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Tuesday, 29 November 2016

"I was willing to become like Anita to keep Maje" - Toke Makinwa

I don't know where Toke found the strength to keep loving Maje as desperately as she did despite all the pain she was in in the relationship. I'm not sure I could love a man this deeply...or if I want any man to love me this way. Almost borders on obsession. I don't understand it. Toke writes;
"I tried to talk to him...a deep conversation in the dark where we could bare our souls to each other. I asked why he wouldn't let Anita go? What was it about her? With tears in my eyes and desperate to save my home, I was willing to learn, to become like her if that was what he wanted. It it was the sex, I asked him to teach me her moves. If it was her character I wanted to know, so I become what he saw in her. I was drained; I had no pride in that moment. I begged him to give us a chance"
You guys need to buy this book mehn....It will give you goosebumps. Toke went through things that I couldn't imagine putting myself through. She even told a story of how Maje told her a day after their wedding in 2014 that he missed Anita Solomon. Women need to read this book and learn from it...

130 comments:

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Love 😍 is blind! Thank God her eyes is open now

Uju Phil said...

Mtew...

..........!!!!!!!

Uju Phil said...

If this is a hype babe, it's really an exasperating one, ah ah since, since morning fah toke this Maje that... Anita This... You no dey tire? I just wish these people could clapback. Fed up with this lopsided thang biko!!!!! Move on already

Anonymous said...

Now i beleive when people call you an idiot, big fool. continue doing eye service with your dry blog. linda get a life and stop bothering us with that stupid woman toke.

WE WILL NOT BUY IT, FUCK UP AND SHUT IT ALREADY! ENOUGH OLD WOMAN!

Anonymous said...

Now i beleive when people call you an idiot, big fool. continue doing eye service with your dry blog. linda get a life and stop bothering us with that stupid woman toke.

WE WILL NOT BUY IT, FUCK UP AND SHUT IT ALREADY! ENOUGH OLD WOMAN!

Blunt Queen said...

Learn what exactly?how to be obsessed with a man and pause your whole life for him?

freeborn bamislam suani ahmad zinalima said...

Linda please don't post this oo avoid toke anger on u. YOUR READERS ARE TIRED OF ALL THIS TOKE THIS TOKE THAT IS SHE THE ONLY PERSON TO FACE THIS KIND THING. SO SHE IS TRYING BE LIKE ANITA NOW HUH? WHY DID SHE DO IT THAT TIME TO SAVE HER FALLING MARRIAGE? anita is not artificial. Anita won maje dick because she is not strict and hard to maje. TOKE IS TOO LATE I WILL ADVICE U TO BE SELF U HAVE TO WORK ON UR SELF ANITA DID NOT WON MAJE DICK WITH YORUBA JUJU OR WHAT EVER. TOKE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR 55% OF WHAT SHE SUFFERD. Linda what do u expect ur reader to read again when they have read the whole thing here. TOKE BE OPEN STOP BEING HARD AND STRICT HUMBLE UR SELF THAT IS THE SWORD OF EVERY SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.
Linda u can delete it because i can see that she paid u for this and not to allow critics or advice under the advert.freeborn hiss.






























#sad indeed

Quality Madam said...

Her cup of tea, Linda stop using idea to advertise it for us, their is nothing to learn from it but only foolishness of a relationship expert.

christie benjamin said...

Any update on Mr West??? Seriously praying for him.

Anonymous said...

This is one book drama queens will love. NEXT!!!!

Anonymous said...

How is buying her book going to help my life. Abeg yarn beta tinz

livingstone chibuike said...

hmmmm tired already wit dis toke vs maje stuff

Anonymous said...

And how much were you paid for the publicity? Cos obviously u don't do things for free

Anonymous said...

Please stop promoting lies. its unfair to hear one side of the story and pass judgment. how much is she paying you Linda. get a life you old woman

Anonymous said...

Don't take advice from Negative pple, just listen and Nod in response. Observe and analyze the person speaking; most times, they r broken inside. when someone speaks iIl about others but gives advice, trust me they r the ones going tru same thing they are advising about. Pretending to b King Kong On the outside but totally messed up inside( they soak there pillows from Jan-Dec on same Issh and pretend to d world all is well)No child of God will speak in this manner. Be careful who u listen to ...I tell pipo all the time, be YOU b ORIGINAL stop d copy cat,just Negodu from dark skin to fair... Maka y? So many island girls living a fake life and dying inside! Maka y

kunta said...

