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Thursday, 1 December 2016

World Aids Day: Avoid premarital sex. I married my wife as virgin and she has remain faithful- Governor Ayade

Cross River State Governor, Senator Ben Ayade on Thursday advised youths to stop engaging in sex before marriage as it is the best way to avoid contracting HIV/AIDS virus.
The governor, who stated this in Calabar during the 2016 World Aids Day, said the best virtue any girl or woman would give to her husband is to get married as a virgin, a core value Africans are known for.


The governor described his wife, Dr. Linda Ayade, as one of such rare  women who lived a virtuous lifestyle before she got married to him as a virgin.

"I am emphasizing on  this core value because I married my wife as a virgin and she has remain faithful. So I charge all women to remain faithful to their spouses.Condom is not a guarantee to safe sexual life. It can fail one. There is no alternative to abstinence in sex life."

Ayade appealed to youths to see the dreaded HIV/ AIDS as real because it has destroyed many families, rendered many children orphans, many men and women widows and widowers respectively.

He noted that although poverty and some social pressure may have pushed many young girls into early exposure, there is need to teach our upcoming youths the true values of Africa which frowns at immorality which is now the order of the day.

The governor also advised Nigerians to be cautious of anything that can make them come in close contact with unsterilized kits used for barbing and hairdressing.

Source: Nigerian Tribune

62 comments:

livingstone chibuike said...

Good lookin out to u

livingstone chibuike said...

Avoid indeed..ur wife was a virgin b4 marriage nd wat about u sir?

nobody said...

Shut up there.. who are you deceiving...

Akn Media said...

Who we go ask

Bertila Clu said...

Smilin....smilin...cool

chinasa enyinnaya said...

oga are you faithful to her too?

Efezyno jesusboy said...

Good for you, but were you a vvirgin when you married her? Sometimes it doesn't count pikin wey wan spoil go spoil.

Anonymous said...

What of you sir? Have you remained faithful..yimu!

Uju Phil said...

God bless you Sir, only if my generation will listen, generation ife di na ugwu... Smh

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Ok sir

Anonymous said...

U married her a virgin but her faithfulness to u is between her n God.what about u?u be donates abi.donating sperm to wet things up and down

Anonymous said...

For d fact that u all can't keep ursefs does not mean someone can't. I'm almost thirty and I'm a virgin, so whats d fuss all about. We still have decent girls out there biko!

Oghenetega said...

Were U a Virgin Ayade..? After U don sleep with all the young girls within ur vicinity.. super story

Juliet Iwuno said...

Na you talk am, who be witness??? Linda take note!

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Good for them.

Rollyboy E said...

How did Cross River State end up with this clown. What a shame!!

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Marrying a virgin does not determine a successful marriage.... meanwhile hope u were also a virgin...


Long Live LIB

Anonymous said...

And have you been faithful mr?

christie benjamin said...

If you say so, Ayade. If you really say so.

Maureen Mordi said...

Noted

ebby udom said...

http://icharity.club/?ref=udomebby

Unknown said...

He is only advicing the youth . Forget about if he was a virgin or not n hide d advice

Ibinabo Igodo said...

Who thought her the skills she has been exhibiting in the other room? Anyways just passing.

Odibe Blessing said...

Nice one, kudos to ur wife

RareSpecie Z said...

A very Huge 'LOL'

PRECIOUS PRECIOUS said...

Anyi ga aju onye?

Truthie said...

Why do men feel the authority to advice women on morals and not themselves? What kind of hypocrisy is this? It makes very little sense for you to tell a girl to present virginity to her husband as the best gift and not tell men to do the same. So men are deserving of their wive's purity but women do not deserve the same? Or you think the world revolves around men and their needs that must be satisfied? How do you preach sexual immortality and focus on only one gender.. are the women sleeping with themselves? Abeg!

tokoni ogunsan said...

Don't mind the fat minutes cow,na you open the seal of the milk, no mean say Na only you deep spoon finish am. See him stupid face runs girls meal ticket.tah get out for there, when them done get little fame,them done turn counsellor even in issues they don't ideal on.

Anonymous said...

