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Thursday, 17 November 2016

Domestic Violence: John Edobor, Man accused of breaking his wife's legs, finally speaks

In September, Ivie Edobor, a Mother of three, took to social media to accuse her husband, John Edobor, of attacking her after they separated ways following their failed marriage. She accused him of organizing a group of area boys to join him in brutally assaulting her, breaking her legs in the process. (Read here)

Three days ago, one of Ivie Edobor's lawyers, Emeka Ugwuonye, revealed Mr John Edobor had been fired by his workplace Zenith bank and is currently standing trial for the attempted murder of of his estranged wife. (Read here) .. John Edobor has now come out with hos own side of the story, along with some heavy accusations. Read below.

My Ordeal in the hands of Ivie

Ivie Angela Edobor who lives in Surulere, Lagos, got married at Saint Dominics Catholic Church, 356, Herbert Macaulay Street, Yaba, Lagos on Saturday, 30th June, 2007 at 12:00noon. We did the traditional marriage ceremony at the father’s compound at Abisogun Estate, Alafia Sari-Iganmu, off Lagos Badagry Expressway on a Thursday, 28th June, 2007. And as well as the marriage Registry in Lagos at Ikoyi on the 17th January, 2007 (all the marriage documents are attached).
Ivie and I are blessed with three lovely children (three girls – senior 9 years old; second – 7 years and 4 years old respectively). Ivie and I had lived together all these years in peace devoid of rancour and acrimony together and love.

Ivie Edobor once worked for Stanbic IBTC Bank Plc until she resigned her appointment on the 11th July, 2011 in view of the fact that she was been accused of collecting kickbacks from the bank's contractors in order for her to perform her duties as administrative staff. She exhibited these traits of fraud, corrupt practices and financial misappropriation which led to her termination and dismissal from Econet (now Airtel) 
… Prior to marrying me she once worked at a prominent multinational mobile company (Econet now Airtel) where She was dismissed for lack of integrity due to lies in addition to her serial borrowing from her many colleagues.

When Ivie resigned from Stanbic IBTC Bank in 2011, (find attached her resignation letter) in order for her not to be at home doing nothing, we both had a discussion on her nest line of what she could do and then she suggested that she wanted to start importing diapers from the United Kingdom (UK) and start distributing and selling in retail which I obliged her by giving her initial start-up capital of about N500, 000 (Five Hundred Thousand Naira) and as the year progresses, we noticed that the business was moving I had to borrow moneys from friends and with my personal savings to inject into the business which amounted to about N8million (Eight Million Naira Only).
Every year, it was our agreement that audit be done to ensure that, the business is actually doing well and to make sure tax is paid to Government as well. This was actually adhered to in 2012 and in 2013, I noticed that Ivie had refused to call the accountant to come audit her books. I kept insisting on the audit to be done since she knows the accountant and have his contacts and moreover where we were staying in Ajah at No 76, House 3, Street X, Abraham Adesanya Estate, Ajah, Lagos, was not far from where the accountant was actually living in Ajah.

This persisted until in September 17th 2014 when strange faces of people I had never met or spoken with before kept coming to knock at my gate as early as 5a.m. every morning to demand for their moneys from Ivie and when the amount was added together that came knocking and requesting for their moneys it came to about N25,204,250 (Twenty Five Million, Two Hundred and Four Thousand, Two Hundred and Fifty Naira Only). Please see attached the list of people she was owing and these people are available if you which to speak with them. Most of them said Ivie told them that her dad was sick and she needs money to treat her very sick dad. Just like she has said on FB that I dont give her money....

Despite all these borrowings, Ivie could not account for what the sum of N25, 204,250 was spent on and till date she has not being able to explain in clear terms what the money was used for. She could not explain to me or her family members how she spent such huge sum of money. It became clear of recent after two years that she actually borrowed these moneys to save face from shame since Mr. Matthew Agbaire who she was dating was threatening to blackmail her if she could not part with money anytime Matthew Agbaire requested for any sum to use for himself.