Lol...
We understand Toke is your paddi continue advertising the book for her
Na una sabi

Esther Norah said...

Sometimes u neva know wot goes on in pple's relationships. They look perfect outside lik Beyonce n jayz buh dey r so hurt on d inside n cover up with makeup n fashion. Linda read d comments of ur post, pple r telling u to stop wot ur doin buh ur nt adhering. Ur commenters r rude and abusive while other blogs or social platforms r commenting with maturity on d matter.so dnt expect ur readers to side Toke as u wud.

Anonymous said...

Where is Linda and what have you done with her blog? Linda doesn't write like this..Whoever is writing the commentary is dumb.

Anonymous said...

Pls Linda stop making so much sensation about toke and her book, na only one side of the story oh, Abeg we don tire, hissssss

Anonymous said...

Don't take advice from Negative pple, just listen and Nod in response. Observe and analyze the person speaking; most times, they r broken inside. when someone speaks iIl about others but gives advice, trust me they r the ones going tru same thing they are advising about. Pretending to b King Kong On the outside but totally messed up inside( they soak there pillows from Jan-Dec on same Issh and pretend to d world all is well)No child of God will speak in this manner. Be careful who u listen to ...I tell pipo all the time, be YOU b ORIGINAL stop d copy cat,stop bouncing ard like a BALL! Let ur words b credible just Negodu from dark skin to fair... Maka y? So many island girls living a fake life and dying inside! Maka y

Anonymous said...

Don't take advice from Negative pple, just listen and Nod in response. Observe and analyze the person speaking; most times, they r broken inside. when someone speaks iIl about others but gives advice, trust me they r the ones going tru same thing they are advising about. Pretending to b King Kong On the outside but totally messed up inside( they soak there pillows from Jan-Dec on same Issh and pretend to d world all is well)No child of God will speak in this manner. Be careful who u listen to ...I tell pipo all the time, be YOU b ORIGINAL stop d copy cat,stop bouncing ard like a BALL! Let ur words b credible just Negodu from dark skin to fair... Maka y? So many island girls living a fake life and dying inside! Maka y

dengel nwachukwu said...

Linda,enough of dis crap,your being partial,were u paid to promote d book,being one-sided is not good for your person,have u heard from maje,ur acting in an unprofessional way,why hyping d bleached out chic,pls b professional.

Just ask people to read the book...

This Book is just like APC manifesto book...

Which over 160 million Nigerians believed as true as you believing this lady.

Please adjust!!!


Anonymous said...

Linda how much did Toke Makinwa pay you to lick her arse on your blog?
Has it occurred to you that there are always two sides to every story in life. Oh yeah, i forgot your feminist brain cannot discern that. Toke is a woman and you are a woman. So, you are going to believe she is the victim even if evidence suggest that she is not.
I am not trying to be mean, but Linda, I really feel sorry for any man that makes the mistake of taking you as a wife. He would truly suffer. I think you have done the right thing by being single. Please, do not marry as It would not last. This is not a curse. It's just that your thinking and mindset is not ready for marriage.
Your blog already says a lot about you and who you truly are. A whole lot.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, I'm waiting for the pirated copy. Lol. Jokes aside, Toke your ex hubby loved you but was in love with Anita Solomon(the side chic feeling like wonder woman) but you were so much in love with him that you couldn't let him go. Thank God, you guys broke up. Now, he can settle down with Anita and watch God uplift you and give you your own beta husband. Maje Ayida, please give an interview or something to give us your own side of the story hehehe. And Anita,hmmmmmmmm...... You need help.

Anonymous said...

Linda we are about getting sick and tired...she made best seller already the famzing should be over.

Anonymous said...

anno 21:50 u are so right about linda, any man who like linda and read her coment will run for his life men..... Linda is too full of herself judging from her coment.

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Learn to take a walk when it's not working else you will end up writing a book!!!


Long Live LIB

Anonymous said...

anno 21:50 u are so right about linda, any man who like linda and read her coment will run for his life men..... Linda is too full of herself judging from her coment,maybe that's y she's single she's too harsh.

Anonymous said...

anno 21:50 u are so right about linda, any man who like linda and read her coment will run for his life men..... Linda is too full of herself judging from her coment,maybe that's y she's single she's too harsh.

