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Tuesday, 29 November 2016

'Maje had once written an email to me requesting a divorce but had deleted it, without sending' - Toke Makinwa writes

Toke Makinwa is such a strong woman. I couldn't have endured what she endured. I'm not that strong! I finally have a copy of the book and I can't believe some of things I've read so far! In chapter one, Toke talked about when Maje asked for a divorce in an email he never sent...
"My pastor has been seeing Maje and I before now for counseling. We have been having issues for months. Maje is always in a sour mood, picking at every little thing I do. I found out in the course of our counselling that Maje had once written an email to me requesting a divorce but had deleted it, without sending, at our pastor's request."

88 comments:

Alloy Chikezie said...

I'd like to have a copy of the book.

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AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

He should write his own book so we can hear his own side of the story #OnbecomingMaje❗️
While Anita follows #OnbecomingAnita



~glo rule your world~ cos I do•

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

I'm officially tired of their stories

vinna saviour said...

It's well with her soul

Uju Phil said...

Na waoh... i hope this ends soonest biko,i dnt know who they epp sef!!! #Muva

Pinky161 said...

Shut up listen...what you read is one sided. Don't conclude until you've heard from both sides. Toke my foot

Ogenah Boris said...

Very thing will surely go public

livingstone chibuike said...

linda biko let toke's scenerio no discourage u o...u special

blissful said...

Linda Ikeji remember Dan Foster drama you took.

onome akpokodje said...

Hmmm.another story

Genevieve Okoroigbo said...

Everyone has a story to tell, is when u open ur chapter then people will understand.






says, Genevieve.

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

She really has bin strong. Hope to read the book someday. Pls guys, learn to take a walk when it's obvious the relationship isn't working. I bet u that in the long run, the guy/girl will regret ever treating you bad. But when u remain and keep taking shit how do u expect to be missed or valued? Take a walk today cos God has someone better for u.

Long Live LIB

Anonymous said...

Lmfao

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Emh! Lindaway ozugo, e don do biko, I actually pity her but she could have just move out of that relationship b4 now.enough biko.

VEEKEE FRESH said...

thats their problem....

Agatha said...

Gbam!!!

OSINANL said...

ENOUGH OF TOKE ABEG...

Anonymous said...

Strong woman my foot. Assassinating d character of a man u claim u loved, just to sell a book. Shame on you Toke. That's wat u get wen u try to force urself on a man you know is not yours.

Anonymous said...

LMFAO...Aboki you are such a clown.

Iphie Abraham said...

Eyah! Am glad s was able able pull tru









Lib addict#just passing#

Anonymous said...

We have conveniently forgotten her character was assasinated when her insensitive husband decided to shame her publicly with getting another pregnant. Why should he be protected. I'm sure this anonymous is a women. Women can be so foolish. They endorse the wrongs men do to them and berate their fellow women for speaking out. Marriage is not a lifeline

Anonymous said...

lol...@ hastag 😂

Yebo said...

I think Toke lacked self respect or had terribly low self esteem. that's the only reason any woman will allow a man deal with her so shabbily even before the wedding and she still went ahead to marry such a worthless man.
I don't think its love, love for self and others would not allow you to subject yourself to such a ridicule she called marriage.
I hope that now that she is free from the shackles, she can learn to love herself and choose a man that can love and appreciate her beautiful heart.
and i hope other young girls out there also learned from her experience, thank God she got out alive, others may not be that lucky.
I'm married and I believe in perseverance and putting your all to make your marriage work, but her's was absolute stupidity.

chinelo igbokwe said...

Enough of tokes drama biko

Ovieh Papa said...

Linda, stop INSERTING yourself in this mess. This is the second time you are doing this as if you are looking for a STUPID justification to stay single. 90% of marriages are NOT like this.

Adesanwo kemi said...

It is well with her soul. Linda see to that case

Anonymous said...

I think I need 2 use dis word Toke ur a shamless godiger

Aze James said...

It's obvious toke is lieing, linda all dis kinda books na him u dey like so u wld have more excuse not to marry me. Iv always knwn toke wz a fake so thruout d relationship der waz no nice time @ all?mtheeew bullsit!!!