On 11 October 2014, one of the ivie’s creditors known as Tolu and her family members, came to the house when I had gone for a training, dragged my sister (Otekpen) out of the bathroom when she was having her bath and assaulted and humiliated her. The matter was reported by me to the Nigerian Police Station, Ogombo, Ajah, Lagos and the matter was recorded in crime diary S/NO 80, Time 2055 HRS. (go and verify for yourselves).

When the threat of violence was becoming too much, I advised ivie to relocate to her father’s house temporarily till a time that the entire or substantial part of the indebtedness would have been defrayed and the threat of violence most especially on the children of the marriage would stop.

After Ivie left our matrimonial home as agreed, we were still meeting on Fridays to Sundays at the matrimonial home in Ajah to discuss our family affairs. And we were during this period still performing our marital responsibility to each other. (evidence to support this assertion with printed copies of correspondence between us and her pregnancy.)
In November 24th, 2015, Ivie was pregnant for me with twins which she confirmed severally in our chat (see attached for your perusal and confirmation the Ultra Sound Scan Report for the LMP and EDD) and the pregnancy grow for 5 (five) months and the babies had become 5(five) months old in June.

Since Ivie was living in Surulere despite my several plead to the father to allow Ivie and the children to come join me in Yaba notwithstanding that Ivie and I looked for the apartment in Yaba for us to live as one family again, Ivie deceded to stay back in surulere and every Fridays she would come to sleep with me while on weekdays she kept sleeping with Matthew Agbaire who is married with his own kids.

Until May 2016, when my kids where on midterm break, and they came to spend the holiday with me in Yaba that two of my children told me that, every night, one uncle Matthew was always coming to the house to sleep in mummy’s room till the next day and he will buy them suya. And when I asked Ivie she initially denied until I showed her a video clip of what the childthat she then admitted (see attached our chat for your perusal) and at this time Ivie was still pregnant.

Since Ivie knew the consequences of her action she begged and pleaded that, she would need to go for confession which she did in June 5th, 2016 at Saint Dominic Catholic Church, Yaba. There she promised the reverend father Felix never to go back to such life again. Two days later I received a phone call from the house help that, Matthew came again to take her out and did not return until late in the night. When I asked Ivie she denied and she beat up the house help as well as collected her phone from her.
At this time Ivie had threatened she was going to flush the babies since I am doubting the paternity of the twin. Because, I asked Ivie if you are pregnant for me and still kept sleeping with another man (Matthew Agbaire) so who own the babies? We would need to do a DNA test to actually know who their father is.
Three days later, Ivie and Matthew Agbaire went to abort the babies since she was worried that I kept insisting on the DNA of the children. When I asked ivie what happened to the babies she said she could not face the shame of having bastard children which am not ready to father and this kept me worried up till now since Ivie could kill children that were already formed (7months) babies.

I spoke with the father who lives in Orile, in Lagos and even went to see him about it and all I got from the father was he will talk to Ivie and two of her aunties and I tried calling her mother who lives in UK but she would not pick her calls and as well told my family members about it too.

On what happened in June 19th 2016, incident that got ivie admitted at Tokin Hospital for broken leg, contrary to claims by Ivie, she actually got injured during a scuffle between myself and Matthew Agbaire who brought out a hammer his tool box in his car to fight me when Ivie at sighting me started shouting ole, ole for the security men to come and kill when Matthew brought her back home past one (1:00a.m.) in the morning while the children were left at home with a girl of about 13years old to care for them while Ivie and Matthew went to a hotel to have sex. Ivie in an attempt to allow Matthew to run away was holding on to my hands backward and in the course of my struggle, Ivie and I fell to the ground and then, Matthew wanted to seize the opportunity to slam the hammer in his hand on me which I dodged and then I noticed he was not relenting the second time after first strike which actually hit ivie, and then she shouted, when saw him trying to raise his hand again, I had to row over ivie and stood on my feet before the security men came to rescue the situation. Matthew quickly rushed her to a hospital in Surulere perhaps the same hospital the twin was aborted by Ivie and Matthew.