Jamila Shaibu said...

Mtecwwwwww

Anonymous said...

Toke needs to seek a good psychiatrist. She doesn't value herself. How can she stay with a man for 12 years with all that negativity. Everyone warned her, she still hung on desperately. The man never loved her, he was never into her. She should get a life and let him have his

Anonymous said...

If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check your price tag. You have undervalued yourself

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha you don vex

ifeanyi ogu said...

Thank you very much. She best remain single. My fear is for the younger girls growing, Linda will end up encouraging them to remain single and not see reasons in praying to God for a good man and a wonderful Family.

Eleojo Blessing said...

Enough of dis biko

Anonymous said...

Linda, you are having being siding Toke. I have details about my relationship with Toke while she was still married to Maje. She threaten to hook me with police if i dear release nasty pics abt her. She knows me. Toke is bigest fool in Nigeria industry. Toke am talking you. You knw what am saying .

Anonymous said...

Linda enough with this crap na, haba!!! How can a full grown ass woman not know when a guy isn't all that into her. If she likes let her stay with him for 20 years, he will stil do wat he wants to do, toke is just telling us that she is truly less than smart like we suspected all this time. FYI maje is not a bad guy, he only acted like a guy who wasn't in love with his wife. Period!!! And I am a female fyi. But I can't blame him at all. Toke should plz have several seats no one can hurt u unless u give them that power. End of story.I don't want to hear anything about her stupid book anymore or I will delete ur app from my phone . Enough! !!

Alloy Chikezie said...

Toke was more than in love with maje, it was an obsession.

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Anonymous said...

The Title shd have been " 12yrs a slave ".... 12 yrs Yoruba girl no child? Fake ass bleached lier

Anonymous said...

Linda I think TOKE is one sided. SHE only share the bad times they must have been good times too. Abeg I think Annie idibia need to write a book too cos how many times did 2baba break her heart but she handle it with maturity and won her man back, I think toke need to wake and face reality. Linda stop promoting the book cos toke too has her fault.

Aze James said...

Dis is wat I call bullsit!!!!

Cream said...

U are an idiot.pray to live long.ode

Cream said...

Dont insult linda,make i no break ya head

Anonymous said...

Linda enough of this biko,haba allow us read the book,i must personally buy,but enough of this page by page news,aproko linda

Anonymous said...

CRAP! Linda dis is getting annoying

Emy said...

I am sponsoring a bill that RoMario, AbOKI of Zamfara & Onyi, shud do a 1-week rag-day to help raise money for Toke. she has really suffered in Anita's kingdom. Chai!

Anonymous said...

SHE DATED HIM FOR 12 YEARS KNEW HE WAS A CHEAT, KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM AND SHE STILL WENT AHEAD AND MARRIED HIM NOW SHE IS TRYING TO SPOIL HIS IMAGE. IF U CAN'T HAVE HIM NO ONE ELSE WILL.. IS IT?

Anonymous said...

WAT IF IT IS A MAN THAT IS WRITING ALL THESE ABOUT HIS EX WIFE, LINDA PLS STOP JUDGING RELATIONSHIPS WITH BOOK AND ONE PARTY TALK, THEY WERE ALL IN THE MARRIAGE BOTH OF THEM ONLY KNOW THE WHOLE TRUTH

Anonymous said...

LINDA PLS STOP HELPING THIS GAL STOP THIS MAN'S IMAGES, JUST PROMOTE THE BOOK WHO WANTS TO BUY SHOULD BUY JUST STOP CASTIGATING THE MAN BIKO

Anonymous said...

Has anyone thought that this whole book thingy could be a collaboration between toke maje and Anita to make money cos I don't understand how someone could be so explicit in a book. The things people do for money you'll be amazed o. My two coin

Anonymous said...

Juz as Mr Blossom married the side chick instad of Lilian esoro live iz unfair

Anonymous said...

Linda keep saying you don't need a man when u busy using cucumber in the shower.....

Anonymous said...

Hey anon 21:35 y r u so pained?

Anonymous said...

I Just completed the book.Wheew it's unbelievable the amount of misery Toke has endured, I couldn't let myself go through this amount of pain.Wow OMG I believe only God can heal her. I wouldn't want to take sides but at some point it Almost makes you want to hunt down the other Intruding woman in the marriage and give her a good old ass whooping

Anonymous said...