Anonymous said...

it then simply means that Maje never loved her

FredLaw said...

What if a man wrote all this about a woman he used to love? Will the general reaction be the same?

nina said...

Toke is enough jooo as if were the only perfect one in the marriage. So through out the dating and the marriage you were perfect? Metcheeew m

Financial freedom said...

What if she's NY saying the truth. This is nt A fact that can be verified. I wonder why Linda is publicizing this book; probably she's looking for ways to justify her status

Briish queen said...

To me, this isn't strength, this is pure bullshit and stupidity at its peak, toke just ruined the way any man or woman sees her. I repeat this is not the kind of strength we should encourage for the younger ones. 12 years, this is like the olden days, even our grandmothers didn't suffer like this as a polygamous home. This is weakness at its peak and to monetise weakness is the height of being lame. With all this alleged stories that toke has written, she dare not challenge me in public or advise me cos I will wash her straight with gutter water. I am irritated. This is one man people one freaking man without a structured career. I could have heard that it was different men. Mschewww..abeg linda toke dey learn compared to you that is really strong.

okafor vicee said...

We all got our personal problems to deal with, Toke loves publicity..she's has always been fake.

christie benjamin said...

Sigh! Just when I'd thought we're done with the Kim drama another Kim emerges! Na wa oh!

Jamila Shaibu said...

Cool

Anonymous said...

Its not easy to have a comfortable relationship with a woman who is into 100% skin bleaching.

APPLE said...

Never knew she was this stupid. It is not even Anita's fault, Maje never loved her period.

Anonymous said...

Linda u want to be toke's friend at all costs. Even warming up to her in ur fake post. Truth be told she no send you. Nor her friends. So stick with your own class. You werent even invited to the book launch.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Somehow, I wish she dint write d book


...merited happiness

Anonymous said...

@ Anon 13:07 "Marriage is not a lifeline" So why did she go ahead to marry him when he stood her up at d registry multiple times?
They dated for around 9 years and she knew about Anita all along. So why did she go ahead with the marriage?
So she was busy giving r/ship advice to ladies while hers was in a mess.
Anyway it's gud she shares her story so oda girls would learn from her.
BTW am definitely not a "women". Cheers

Esther Norah said...

Linda pls stop occupying us wit t book. Its for you to read from digest. Stop doin dis to ur fellow woman and mak it look lik u feel for her.wen u keep postin a particular news it start gettin boring. Instead of updating us wit passages from d book, update us on news on their next move.

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for this

Nma Akanno said...

So much stupidity in your comment. i wu serious Otele nsi.

Anonymous said...

And your Toke is alpha and omega or What? Who Toke's friendship Don help?
Common, Linda is a blogger doing her job, and things like this drive their business. And you are a stalker, stalking her.

Anonymous said...

And your Toke is alpha and omega or What? Who Toke's friendship Don help?
Common, Linda is a blogger doing her job, and things like this drive their business. And you are a stalker, stalking her.

Anonymous said...

Are you in the relationship with, don't just conclude biko, Go get Maje's side. What's the aim this book abeg! She should forget about Maje already, With all this she is not a strong woman.

Anonymous said...

I don't want to die in silence, because if I speak out I believe and pray I will get help. After my shop and goods I bought with almost all my savings was raised down by fire some months back, I lost a lot and from that day onwards till today I have been struggling to stand on my feet again, It has not been easy coupled with the fact that my rent has expired for over a month and my landlord has given me two weeks to pay up or pack out. Pls I need help no amount is little as it will go a long way in paying up my rent. thank you. Francabrown13@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

And u've heard Maje's side of the story to apply deductive reasoning? Don't be so naive Linda

HRM paull said...

I am happy some sensible females are dis associating themselves from toke.Toke the truth is you got played. Big time.What transpired btw u an ur ex is private it ain't ourr business's wen he was screwing you I u tel us wen u gave him a head did u telll us pls spare us.Its only frustrated spinster and out of marriage girls like tiwa,lilian esoro that will relate to this work bcos I don't see how some one willl break up with the ex and write a book about it.