Ivie has consistently told people that I have not been taking care of the children school fees (find attached the receipts of my children school fees till date for your perusal) and that because they are girls and not boys that was the reason I drove her out of the matrimonial home. This statement is reckless and unfortunate because I love my daughters and in several instances I had used prominent woman who are role models like Okonjo Iwala to buttress my stand on this even to her. I do know for sure my children will grow up to be greater than men and their knowledge will be sort after around the world. She has push out false information to the public for her to continuously gain sympathy from the public, press, bloggers, the civil society and human rights activist.

In another case, she has said I came prepared with the intention to kill her that night she was injured by Matthew, with a knife and of recent a dagger and crowbar or wheel spanner to attack her. And I keep wondering with the inconsistency the tools she keep naming that I used. The fact is, I came into Lagos that night (18th June, 2016) from school in Ile - Ife at about 9p.m. with my school bag and book in it and my car was parked at the stadium where I drove to her house which is a stone throw away from her house and I did not get Yaba before going to see her that night since we had agreed to meet that night. Matthew was the one who works for a construction company and had his tool box where he brought out his big hammer he used on Ivie.

It will shock you to know that Ivie was married to one Mr. Benedith Jatto on the 17th December 2002 a document she used in her NYSC and equally in her former place of employment while she was working with Airtel Nigeria. I got to know and see all of these when this issue came up and a copy of the document is available for your perusal. And up till date that married has not been dissolved which means ivie is legally married to two men.

Ivie is doing all these for her to hide her shame and the face of Matthew Agbaire a father of two who is still married to his wife, and work in Centrix Allied Limited who is the brain behand her termination of the twin and the her broken leg. It is unfortunate that Ivie is acting this way because as my wife and mother of my beautiful children this is not the way I planned for us.
As a responsible father I have consistently played my role and provided for them to the best of my ability all that they needed.
So please tell me how I went wrong.... You can imagine my shock to find out that I am her 2nd husband...was it wrong of me to have encouraged and empowered my wife? Please tell me which man will take it...she only shouted out so the issue of the children she killed will not come limelight....

More photos, screenshots of some messages and medical reports below...

















281 comments:

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Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Woman beater

Odibe Blessing said...

You don't have any right to beat her ooo ,me can't read DAT tin its too long

Uju Phil said...

This is really serious...

Bonita Bislam said...

Only God knows the truth in this story

Juliet Iwuno said...

Dis is serious. Linda take note!

Eleojo Blessing said...

Hmmmm...dis is serious

Anonymous said...

Enter your comment...The woman must be evil. I feel your pains Mr. see evidence.

Anonymous said...

WOW!WOW! WOW!, THERE IS ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO A STORY. SHES GOT THE WORLD CAUGHT UP WITH SYMPATHY AT FIRST, AND NOW THE STORY JUST GOT BIGGER THAN HER...............

elizabeth tasie said...

WOW!WOW! WOW!, THERE IS ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO A STORY. SHES GOT THE WORLD CAUGHT UP WITH SYMPATHY AT FIRST, AND NOW THE STORY JUST GOT BIGGER THAN HER...............

Anonymous said...

BITCH

Anonymous said...

BITCH

ASAMPOKOTO said...

wow this woman is a witch. Good thing i never took sides the first time. he has receipts to back up his accusations.

elizabeth tasie said...

wow! wow! wow!.... like its said A STORY HAS TWO SIDES , she got the world to sympathize with her , and now with all this facts laid down with evidence THE STORY JUST GOT BIGGER THAN HER................

Anonymous said...

i dont believe him. he beat her and now he is trying to cover up. If she was such a horrible person like he claimed, why stay married to her until now.

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Anonymous said...

This drama is too much, we all know how these things work...both sides are telling half-truths. I believe they shld keep their biz private and sort this out quietly for the sake of their daughters.

Odibe Blessing said...

Chaiii Nigerians can be greed ehhhh,someone is just busy loading card up to 10k while sm ppl havnt even load one

Onome Alika said...

Hmmm, this is a messy case. Who are we to believe. I feel so sorry for the kids.

blissful said...

kindly put her away and not beat her...men do worse and have gone free..some hide their children, pretend not to be married just to get another

Anonymous said...