I really don't care for maje or Anita S side of the story. NO woman deserve to be subjected to all this Pain
He could have left her alone at some point.

toksy said...

I can't call it love it was obsession.
How can someone told you he missed an ex second day of wedding?our ladies should be careful.

chinasa enyinnaya said...

eyaaah

Zuby said...

Hmm,they are old enough to know what is good for them

Anonymous said...

Maybe she doesn't have adviser to tell her to stop this copy and paste for us with this toke's book, as if linda was there when the problem started,very annoying woman ,hearing one side of the story and not confirming how true......I like her before but she is just annoying right now with this toke this and that,when its a womans issue then war begin but when its a woman that cut off a mans dick or use cutlass on his head while sleeping then its no issue.

Anonymous said...

When u swallow such trash....what else would u produce if not gutter journalism.

Philips choice said...

When the.innocent guy open his mouth to tell his own side of the story, your jaw will drop. I don't believe this fake story, its all about the money and her stupid book. If na me be the guy, nija people go read book tire. I'll write my own side of the story. Stupid woman.

Anonymous said...

Lindodo, you know that when the story of Anita's baby delivery broke, I came on your site and said that looking at the pictures of Maje and Anita, he seemed happier with Anita. He always looked contrived and controlled with toke. the problem is this. I think Anita did not have all the success trappings he wanted and Toke did. He wanted the best of both worlds - the joy Anita gives him and the access Toke gives him so he decided to fcuk them both. That is a very bad decision. I am glad Toke is exposing his ass in this book.

Anonymous said...

Toke pls move on period. Save yourself some dignity

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Issokey.

Innocent Uchenna said...

Enough mbok...

Anonymous said...

MAJE RAN AWAY BECAUSE HE SAW HIS LIFE AT STAKE... THIS IS A DREADFUL OBSESSION!!!! DO YOU KNOW THAT TOKE CAN MURDER HIM OUT OF EXTREME JEALOUSY IF HE MARRIES ANOTHER WOMAN... Hmmmmmm THAT IS IF SHE IS NOT EVEN PLANNING TO DO SOMETHING TERRIBLE TO HIM.

Anonymous said...

Linda,forming see why I've not yet married?Toke has even started dating sef,so all ur story of "I can't take did" no follow

Anonymous said...

Linda. Linda, Linda!!!
You ar becoming very boring with this story!!!
Is today a bit news day??
Get busy with other news, we are tired of Toke's story already!!!

Anonymous said...

Linda, N wah for U ooo!
Please we are not interested in Toke's story.

code009 said...

Am indifferent about it. I won't buy the book because I don't have money even if ojuelegba version comes out.

Anonymous said...

Well,since you've become an ass kisser to Toke,i guess it's only right for you shove her BS into your readers mouth by force..

Move da fuck on and quit this BS.

Anonymous said...

Toke has paid Linda, or she has promised her part of the proceed. I don't understand this kind of advert abeg. I no dey buy. I never see money chop na to buy stupidity.

Bagudu Samuel said...

Toke is fake, Maje is also very very fake.
Why are we making this 2 Fake people hit the headlines

Bagudu Samuel said...

Toke is fake, Maje is also very very fake and ugly
Why are we making this 2 Fake people hit the headlines

Anonymous said...

You are really praying for Kanye?? Wow..that's new. Thought you hated him

Anonymous said...

Who r all these kids commenting here. Pls linda type d whole book. N der r oda posts 4 kids. U mustn't open tokes. So pls leave linda

Etim Etim Samuel said...

Ms Linda, who really CARES if you can or if cannot put yourself through this ? It's arogant of you to think anybody gives a fuck!!!!

Vivian Reginalds said...

She was a fool in love
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Fred said...

This what you get when date a fitness trainer/ model, in his line of work he is going to come across many female and girls will run after him for his physique and popularity why didn't she just do herself a favour and date a normal guy who will adore you but no una want that popular guy .Then you have to deal with what comes with It

Oghenetega said...

Get a Sugar Darling.. U need Joy in ur Life . Obviously its Lacking .. its a Blog & She will bring it as its Hot .

Oghenetega said...

U are the idiot U squirrel silly anonymous. U don Chop?
Its called Blogging .. if U dont like the post dont open it.
Don't know what its itching ur under . Pele O Young Woman.. whats has your age done for U than to come troll. Ode

Oghenetega said...

