Majority of us living are carriers of various diseases; infections and worst of all burdens. We fail to share our problems with people around us because of the general ego we (humans) exhibit. Sometimes, it might not be the ego but the fear of been stigmatized. Share on Facebook Share on Twitter One thing I have come to realize is that humans irrespective of our race or sex have one problem or the other but never get solution because we conceal these pains to ourselves alone.I have suffered a lot in the past because of my ignorance and shy personality but I have taken this bold step to share my experience with you all readers so as to save some millions of souls out there who is suffering from this condition I was battled with even though I was presented with a saving grace (http://aloehealthshop.com.ng/
I know many would say not bad now nor too old an age for an African man, but truth be told it was an underachievement in terms of child rising for me considering the standard I had set for myself initially. I came from a well to do home and was very lucky to gain admission into university at the age of seventeen were I studied history and international studies.
While I was in 200 level, few months to my 19th birthday I was still a virgin but felt ashamed of my status because of what older boys would say about having fun with their lovers on campus. Since I had no girl friend of my own I picked up some shameful practice which was masturbation. I soon got addicted and never felt the urge for having a girl-friend anymore, hence I was a very shy person who cannot confidently walk up to a lady and ask her out. As an addict, I would seek for any opportunity to induce ejaculation which would mean making use of any available opportunity either in the room alone, toilet, bathrooms, and sometimes in the sitting room while watching adult movies. The exercise was never a total success in many occasions as I soon got nervous whenever I hear voices or footsteps approaching I tend to hasting up the ejaculation so I can gain the needed pleasure before the intrusion of the third party. Often times the duration of these practice is 2 minutes and few seconds at max. Gradually, it became a habit an even without any interference I could no longer hold up for more than two minutes before ejaculating.
It got me so
worried because I could have my peers bragging of lasting for more than 20 – 30
minutes during sexual intercourse I knew quite well that some might be
exaggerating but not withstanding I could not help that feeling of been weak or
inferior among them so I never told anyone about my condition. I had my very
first girl friend at the dinner party organized for us the final year students.
I was 20 years plus then while she was 22.
My mature look and lanky stature helped me overcome the age gap between us. She told me that she was a virgin, so, we never needed to have sex which was very ok by me. We had our marriage immediately after our service year since my parents agreed to sponsor it. The marriage exposed my deficiency I did not have an enjoyable honeymoon. I tried hard but could never get my spouse to orgasm. She agreed to endure with me and we began to seek for solution. I tried so many local herbs but it never worked all I achieved was quick erection but not lasting sex life. I was shy to open up to my family doctors. I stayed long on the internet but never came across this life changer