This Ivie of a woman, she is a scorpion and the same time a serpent. This is why is good to hear two side of stories before conclusion, kai, many men are suffering from their wife this days because of infidelity. Ivie is a disgrace to womanhood

JP said...

Hmmmm!

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CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Jesu!!! Am short of words! That's why it's always wise to hear from both sides b4 concluding. 7mnths pregnancy? Oga u knew the babies paternity was questionable yet u continued sleeping with her?


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Anonymous said...

Linda you see life? I reserve my comment...

LOUBOUTON said...

YOU SEE A LOT OF FOLKS WHO DID NOT WANT TO HEAR FROM THE MAN FIRST BEGAN TO JUDGE MATTERS EHN MEN ARE BEAST THIS THAT BUT NOW YALL SEE THAT THE WOMAN IS THE CAUSE OF HER OWN PROBLEM THE WORLD WAS IN PEACE BEFORE THIS FUCKING WOMEN CAME TO THIS WORLD WOMEN AINT SHIT.. THIS IS CRAZY

Nero Adaka said...

OMG. So basically he can sue Zenith Bank as well for wrongful dismissal. I seriously hope they took his side of his story into account before trying to wreck his career. Damn, this is deep. This man's reputation had been wrecked all over the internet. People really need to get their facts in order before acting like sheep

Anonymous said...

Lies from the pit of hell

Saphire Muna said...

As a feminist, I always find it difficult to fault a lady whenever issue of domestic violence is occurs .. But on this case I completely lost my voice... I have bn following this case on this blog since day1... With the receipts and avidences enclosed on this case... Well never say never.. They can still be fakes.. Plus who aborts 7months twins? Unless if she is devil...











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Official King Maker said...

Nna ehn, I keep saying that men should be careful with women when they are having issues. They know how to whip public sympathy. Nobody wants to know what's happening in the relationship, they just believe what ever she says, even if she is wrong or right. It's similar with jungle justice, once a person starts shouting "ole" "ole" they will not listen to the story of the accused, just the wailer/complainant. I will like to see a counter argument and proof to his story.

Anonymous said...

Terrible women does wonders these days.u see truth in his write up.zenith pls restore Hus job.

Anonymous said...

GHEN GHENNNN!!!! Watch out for Part 3!!

Nigerians when will we learn not to rush to judgement after hearing only one side of a story.. We just finished with Mayowa scandal, now this again..smh

Abimbola bar said...

Uhmmm.In all of these I pity the poor kids because they are the onces who will be affected most.Whatever we do let's have the fear of God in mind.May God help you resolve the issue for the sake of the kids

Anonymous said...

linda post d recharge cards na.i dey cafe since 5pm,how this story wan help me recharge my bis

Anonymous said...

TIGHTEN SAGGING BREASTS IN A WEEK

Anonymous said...

This woman is evil

christina dodd said...

na wa ooo
2 side of the coin
women na wa ooo

christina dodd said...

na wa for women ooo
it is well with you

HRM Paul said...

Jesu so na so dis matter.take happen eeya ogga sorry o u marry jezebel dis woman is a harlot I hope zenith bank is reading this

Julius Idowu said...

I know that her story was too sweet. Hmm woman.

Anonymous said...

For me any woman i see talking against the husband online are fake woman,
i knew from day one that that woman is very fake,
she just wanted to destroyed the husband,
that is the reason i will never do a public work,,,cos she will like to destroy the man work..
take heart man and learn better,,but u mean even her father never tell you about her first marriage?waaooohh

giggy.abbey@gmail.com said...

Who cares about your domestic issues...you are sure boring me all that bu.....shit

Anonymous said...

All this men wen them use #5k TB Joshua water marry sef . them story no dey end well. U knew ur wife was cheating and u still invite her over for weekend knacks ( TB water don blind u) u knew she is a petty thief u still supported her( tb water blind u) u knew she was lying about the babies u still ! Nna men a BAD wife is worst than cancer biko.

Anonymous said...

All this men wen them use #5k TB Joshua water marry sef . them story no dey end well. U knew ur wife was cheating and u still invite her over for weekend knacks ( TB water don blind u) u knew she is a petty thief u still supported her( tb water blind u) u knew she was lying about the babies u still ! Nna men a BAD wife is worst than cancer biko.