Why not get the book 1st or the recession is biting that hard on U.?

Oghenetega said...

I wish ur sisters same thing Toke went through. Ok

Oghenetega said...

U better confess that U dont hv kobo 2 ur name cause of the recession but U can still get the autographed one from Toke...

Oghenetega said...

Mumu.. How much can she pay her?
Simply woman supporting Woman.. If U don't F***king like the post leave it thr and move on

Andrewski Ahmadov said...

Linda, you want us to read the book? Upload it so that we can download it FOC. I see Nollywood making a movie out of this story.

Anonymous said...

Bless u my dear..
U said it all

Juliet Iwuno said...

Enough already! Dis Toke matter has become stale news. Linda take note!

Samantha Abdallah said...

Lol i think the book is toooooo dramatic.good luck to Toke

Samantha Abdallah said...

Ermci think its tooooooooo dramatic. Good luck to Toke

Morgana said...

You are the Idiot Madam, if you don't wanna buy the book, then don't open any post that has TOKE MAKINWA on it...
Please spare us ur stupidity..small girl, please tell us how old you are that you can open your dirty stinking mouth to call a 36 year old .....what would you call a 50year old???? Ancient of days abi???? You hide under anonymous to spew maggot just because no one knows you...

Hahaha, now I gerrit, you are Anita solomon or you are a friend of hers.....linda. We know, Toke, we know but YOU, we know not, so please hold your peace

Anonymous said...

If you have been involved with Tosin Shaba you will realise Maje is an angel. He was worse than a monster.

Anonymous said...

Linda, this Toke is a liar. Stop publicizing rubbish story.

Orig said...

The girl needs JESUS in her life, like seriously must she write a book abt it.

Gee said...

Linda.. Pls give us some space.
What's with you & this attention seeking woman. Whoever advised her to write a book.. What a shame.. Must we know what went on between you & Maje?
So Maje was never a good man all through.. Why playing the pity-party.. You are desperate and heartbroken.. You don't want to come to terms that he chose someone you feel superior over you.
Toke.. Keep quiet, move on cos Maje has.
& as for those guys & ladies hyping you, hope you know they are also mocking you behind.

Take a cue from Annie Idibia.. She is a role model to ladies.. What do you even say on you Vlog.
Get hold of your stupid self & let the atmosphere rest. You are not the first to loose out in marriage so chill.

Linda, get busy and stop forming "No man can treat me this way"

Foreverboss said...

It's easy and cheap to castigate and brag that love can't hit you dt bad...my brodas and sistas stop underestimating that four letter word. Love ll certainly make you do things you ordinary won't imagine condoning. If not so, why will the almighty God, the all knowing regret making man...its simply cos of how d love he felt for man dealt with him. It's not bad @ll dt she was willing to do anything to make her love blossom. Love is deep. BEWARE! Lol

oly said...

It is not about becoming Anita. Men prefer simple and not complicated or class.

Ogbodu Kingsley said...

Linda and Toke, you guys need to know that it's easy to force the horse to the river but can't for it to drink the water. Maje never loved Toke and ll not no matter what she become....Toke is just foolish and desperately in love with the wrong person and you can't blame him for her mistake.

tony mike said...

Oga Ade, we ain't God ok. Don't compare the love of God with her lack of knowledge and when to know when to move out of a relationship. Love is not foolishness. Her story from what linda wrote is cock and bull. Fantasy. Just listen to what she said, maje told her he can't stop thinking of Anita. How does that sound mr Lover boy or girl

Anonymous said...

Linda, enough of this your Toke support. She is not even a role model. Why are you talking as if you don't even have any emotions at all. Just humble yourself. Dont allow your ego to ruin you. We all have different stories to tell. That it happened in Toke's marriage does not mean it meant to happen to you. Just humble yourself and submit to a man for marriage. Toke condemning Maje, have we heard the other side of the story from him?. Do you know, if she has an attitudinal problem?. We don't need to condemn Maje so fast.

Vivian Reginalds said...

Haha hi5 Tega
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

Linda call it a sponsored post and act your age and experience. SMH

AUGUSTINE UKETUI said...

I am proud of Toke Makinwa for loving the way she did. Love and hurt happens and it's only very few people who are priviledged to experience it. Just like Linda, i haven't but it's not something to be proud of. I am happy she gave it her best and moved on..most people never do and they end up not knowing if things would have changed if they did. Toke now knows and i respect, if not, adore her.

