themselves. He abuses you, get up and leave. But of course, before that you must have found a means of sustaining yourself if you have to leave. This is why it is crucial for women to work. This is why for a young lady in her 20s who just finished NYSC, getting something to do should take priority over marrying. When a man believes that "in him you live, move and have your being" his ego will bring out the beast in him. Only God fearing men will act otherwise. So women, save yourselves. Never depend totally on a man. And if he starts hitting you, get up and leave for good.

O-Ice said...

And as for those who believe that leaving your matrimonial home amounts to breaking your marriage vow, this is my response. When a man beats his wife, he is breaking the marriage vows already. He swore before God and the people that he will love, cherish, honour protect this woman. He turns round to batter the same woman, and you wanna tell me about breaking vows. No sir! Let the woman leave, the vows have been broken already. Let her save her head Biko.

O-Ice said...

Ehen, and some will say, you just stay and bear because of the children. Please remember that if you die, there will be nothing you will be able to do for those children. Also remember that by staying in that house and taking the abuse, you are exposing the said children to untold psychological trauma which might affect them all their lives. Children who witness domestic abuse over and over again never remain the same. There is no excuse for remaining in an abusive relationship. Woman, save yourself, save your children, run!!!

Uduakobong Ekong said...

I keep saying it,if u as a child upon ur mother's naggings and beatings,u have never raised hand on ur mother, then why should u raise hand on ur own wife?I really don't see what a married woman can do to merit battering and abusiveness in a home. Men,u guys need to take some chill pills. Try to tolerate ur woman,and please,u can always walk away if u know u r always hot-tempered and to the ladies, try to also understand ur man!Don't raise ur voice at every hit of argument.Give him some space to get things calm and let him be if need be.N/B: Run away from any man who tends to break,destroy or threaten to kill you when things get hitted. It is never a mistake. If he did it once,he will do it again!!

Anonymous said...

You just nailed it. Gbam! This is the major response u this post.

Dede said...

Any woman that says she is staying in a marriage because of the children is just giving a lame and baseless excuse. I don't know any child that begs their mother to remain married to an abusive husband. In fact, it is usually the opposite. You ate raising children in an environment that destroys them psychologically and even physically and that's what you're staying for? Are people mad sef? I'm waiting for someone that can explain the logic of living with a beast for the sake of children.

Anonymous said...

There is no reason to justify domestic violence that man needs psychiatric attention

Anonymous said...

When they say stay for children, what do you mean? Stay for children to be witnesses when he kills her or stay so the children can be scarred for life? So her sons can be van damm 2.0? Help me understand.

Anonymous said...

Your children will thank you if you leave. Not one person who had an abusive parent loved the fact that their abused parent stayed. Leave to live! Emotional abuse is as bad as physical. These women dropping dead from BP from nowhere die because they marry demons in human form. If you make the mistake to marry a demon, exterminate him. God is not a Nigerian pastor, He does not grant you entry to heaven because of marriage. All these pastors who encourage it also beat their wives. If you must stay, record his beatings and then in self defense DECK THE GOAT. He is useless to your children anyway, no mercy against these cretins with their low self esteem. Enough is enough ladies.

Anonymous said...

Nice one.. Exactly my thought

Sam said...

Separation doesn't mean divorce. Sometimes you may need to give yourselves some space and have time to reflect on whether you need to be together or not. You can be married but live in separate houses to avoid one killing the other. What if her head wasn't strong? She would have just died. How can you hit somebody on the head? Did the man intend to kill his wife? Is it until the man kills you before you will run away? Alibaba thank you for the advise

Anonymous said...

When we think of domestic violence, we don’t often hear about husbands being abused. It’s usually the wife who is the reported sufferer. Yet, it’s being revealed that there are many husbands who are the victims of spousal abuse.

So why don’t we hear about husbands being abused by their wives?

Anonymous said...

Most women know how their spouse will be abusive when they court but they believe God will change them or they will change with time. Don't dare give it a trial in marriage when u find out how ya boyfriend handle issue.

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