Vivian Reginalds said...

hmm
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Wunder kind said...

too bad... sick nigga

Anonymous said...

I pray you are vindicated in the end.evil women everywhere.God help us.I always knew there was more to this story.every story has three sides, my side , your side and the truth,

Gabriella Idele said...

Hmmmm!!!! Oturugbeke

Anonymous said...

Who con dey lie.Hmmmmm

Omamuyovwi Odugbo Zakari said...

The man is a bastard!God will punish you and your cheap lies.listen to yourself.its obvious that you are a pathological liar.you are all about slander.no atom of remorse in your sick brain.i hope you rot in he'll by the time the government is through with you.sick mf.

The great punter said...

let her provide a good prove.

Anonymous said...

Ds 's serious. Some women are just devil. Married 2 men? Prego & fucking another man ? even terminated 7 months twin pregnancy? St . Anthony of Padua! But my man, u acted late. U no even know d woman u married. As there's KYC in Companies r/ship wt customers, so dia is KYW (know ur wife) in marriage. Y u no brandish all ds b4? Now Zenith has fired u . I just tire 4 ur case. Hand am over 2 God , Dats if u no go jail self.

lili p said...

And she came out with pity face like the man finished her, useless woman the leg nor break reach. By the way why did he wait this long to say all this, he actually wanted to cover up her useless way of life, she can't win this case at all useless woman

livingstone chibuike said...

Let justice prevail

Married man said...

End time marriage!

augusta cookeygam said...

oh!

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Tokyhoflexy said...

Hmmmm!am so nonplussed...one needs to be careful to judge this matter. May God help em tho..

Tokyhoflexy said...

Hmmmm!am so nonplussed...one needs to be careful to judge this matter. May God help em tho..

B.O.B said...

This is Evil!!!
Why this to the father of your children to the one you are legally married to? Well...who am I to judge #HumanHeartIsEvil

Human left activist said...

This woman came up with her own side of the story, now this is season 2 of the matter, Ivie or what ever you call yourself.....you are a disgrace to womanhood....i just pity for Mr Edobor

Anonymous said...

Who will read all this? Mr man did you injure your wife? Yes or No.

Anonymous said...

Very fishy story. The man may be guilty at some point. He may have hit her accidentally or in a rage of fury.she never made mention of him being violent in the past.domestic violence once,twice or more is wrong but I see this Ivie using this as an avenue to get money from the public. She has bad money mismanagement problems and of course with this story,she will gain a lot of sympathy and funds.let's see how it all plays...

Anonymous said...

Na wa, abeg fear God.

Anonymous said...

John Edobor, you are a liar. You have gone the classic route to defend your wife - beating self, that your wife was having an affair. Your defense is laughable and futile. Whether you caught another man on top of her is not enough reason to beat your wife with a tyre jack. You need to do better. Loser.

Anonymous said...

This man clearly married a bad wife

Anonymous said...

that woman must be a beast from the pit of heal... destiny killer

Anonymous said...

Shut up! Foolish man, the major case at hand is ...why did you attack her and break her legs? May they jail you and throw away the keys.

Go and face your attempted murder charge...murderer.

Anonymous said...

Liar. You tried to kill her and now you are going to smear her name.

Deific Ailende said...

That's why e no good for person to dey put mouth for wetin them no know anything about. And no matter what,e no good to dey conclude immediately after hearing only one person's side of the story.
The real game has began.
From the way the woman described the man friend that brought her in his car in her version of what happened, it kind of implied that there was something shady between the man friend and herself.
Before now, I hated keeping records and saving messages. I am going to start keeping records again and start saving and backing up my messages and other details of things I do with people.
Dunno who the liar is though, but I know that the devil is a terrible liar.

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Dis is getting more interesting


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Sarah Ugwu said...

Marriage....

Ijanyi Mitch said...

Nawa ooo women!!

timi mba said...

I don't understand why it took him so long to come out and share his side of d story, some things aren't adding up....he shouldn't have waited till dey fired him

Anonymous said...