Anonymous said...

Anon 9:50 How does it pain yu. Ur not God to say Linda won't marry or is not set for marriage. She voiced her opinion and she has that right. The problem with you Naija men is u want to be indispensable. N sorry to say ur not. Women have soooo many options now. Linda doesn't even need to marry a Naija man. She's better off marrying a foreigner. Naija men r took too bitter and vindictive. Raised to be bitches. And BTW if ur a woman SHAME ON YOU

Anonymous said...

To people saying maje stepped out cus toke was all over the place and not paying too much atte tion to her man. False. The problem was that toke was TOO in love with her man. She lost herself in him and he lost respect. That's what Nigerian society needs to get right. And stop teaching girls the way to keep a man is to be desperate and beat his beck and call. Error. A man will respect any woman that remains that sexy independent lady that can hold her own n won't take shit and baby him all the time. No matter how he denies it. That's the woman who will get that respect from him and men cannot love someone they don't respect. This is not female to female advice (which women should stop listening to cus no one knows a man more than an actual man) . no matter how a man denies it the spark will be lost when the woman is constantly there to mommy him, no matter how poorly she is treated. That's probably what happened ijs. Hope someone reading this will finally see that the narrative needs to change in Naija. Men love a challenge that will keep them on. Their toes even in marriage

Anonymous said...

Judging from Linda's comments so far....i advise and beg her to remain single! she is not ready and i suspect she might never be ready for marriage!

Anonymous said...

I suspect that after the bleaching episode Maje could not contain the smell. Toke might just have body odor and unpleasnat smells after the bleaching. Maje ...run for your life. you are very lucky. A shameless woman is not worth a packet of cigaretts!

Anonymous said...

I suspect that after the bleaching episode Maje could not contain the smell. Toke might just have body odor and unpleasnat smells after the bleaching. Maje ...run for your life. you are very lucky. A shameless woman is not worth a packet of cigaretts!

Anonymous said...

I suspect that after the bleaching episode Maje could not contain the smell. Toke might just have body odor and unpleasnat smells after the bleaching. Maje ...run for your life. you are very lucky. A shameless woman is not worth a packet of cigaretts!

Anonymous said...

To people saying maje stepped out cus toke was all over the place and not paying too much atte tion to her man. False. The problem was that toke was TOO in love with her man. She lost herself in him and he lost respect. That's what Nigerian society needs to get right. And stop teaching girls the way to keep a man is to be desperate and beat his beck and call. Error. A man will respect any woman that remains that sexy independent lady that can hold her own n won't take shit and baby him all the time. No matter how he denies it. That's the woman who will get that respect from him and men cannot love someone they don't respect. This is not female to female advice (which women should stop listening to cus no one knows a man more than an actual man) . no matter how a man denies it the spark will be lost when the woman is constantly there to mommy him, no matter how poorly she is treated. That's probably what happened ijs.

Anita was appealing to him cus she wasn't constantly up under him to be taken for granted. I actually hope they get married cus he will eventually tire of her as well. Karma. Anita looks like a no nonsense woman that would call maje out on his isht so he went for someone he thought he'd have peace with (men can be dumb) also add in the fact that toke was rich famous n sponsoring n voila wedding happened. I hope toke has learned what she needs to from this. i Hope someone reading this will finally see that the narrative needs to change in Naija. Men love a challenge that will keep them on Their toes even in marriage

Anonymous said...

Anon 12:28 I knew it.! Pls tell me more

Anonymous said...

God bless you anon 1:45.maje is a user, plain and simple! Let's call a spade a spade. And anita is the most retardedbitch for letting him not up in her n get her pregnant after marrying someone else. It must be the dick cus it ain't his black shit face

Anonymous said...

Nope. Ur wrong. Toke LOST herself in this man. Lost herself. @oly 8:06 pm. Was ready to do anything to please him. Any man would be turned off. Im tired of u fake church people saying its because she was all over the place or wearing too much makeup. The simple thing is she changed who she was to please him that's where she went wrong. I won't tell y'all again. Receive sense

Anonymous said...

Well how do u know he never loved toke. He wouldn't have stayed that long trust me. Ur not in his brain. At some point he must have loved her, but she changed, she compromised too much, gave too Much of herself, allowed herself to be taken for granted. Maje just took advantage of the situation. Its a pity

Anonymous said...