How about you, Mr. Ayade? Did you marry as a virgin? Very likely not. Now, have you remained faithful to your marriage vows and wife all these years? Think not. What makes you think chastity is but a girl's/woman's burden? Just tired of the double standards, myopic sensibilities and hypocrisy especially on moral issues of the day. Better to think deep and wide, in order, to find lasting solutions to this scourge. QED@atm

Blunt truth. said...

Don't mind the fat minutes cow,na you open the seal of the milk, no mean say Na only you deep spoon finish am. See him stupid face runs girls meal ticket.tah get out for there, when them done get little fame,them done turn counsellor even in issues they don't ideal on.

Genevieve Okoroigbo said...

Story for the gods.





says, Genevieve.

Anonymous said...

Moron!...My guy use to shag your useless wife back in Uni...with her watery smelly P***y

APPLE said...

See this one SMH.

Anonymous said...

This one is just talking nonsense. So na only woman dey get HIV for sex. Smh

Anonymous said...

No be only virgin,na virgin airways...Are we expecting you'd come say she wasn't a virgin when u met her...Funny man

Anonymous said...

Perfect question

Jamila Shaibu said...

Mtecwww

Mamman Bako said...

Very misogynist! Mr. Governor were you a virgin too?! Women need stand up against these kinds of stereotypes in media.

Iphie Abraham said...

Wow!I so love this couple,they are just too sweet and good together. As for pre-marital sex and unfaithful partners,hiv is real











Lib addict#just passing#

Maureen Njoku said...

Hmmmmm politicians sha. I bet u he has never been faithful

Tosin said...

Your wife I mean your wife alone can tell!

Musa simon audu said...

Ok....#Lindatakenote

Anonymous said...

What about you Governor? Are you faithful to her like she is to you?

mary aamarah said...

Fucking idiots, instead of advising both genders to avoid premarital sex and both be faithful, he's asking girls to remain virgins and not the boys, what has Has he taught young people now? That it is the girls duty to be a virgin, but not a boy? Stupid ass society we live in. Mtchewww!

Anonymous said...

Thank you was going to politely ask this question

Anonymous said...

LMAO @virgin airways....this cracked me up big time

Anonymous said...

Governor. Have you been faithful?

Unknown said...

the whole statement is so sexist. so an AFRICAN WOMAN is virtious if she keeps her viginity for her husband. but i didnt see anything about an AFRICAN MAN being virtious if he keeps his viginty for his wife. premarital sex invovles both a man and a woman. so it is not only the woman that should abstain but the MAN also.

Anonymous said...

You married her a Virgin and so fucking what,I have dated a Virgin once,and you won't believe the kind of things we did together.

Chinenye Onoh said...

So he advised only women to remain virgins nd be faithful to their spouse... Men nko. .. Mtcheww

Anonymous said...

Ayade no dey talk that kind thing for public make you no for the make the fool out of yourself because the person wet dey tidy your wife fit dey somewhere the lough.keep the story to yourself next time huh.

Anonymous said...

Can you imagine this foolish kini... WHy don't you say things you have done to prevent the virus spread. I just dey vex for this idiot ishiaki.
Kudos to the wifey though

daniel ubong said...

Not too bad sha,good for both of them.

Anonymous said...

She's a virgin when u married her, how many women have u taken there virginity and never marry them and if u were a virgin as well before u married her? Totally bullshits

Anonymous said...

Storries tellers

ifeyinwa theresa said...

Thank you for that question.

Emeka Okpara said...

Sir, what about you? Were you a virgin when you married her, and have you been faithful?

Vivian Reginalds said...

nna shut up joor
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Ifeyinwa Atuanya said...

Sex before marriage kwa?

Well...the bible talks about virginity.

But things happen.

People believe lies, truths, and what they wish to believe.

They have sex before marriage and after marriage.

They have parents who can advise them, and they can advise themselves as well.

Some people say abstinence, some people say celibacy.

What do you say?

Anonymous said...

dis ayade of a man !!!!why are u saying dis virginity thing .if nigeria is like u.s.a ben ayade all de young girls in warri will come out and say what u did to them get a set mr man i know u and u know ur self

Anonymous said...

Aren't the men supposed to be virgins too??

Anonymous said...

Leaders still make stupidly sexist comment in public.
Ladies keep your virginity. Boys keep trying to fuck.
Wife is virgin, congratulations. How about you? Sleeping with runs gals?

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