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Wednesday, 4 January 2017

Heartbreaking story of a lady whose boyfriend of 7 years left her for a divorcee mother of two, goes viral

The story of a lady whose boyfriend left her after seven years to get married to a divorced lady with two children has gone viral on Facebook. It's not clear who first shared the story but it is quite heartbreaking. Read the story below..
"For seven years he was my only boyfriend.I moved in with him after 1and half years of our relationship. On the third year I hinted marriage subject. He ignored it. I abandoned the subject and continued to be good to him. Yes I was good to him, in everyway.
One Sunday evening, (is it evening or afternoon?) whatever you call that time of the day, we were watching Our Perfect Wedding and it was a chance for me to start the subject again. He then started to caugh, I gave him amanzi and the coughing stopped. I told myself that today he will speak to me about this. And indeed he responded. Babe, I just got a new job which pays more money for me to can be able to afford lobola and other stuff.
I smiled. There was hope...
7 years into the relationship, and 13 months in his new job.....i am still hoping.
You should see his 6 roomed house. I cleaned it, did washing and ironing, I cook, baked for him, I even bought the most beautiful curtains and bedding in all 3 bedrooms. You should see the pots I use....i bought them at Queens with my bonus last year. And every time he hosts his friends at home for their usual social codesa gatherings, I use the best dishes and glasses. He loves it when they tell him he has done well for himself.

I think I have collected about a hundred and seventy eight CDs that I have been buying for him as presents over the past seven years. There is also a Lee Oscar CD there. He uses 3 ply toilet paper.
Okay...i went to his office after he asked me to pass by one day because I left my job early and when I got there at reception, the receptionist (Michelle) called his office and told him "there is a lady at reception by the name of Phindi for you."

Let me cut a long story short and say to you that today as I'm seated here (Sat 24 Dec 2016) Thabiso is getting married to the receptionist (Michelle) in Witbank.

I am back home.
And you know what? My mother's home was neglected all these years by me. The curtains in this house are torn and worn out. Bedding is embarrassing I can't even open the bedroom door. Old and burnt Hart pots and no decent glass to have my Schweppes Granadilla. I use lebekere. Thabiso told me it is over and he fell in love le Michelle on the 6th week at his new job and he wants to bring her to his home, I should therefore make way for her. He paid lobola while I was still cleaning his house and cooking his favorite meal braaipap and cooked short ribs.
All my things are still at his house and I did not fetch them because I kept hoping that he will one day call me and tell me that he did a mistake and he wants me to come back. It is now 9 months since I left and he hasn't called. I passed by his house one day in my friend's car and she was washing my curtains.
Michelle the receptionist was washing my curtains.
She has 2 kids. I have none.
She has him, I don't.
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I'm shattered. But tomorrow I'm going to buy curtains for my mother at Marabastad. They are nice and affordable.
Will add 6 glasses, 4 cups and a kettle. There is no kettle at home.
Thabiso has my 3 piece Russell Hobbs set and my Woolworth towels
.....and Michelle has the ring
But I cooked for him"

42 comments:

  1. This is so sad.

    God will heal her heart. Girl you deserve better than Tapioca or wetin be his name

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    1. I feel bad for her. Ladies need to stop being house maids,cooks etc for men they aren't married to. If after one year your bf doesn't marry you, move on or get a side bf. If you do all these things before you're married, some stupid guys would be of the mindset of 'Why buy a cow when you're getting the milk for free'. Be wise ladies.

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    2. Ladies will never learn. When I turned urself a wife without ur dowry being paid how do u expect him to long for marriage? Move on dear the mistake was urs.


      Long Live LIB

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    3. Eyah,sorry o. How can u move in with a man who hasn't paid ur dowry? You indirectly caused this for yourself












      Lib addict#just passing#

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  2. One of all those one sided stories.
    Dunno bout this Lady but iknow that alota Ladies are bloody liars!!!!!!!

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  3. One of all those one sided stories.
    Dunno bout this Lady but iknow that alota Ladies are bloody liars!!!!!!!

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  4. heartbreaking my ass!!! bitches leave their men for other men with more money. cry me a river

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    1. You nasty don't you have a heart guess you made a lady cry like a river that's why you are being heartless

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    2. If u r a woman as I suspect,ur a big fool

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  5. Nne kpele God will give you ur o ordained man

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  6. What a life we live in. Sorry 4 ur loss

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  7. Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin4 January 2017 at 16:35

    AWW! THIS BROUGHT TEARS TO MY FACE, WHEN WILL WE LADIES LEARN? WASTED A WHOLE 7YRS ON ONE STUPID RELATIONSHIP WHICH KIND MUMU LOVE BE THAT? AND MEN HAVING STONE MIND SINCE 1990 AND BEEN SO WICKED TOO BAD.I PRAY U FIND LOVE AGAIN.

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  8. Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin4 January 2017 at 16:35

    AWW! THIS BROUGHT TEARS TO MY FACE, WHEN WILL WE LADIES LEARN? WASTED A WHOLE 7YRS ON ONE STUPID RELATIONSHIP WHICH KIND MUMU LOVE BE THAT? AND MEN HAVING STONE MIND SINCE 1990 AND BEEN SO WICKED TOO BAD.I PRAY U FIND LOVE AGAIN.