Anonymous said...

Am very sure u re jobless, someone is doin her job n u re insulting her! Wat does she av, dat Linda don't av much more

Anonymous said...

This chic is really strong,no wonder any-tin social media throws at her bounces back because she has endured more! wow

Anonymous said...

He wanted a divorce but you tried to make him stay, then he turns to a monster. It is a classic story. When a man starts to nit-pick, he is tired. Shikena. This babe is as foolish as they come. You were playing internet love like say he was superman, now he is the devil abi. You are ridiculous. No perfect relationships. A woman left me to go be with another man in another country. I don't cry over it. You dust yourself up and move on. Stop trying to be Nigeria's Kardashian, it won't work. If he blindsided you, we would have listened, you walked into it because you love attention and you still love attention. You want media relevance- Newyorker

Anonymous said...

He wanted a divorce but you tried to make him stay, then he turns to a monster. It is a classic story. When a man starts to nit-pick, he is tired. Shikena. This babe is as foolish as they come. You were playing internet love like say he was superman, now he is the devil abi. You are ridiculous. No perfect relationships. A woman left me to go be with another man in another country. I don't cry over it. You dust yourself up and move on. Stop trying to be Nigeria's Kardashian, it won't work. If he blindsided you, we would have listened, you walked into it because you love attention and you still love attention. You want media relevance- Newyorker

Anonymous said...

Linda ikeji please be little ur self..why r u using friendship to judge issues? U r free to b single but don't try to justify it abeg..toke dat dressed naked to her book lunch

Stern said...

BIA LINDA AND TOKE, MAKE I HEAR WORD BIKO!!
SOME WOMEN WILL JUST FRAME UP SOME DUMBASS STORY JUST TO GAIN PUBLIC SYMPATHY!!! MTCHEEW!
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Stern said...

BIA LINDA AND TOKE, MAKE I HEAR WORD BIKO!!
SOME WOMEN WILL JUST FRAME UP SOME DUMBASS STORY JUST TO GAIN PUBLIC SYMPATHY!!! MTCHEEW!
IF YOU LOVE THICK PUSSY SEX TAPES, PLS WATCH ALL OF THEM COMPILATIONS HERE>>>

YOU MUST BE IN A PRIVATE PLACE TO WATCH THIS VIDEO, YOU MUST BE 18+

BECAUSE YOU'LL SURELY POUR!!!

Anonymous said...

Hmmm, Linda, are you now the official APROKO for TOKE?

Abeg let the matter be.

Until we hear MAJE side of the story......All na wash

evy claret said...

Okay



Eva Da Diva...

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Oma said...

can someone pls tell Toke 2 stop with d plenty stories. We are seriously tired of hearing abt her shit in public.doesn't she ve any decency!

Oma said...

can someone pls tell Toke 2 stop with d plenty stories. We are seriously tired of hearing abt her shit in public.doesn't she ve any decency!

laura brown said...

Linda abeg abeg habbba what is it?? Marriage is not a bed of roses. Of course it has its good and interesting moments. Why is everyone blaming Maje without hearing from him. Toke came out as an Angel like she did absolutely nothing. If u cant take what she took den my sister you are certainly not ready to have a home. Truth is no matter what, she failed in her duties of keeping her home

Anonymous said...

Pls for crying out loud, Toke should keep her mouth shut. I save herself from all this empathy she is seeking for. Its so unfortunate that she couldn't manage her marriage regardless of who is/ was at fault. It takes two to tangle. Marriage isn't all about beauty, career and all the way the world perceive of it. Marriage should be solely be based on God's holy word"the Bible ". Which strongly says God hates divorce. I am not in support of what Maje did,neither am I in support how Toke is shooting herself by herself by exposing her life and marriage. Linda kindly inform her that it's no matter all and how sh paints Maje, there are people "even friends " that could b inwardly happy - enemy of progress. Maje may have moved on, so let Toke move on too. Let me reiterate and state it clearly " that she isn't authorised to marry again toll death do them apart. That's the only basis on which divorce has its ground. I wish her well. Let her be strong in the Lord and keep moving
Thanks

Anonymous said...

