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Wednesday, 15 March 2017

Domestic Violence: "God has blessed me with a strength like yours & I won't fail to explore it" - BBN's Ese Eriata advices her future husband

Fake Big Brother Naija housemate, Ese Eriata took to social media to address men who physically abuse their wives and eventually destroy the marriage. According to Ese, the rate of domestic violence in Nigeria is terrible and how she wishes she can help fight for the women who suffer it. See more of her thoughts on this, after the cut ...


28 comments:

Anonymous said...

Most Ladies are foolish,Your husband,have his rules and laws,if You can't do/follow them&u still claim u are a Jagaban,u'll chop fire&U can't do nada,Cos u'll move out&remarry to move out again,remarry to move out again.oloshi

Anonymous said...

Haha, Sister pray you don't fall into the trap of one, not by your strength. MOreover as an advice any man who beats his wife is very useless and heartless also. I advice you to flee in such situation unless you have a weapon to defend yourself. If you fight back, I am sorry to tell you, NA DIE BE DAT OOO. Such men, hmmm. DOn't say we didn't warn you oo.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

I tire o


... Merited happiness

adetunji said...

Since you know this fact, which is by all means right, women also should desist from unnecessary provocation,that should be dealt with too.Moreso men are also physically abused in some relationship. Let's address all marital anomalies.

Uv David said...

na warri mouth u still dey make. i pray make u nor marry wife beater, if not; u go bow. d signs r always there but ladies in a desperate bid to marry ignore them. signs like a bad temper, alcoholism, Godlessness and even implacable violence. Rather than wait women jump into these abusive relationships in d hopes dat it will get better. God will help us. Finally, if you be real waffi chick, u go know say nor be ur right to beat ur hubby, simply gather ur brothers or "village" men, have them tie him down and flog his wet buttocks, if he tries it again, make sure u have it on camera, get a swift divorce. Never beat ur spouse, its a homicide in waiting.

Anonymous said...

If na Mike Tyson you marry ...haha babe you go just cry that's all. Lolz. Beating a woman is actually bad and no woman should take it.

ONEVOICE said...

YOU HAVE NOT ENTERED NAAAA!! THATS WHY U CAN TALK. WHO DE OUTSIDE NO GO EVER UNDERSTAND WATIN DE HAPEN INSIDE FIELD UNTILL DEM PUT AM.

THE MAIN PROBLEMS ARE WOMEN BUT AS SHE SAID, ALL MES SHOULD WALK AWAY BY: 1, GO LOOK FOR ANOTHER BABE TO KOL UR MIND B4 U COME BACK OR GO DRINK AND HANGOUT WITH UR FRIENDS AND DRINK OR GO TAKE SMOKE...

THANKS.

ANY WOMAN (MARRIED AND ON MARRIED)THAT SAYS A MAN HAS NEVER SATISFY HER ON BED, SHOULD CONTACT: EJEEKEGRACE@GMAIL.COM FOR A PERFECT MAN

Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin said...

some men are animals, funny enough they can,t fight or beat their fellow men.#lazyhorseband

Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin said...

some men are animals, funny enough they can,t fight or beat their fellow men.#lazyhorseband

OSINANL said...

SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

christie benjamin said...

Gbam!! no time to be a cry cry baby...

RareSpecie Z said...

I concur.
Some men truly deserve serious beating.
Jst got 2 spit some truth even tho i'm also a DICK.

Chris Aimakhu said...

Only weak men beat their women........

Anonymous said...

Mr anonymous go and kill some1 child,let me knw who will chop fire na u go dy beg for death wahali,dz thing u said ehhh,I wish it to all females n ur life. Abi na oloshi k,na same to u.

Ijeoma Okafor said...

What a mentality?

Anonymous said...

Anon,13:25,thunder fire u....

Anonymous said...

Park well see who dey talk God help u meet a king Kong wen u have a very wrong temperament. There women who don't face domestic violence that cos dey r very understanding and mature!

Anonymous said...

Atimes women can be annoying but,beating ur woman isn't the best option.I won't beat my woman as long as she doesn't lie

RareSpecie Z said...

Horn the Alarm.
Somebody jst won the Dumbest Fuck award for the year. Mumu.

Tayo Peters said...

Try and marry first before you will kill him or kills you.

Engr. Godday said...

She is reducing her chances of getting married if really wanted to. Stop scaring potential suitors.

Ugee said...

Seriously a real man will never beat his woman. If your woman is running her mouth keep your own mouth shut. That is why your a man and walk away. It takes two hands to make sound. Nawa oooh

kisbykay (Travelling Agency) said...

Exactly. Just like in the movie "Enough" (self defense is no murder), I have fortified myself. I don't wish to experience it again but if it does happen, I won't be the injured or the dead one. #notodomesticviolence

Anonymous said...

Oh girl,don't try to flex muscle when you are pregnantoo,else na ur obituary,besides,women stop running ur mouths like wildfire,a man will never touch you if you dont provoke him.i dont support domestic violence,but if you cannot marry one man,then you cant marry 10.am talking from experience.you will understand better when you clock 40.

Anonymous said...

Very very small mind she has.... She will be drawn to men who will want to beat her with such a mentality

Anonymous said...

Efe, it's not enuf to hand out warning, demands and expectations. You Ese, better not be an instigator of trouble, better no be a cheater, better not disregard/disrespect your spouse, better be up and doing, not lazy and not a spendthrift or squanderer or wastrel or compulsive shopper far above your family income.

You better and always think of the welfare of your family first before fashion and cosmetics, better keep positive friends.

There are lots more but, le me stop it here for now.

Regards,

Chika

Anonymous said...

My sister's and prospective wives.
2 reasons why women got beaten are infidelity and running your mouth.
If you are married to an Alpha Male and you commit any of these, he either beats you, that's if he really loves you or he sends you packing if he doesn't really love you. The beating is for correction. As we all know beating is for children and animals, haven done any of these, you have inadvertently called yourself either of these. A married woman should neither cheat on her husband nor disrespect him by running her mouth on him.
If you are married to a female Man, he can quarrel with you just like you do with your fellow woman. Cheat on him and he will pretend not knowing, but he will digmyour sisters and househelp for revenge

Anonymous said...

Mr. Anonymous.. U are obviously a low class man with a low class mentality from the way u sounded. Maybe u have been punching women around u as a low minded man and luckily with women of same low mind like u. But u are heading to where u will pay for all the women u have beaten in the pass bcus I see u heading to hit the wrong woman that will teach you the lesson of ur low life. U talk about get beaten then remarry and beaten remarried again. Hahaha..... Low minded man, see the prove of how low minded u are.. That means you beat and she leaves u, u marry again and the low minded man beat and she leaves too and he...... Is it or was it how much u watched him hit or turned her to a punching bag when u were a small boy? Is that all u could copy from him? Wow..... U know low men with low mind when you see them. So go rest ur low head so it could be upgraded. HELLO REASONABLE PEOPLE.... HE'S NOT WORTH ARGUING OR HAVING HEADACHE FOR PLS CUS REAL MEN DON'T BEAT WOMEN NO MATTER WHAT!

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