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  9. Sad story
    but the lesson here is DON'T DO WIFEY JOB for boyfriend...
    only 2 things come out of it....Either u become the wife or the EX...BE SMART
    this will indeed prepare you for the next level...sorry dear

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  10. I feel for the girl, honestly. Life's truly a bitch! I'm sorry that she had to go through this.

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  12. God this is suidicidial .pray God heal her wound#heart

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  13. It's Not bad to be a gd girl to your man but be wise and know when to say goodbye if his actions tell u the opposite of his words. 7yrs is too much a waiting period. We need to retain our value by not offering for free what he should get only when he has declared us to the world. Sorry babe. Learn the lesson and live on. U have hope of a better man

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  14. I'm so sorry Bae! Me too learnt my lesson just like you!! Thank god I wasn't buying,cooking, turning house help in the name of love though I was always humiliated, embarrassed, beaten and insulted..it happened and am still here, living, breathing and looking forward to my bigger blessing. He is too small comparing to what God got in store for you! ##bestrongdear.

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  15. As heartbreaking as it is, why will I stay with a man who is not my husband for 7years? My friend surffered same ordeal, Boyfriend of 3yrs left her for a single mother. Happy she found true love now. Dude adores her. Move on girl you will meet someone better than him.

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  16. I pray God will bless her for the wasted time. Though she's at fault. The handwriting was clearly written on the wall. Somebody u talked to about marriage and abandoned the topic. Ladies shud stop being maids to men they ain't married to.Dunno y women love to stick to an unfruitful rlshp all in the name of love. I pray she finds the bone of her bone.

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  17. This lady is too materialistic. She should wake up 2 reality. Pls stop swimming in illusion.

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  18. Lady, this is why it is good to get close to your Maker. When you are not married to a man, why play the role of a wife to him?
    Both of you were in the wrong because you lack the fear of God.
    Today, you can come back to God and ask Him to forgive you of your foolishness. God will forgive you totally and heal you of your broken heart. God also would want you to forgive the man that jilted you, please forgive him and learn from your mistake.
    Become a wife before playing the wife's role, not vice versa.
    Jesus heals broken hearts.He will heal you and give you a better man.

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  19. Lady, this is why it is good to get close to your Maker. When you are not married to a man, why play the role of a wife to him?
    Both of you were in the wrong because you lack the fear of God.
    Today, you can come back to God and ask Him to forgive you of your foolishness. God will forgive you totally and heal you of your broken heart. God also would want you to forgive the man that jilted you, please forgive him and learn from your mistake.
    Become a wife before playing the wife's role, not vice versa.
    Jesus heals broken hearts.He will heal you and give you a better man.

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  20. Wake up 2 reality, dear. Cut off dt veil of materialism dt is blindfolding u. Asorry 4 ur loss though.

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  21. Lesson learnt.I just remembered toke's words and I quote "let God make a man out of him before you make a husband out of him" in her quest to become his wife, she became his mother, and that's exactly what he never wanted. And I bet she even neglected herself and looks in her quest of looking out for things to buy and do and make him happy.

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  22. Hahaha! One sided story. Let us hear from the other Guy. Bitches and sentimental one sided stories.

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  23. I have seen LIFE.. I dnt believe any woman @ all.. Most girls will never settle with a man who's stil struggling.. all they want is billionaires or niggas driving one Benz. 4getting dat same niggas struggled alone without anywoman.. Dats y Bigmen 2day Marry Many wives cus de know women will always be women. Just Make ur MOney as A Man Put smile on ur Mother's Face, any other woman just treat her nice but no forget If its nt ur Mother dem no sure.

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  24. I feel sad for her BUT she was stupidly in love with a man who most definitely might have loved her BUT when he knew she wasn't taking care of her mom he thought twice and rather look for a better woman. My grouse with the guy is that he would have told her earlier and reason why. Rather than leading her on.

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  25. So heart breaking. God will give you a good husband. He will suffer for what he did to you

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  26. nawa
    -D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

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  27. Like id always say, ladies pls love with ur brain and not your heart.if after 6months u are not seeing any sign of marriage, biko, ben johnson o, no time.

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  28. Similar period of time. I know of a Yoruba boy dated and Ibo girl for years, Ibo girl opted for her career and with Yoruba boy agreed to wait till the coast was clear. Even though both families pressurised with different obstacles, they both succumbed them, till the lady said in the 7th year, same month the Yoruba boy planned to do the needful, that "I don't think I can give you the happiness you deserve"

    After 8 years of courting and 3 years of living together...Broken relationship is better than broken marriage isn't it? #yorubaibo #life
    #justpassing

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  29. heart breaking,God will give your own husband who will love and appropriate you

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  30. life goes on. . .in tupac's voice

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  31. Stop feeling bad for her. She was simply not marriable.She raised the issue several times but the man waved it off. Go and ask the man his own side of the story and you will hear how she almost nagged him to death. The man did no wrong. She was putting so much pressure on him unnecessarily.

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  32. Dont know how true your story is, this doesnt happen to women alone. I was once faithful to a lady though shorter than 7years but I was dumped for another dude. The funny thing is you will always get better from it if you can hear me. I've got all she ran after and more and she isnt with that guy anymore cos he dumped her ass. You would find someone better and get better. Just spend the new year investing in yourself and working at being a better person. Heart break takes alot from us as people but turn to God. Dont listen to dumb girls who say they cant do this or should have known better its cos they are too cheap to show love and be rest assured they dont marry into love just conveinience. There is a better life up ahead be thankful for each new day. God has a better plan for you.

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