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Friday, 17 March 2017

''My teenage years was bitter. I was raped as a teenager by an uncle" Woman hated by her father and raped by her uncle shares her story

This has got to be among the top in the list of the saddest parental neglect story ever told. Beat FM OAP Osi Suave shared the story sent to him by a lady, revealing how she lost her mother when she was only five and her father proceeded to neglect and treat her poorly all through her life.
Prior to her mother's death, she said she noticed her father hated her, though she was only a child, she could sense it but did not know why. After her mother's death, her brother who was still very little was taken by his grandmother, making it impossible for her to have a close relationship with him, while she stayed with her dad who let his hatred for her increase and left her to the care of maids. 
"My dad had this hate for me... I don't know what I did to him even when my mum was alive as a child I knew that this man didn't like me. He wasn't part of my life as a father. We had maids then who would frustrate me, won't give me food but I was too scared to inform my dad," she wrote.
With her brother gone, and a father who did not care about her, the girl became an easy target for predators. When she got raped by her uncle, due to the relationship gap between her and her father,  she could not inform her father for fear of being sent away from the only home she had.
"Osi, my teenage years was bitter. I was raped as a teenager by an uncle. I couldn't tell anyone... I dare not tell my father because I know he is capable of sending me out of his house for getting raped."
The lady went on to get admission into the university, but even at school she had no reprieve from the life of being taken advantage of. She revealed that she had a problem with lecturers and cultists who wanted to take advantage of her because she was beautiful. She ended up not graduating because of the travails resulting thereof. She had to run away from home afterwards. Prior to that, while in search of fatherly love, she got into a relationship with a man who abused her often.
"I seeked (sic) fatherly love outside. I fell in love with this guy who I dated for 6 years. I was looking for a boyfriend and a father in one. My ex would beat me, call me all sorts of names, even tell me I have a useless father who cannot look after my wellbeing."
Read the rest of the sad story below...

21 comments:

Petro... T said...

Linda please there are people that am missing here,the first person is our old friend *Prince Charming* I miss his grammar and the second person is *Free Born* What happened na? I really weep for them....

Petro... T said...

Linda please there are people that am missing here,the first person is our old friend *Prince Charming* I miss his grammar and the second person is *Free Born* What happened na? I really weep for them....

okechukwu nnoduechi said...

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AUNTY LINDA 👩

kisbykay (Travelling Agency) said...

So sad, I pray you get someone who will love and treat you like a queen that you are.

Anonymous said...

All of this hits home..but at the same time do not let the devil mislead you in no way shape or form...you have come this far because of the mercy of God..continue to have faith and believe that things are already working out for you're own greater good..I pray that you will within you as you continue on this journey,that you will never lack all the days of you're life...mercy and favour will always fall upon you're life forever and ever

gentle said...

I don't think she is that man's daughter... I pray God helps her.

Uwemhe Dominic said...

Speechless

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

How does one tell this kinda story?


... Merited happiness

Anonymous said...

Please, teenage years 'were' bitter, not 'was.'

Ndgreat715 said...

Speechless...

jay jasme said...

poor u..

Nkem4eva said...

Waow! You will get a man who will be your father, brother, husband and friend rolled into one. Congratulations on your achievements. There are more mountains to conquer. Conqueror you are!!!

Tesh peters said...

Wow. So touching. U shall find true happiness by God's grace. Stay strong.

Anonymous said...

I think she should actually focus more on oda things.. How to luv her self.. Forget d dad's hatred.... Think of how to live... Make it in lyf.. Fulfill ya dreams.. D right guy will come

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Goldmine said...

THERE MUST BE A PART OF HER LIFE HISTORY SHE HAS NOT BEEN TOLD. I PRESUME HER MUM DID NOT TELL HER WHO HER BIOLOGICAL FATHER WAS. THE MAN SHE CALLS 'FATHER' IS MOST LIKELY NOT HER FATHER.

Mercy4live Francis said...

What a bitter world ! I pray that God give her what she ask for in love.

Mercy4live Francis said...

What a bitter world ! I pray that God give her what she ask for in love.

Anonymous said...

Ur a fool, so that all u could pick from this story.

Anonymous said...

Honey try not to center your whole world on men, eventually they'll come and you'll have the last laugh

Anonymous said...

Free born was shot dead during a gun tussle with mr president

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