I would not call this strength, rather I would call it low self-esteem. She didn't think she deserved better.

Anonymous said...

lean what? stupidity?

Anonymous said...

Linda how much did Toke Makinwa pay you to lick her arse on your blog?
Has it occurred to you that there are always two sides to every story in life. Oh yeah, i forgot your feminist brain cannot discern that. Toke is a woman and you are a woman. So, you are going to believe she is the victim even if evidence suggest that she is not.
I am not trying to be mean, but Linda, I really feel sorry for any man that makes the mistake of taking you as a wife. He would truly suffer. I think you have done the right thing by being single. Please, do not marry as It would not last. This is not a curse. It's just that your thinking and mindset is not ready for marriage.
Your blog already says a lot about you and who you truly are. A whole lot.

Anonymous said...

LinLin, i know what she went through because i've been there

Anonymous said...

LinLin, its real o. IT'S SO REAL and it only happens to those ones who love like nothing else matters

Anonymous said...

Toke was not a victim but a fool! She's got low self-esteem. No standard! U teach a man how to treat u. Am fuckin 35, never been married, no child, no boyfriend at the moment. Of coz I miss being in a relationship, wil luv to be married and share something exciting wit someone but hell no I won't take ds shit Frm any man! Was suppose to start a relationship with one cool dude like dat but I found out he is cruel early on. He does tins and don't care abt how u feel abt it and won't even knw he has done something wrong, cos he always ask wht did I do rong? Jaw dropping! I called it off 'sharperly'she shd plz take responsibility for her actions. Nonsense!

Aisha said...

I think Toke should have just kept her business private. What, she wants Nigerians to pity her. If it's pity you want, I sympathize with you. A real strong woman doesn't put all her business out there. Well I actually think she's brave. But that's way too much info.

Folasade said...

Whatever happened to her in that marriage she deserves it bc we all know that relationship is dangerous when woman loves man more than the way he loves her,she new from beginning that Maje's heart is divided and instead of letting him go she kept drawing him to herself with calls, msg and invite for dinner,you don't expect her to tell us these but given Maje chance to talk you hear all these. She believed she can't get better man if she looses him,now nko? "Ileke maja s'ile maja s'ita ibikan lo ma jasi". Maybe if she had allowed him go ,he might come back fully to his senses and see reason to be with her, Anita have the guy to herself today bc she's patience and doesn't NAG, girlfriends don't nag that's why married men run to them for comfort. High time we learn

Tunde Abideen said...

Toke Makinwa, what u narrated is lust not love as u want people to accept it. This is friction not true life story worthy of emulation, can u please answer this questions?

1. At what age u started this so called relationship?
2. What really attracted u to this guy?
3. What did u really intend to gained from this guy? Pls don't say Love because what I can see in that relationship is totally Lust.
4. Can u sincerely say that nobody has warned u about this relationship.

Pls this guy is not a SUPERMAN but took advantage of ur so called Stupidity in name of Love and any man on earth take advantage of this because Man don't sleep while in any relationship.

Anonymous said...

Voltron! @tega

Anonymous said...

The same Anita Solomon that he still hasn't married. God will punish Maje. He destroyed TWO womens lives. We all know about Toke but i'm pretty sure Anita too is suffering this one that she gave birth with no lifetime commitment.

Anonymous said...

@Oghenetega, back to sender. My sisters will not fall stupidly in love with a man who feel nothing for them. You only get what you sign up for okay? So carry your cursed life waka dey go.

Anonymous said...

But she refused to go and remained there.

Anonymous said...

LMAO...why did she leave out the story of dating gay, Foluso Olateju-Leigh...half baked story...smh!

Anonymous said...

Low self-esteem will make you bleach. She met Maje while sleeping around. Where are all her original girlfriends...why did they stop hanging out with her...smh...all in the name of making money. Dia ris God oh!

Vera Egelamba said...

Crappy Gist. she let herself go through it. what kind of Nigga will tell me on my wedding day that he missed his ex and i will still marry him when i wasnt under a spell. desperation for marriage caused it. the man supposedly degraded the hell out of you and you were begging. what the hell for? respect is reciprocal o. we are both humans whether male or female and if the feeling isnt mutual, then you simply be on your own till you find the one with a reasonable head on his shoulder.

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