Toke is no saint, she and her friends have ruined others people's marriages. If those woman sat down and wrote a quarter of what they've gone through, toke's story would be a book no one would buy. You shouldn't spread all your dirty linen.

Chyere chyme said...

Toke do not be too hard on yourself. Agreed you make a mistake. I called it a mistake because it looks as if you forced yourself into that marriage in the first place. This book is another mistake, each time your read or see the book it will most likely bring back the memories. The right thing is let your Past remain in the past.Especially when that past is this bad. Most important thing in life is JESUS.He is a very perfect help. Am looking forward to the day I will read about your experience with Jesus.That all you. Shalom

Anonymous said...

everything look fake

Anonymous said...

Linda! Sebi u finally want to marry. Your future husband just dey corner dey reason the way u dey reason.

Anonymous said...

This is the stupidest tin ever. What she feeling like writing her life history am serious who the hell cares even Kim did a selfie book is so much better than this crap how can she write about her marriage and many tins pls many people have gone through worse if other people should write there's people like toke will criticize us. Pls Linda end the cycle of nonsense. She can write all the hell she wants to hid the fact that she got no talent than posting rubbish all the time. She should have sat her ass down and managed her home. Marriage is for better or worse. Pls don't encourage stuffs like this.

Anonymous said...

Idiot. How is she a golddigger when maje was clearly feeding off her. Read a book and stay off entertainment blogs mofo. U need it

Final said...

I actually respect her now after this book. I thought she was one of those all show no creative substance. It is inevitable to grow in intelligence at a later age without a dose of conflict or chaos as a tipping point. Her relationship is her chaos,she can now move on and find herself

McANTHONY ECHEFU said...

Madam take am easy,let's hear from Maje,u are becoming so sentimental and unreasonably emotional about this,the main reason u are not a judge.

sholetoga said...

Toke is strong for writing about her experience......many of us go through worst things than this but we endure it.....Kudos girl

Anonymous said...

cheap publicity. .. Let Toke go and sit down... she talks too much

Anonymous said...

There are 3 sides to every story. Your side, my side & the truth.

Oghenetega said...

Fool..How.did she dressed naked?
Was it that Lunatic Woman told U guys.. Get a Life
U need a Hug with the nearest Transformer arnd U.... Idiot

Oghenetega said...

Decency in telling her own story.? MUMU

Oghenetega said...

Keeps Preaching... Don't even knowing where all this Skelewu anonymous are emanating from & Limda keep enhabling una stupidity everywhere...

Oghenetega said...

Did she Ruin ur Marriage.? Ode
Or U think every1 will be like U that give it everywhr U go.?

Oghenetega said...

Nope.. She's telling her own story & nothing will happen 2 her.
At least they know Maje for who he is ..
A Dog like U

Oghenetega said...

Ur Life look plastic

Oghenetega said...

Linda won't tk no shit from no miserable Man..

Oghenetega said...

Ode.. she sold out & ppl are begging all over the world to buy the book... have U eaten today.?

Oghenetega said...

U are one of the few sensible one today.... thanks for U sense of reseaoning Jare.
Than those mumu that just wanna bash Toke 4 Nothing while she's making her Money Makimg Lemonade outta Lemon..

Anonymous said...

Linda you really need to stop saying "toke was stong" on the contrary she was too weak. Too weak to move on from such a bad relationship and it took the guy to dump her even after their wedding to get her up. Maybe u can say she is now strong.

Anonymous said...

Toke is d sidechic/wife frm get go so she shuld take several sit. If i were Maje i will marry Anita to bury Toke.

Edolite

Oma said...

Oghenetega! U no get sense!so ur advising Toke to keep pouring her heart out nd not move on?Na u be d proper MUMU wey dey dis place!

Oma said...

Break ups happen everyday,it could b d man's faults or d lady.we should not come out here nd say things like we are saints! Toke should learn 2 move past dis.is obvious she married d wrong husband.

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