Case close. I guess its a lesson for all and we shouldn't point accusing fingers without proper findings.it is well

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Hmmmmm! Am speechless.

Anonymous said...

Only God knows who is lying, but i strongly believe the wife. This man is wicked.

ogunjimiadewale said...

Speechless

Lord dugbe said...

So we've read two sides to the story,now's time for the truth

Anonymous said...

Na wa oh!!!!

Collins Uwadia said...

Never judge from one side of any two sides of any story, what I know for sure is that they're women like this.

Idee said...

It is always good to hear both side of a story before you judge........nna wa o

Anonymous said...

I'm no psychic but I believe he's lying about the part where he says it was her 'boyfriend' /lover that actually smashed both her legs in by mistake...that's just very hard to believe. The rest of it about her owing money, cheating, and so on, I don't even care about.

Dee said...

@ John edobor the case is already in court so why the story? Because you are drowning must your children go down with you? Are you thinking at all? I think you would have been more honourable if you kept quiet. Are you sure your legal team advisers are sound enough? It's a pity

teegirl NYC said...

its seems like there is more to this story.....lets the drama begins.

dee boi said...

Rubbish... dee

white Berry said...

I love the fact that this man is backing all of his claims with prove. Ivie plz come defend all of this claim with proves so we can tell who is actually lieing here.

Anonymous said...

JESU!!!!! God save me from women like this. See how she has been throwing pity parties upandan.

Anonymous said...

John is not being sincere. Some of the achieved chat were edited(you can see from some of the chat showing ivie chatting with her self). He also contributed from the evidence to this mess. They John and Ivie should just quietly look for a way to move forward.

Fawole Toyosi said...

Which one should one nw believe nw, seriously I think devil is currently on the lose l...... scattering every nook and cranny, God take control( i must have a happy home)

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Anonymous said...

This is why it is always good to hear from both sides of a story before condeming and passing judgement. If this story is true, i sympathise with her husband. The man has been through a lot with his wife's borrowing issues. I think both of them should find a way to sort out this issue out of social media and the court. It is well in Jesus name!

Sandra said...

Eyaah both of them are good looking. They look good together. But why is the devil trying so hard to destroy this once beautiful marraige. God will see you people through.

Eazzy Pompey said...

Omo dis one na super story o. Husband and wife for that matter reporting thierselves publicly like this. Y can't they settle it within their selves. Trailer don pass inbtw them. This is a lesson for you couple. I rest my case

Eazzy Pompey said...

Omo dis one na super story o. Husband and wife for that matter reporting thierselves publicly like this. Y can't they settle it within their selves. Trailer don pass inbtw them. This is a lesson for you couple. I rest my case

Sam said...

Lesson learn: Women please be satisfied and content with your husband's wealth. Cut your coat according to your size. Stop living above your means. Not everybody is Dangote or Adenuga but we will all get there someday in Jesus Name!

mira damian said...

Why did it take you too long to clear your name? You waited till you were sacked bc u your lawyer was trying to gather fake evidences, how can u prove that the phone number stored with ivie's name is really hers and not the one u stored with your family pics? Or all those documents? Am a lawyer and anything is possible.Your delay to save your face spoiled everything

Amina said...

In every story, there are always two sides to a story. Thank you Mr Edobor for clearing the air. The Ivie lady too get for hand. Your greed and insatiable quest for money has cost you your marraige and a broken leg. Why cant you be satisfied with what you have? Why borrowing all over the place and embarrassing your husband? Ivie you self need serious conselling and deliverance

Mildred said...

IVIE BUT WHY?

Anonymous said...

OYA MATTHEW AGBAIRE IF YOU EXIST, SPEAK OUT LETS HEAR YOUR OWN SIDE OF THE STORY. SO WE CAN JUDICIOUSLY ADJUDICATE THE WHOLE ISSUE EQUIVOCALLY WITHOUT FEAR OR FAVOR!

Cyril Osagie said...

If you are too quick to judge, you might never know where the real truth lies...because the heart of a woman is an ocean of dirty secrets.....I am not seeing any of those people who has been condemning the supposed heinous and barbaric action of this ladies husband, now that the truth is so glaring, everyone is sharing the revelation without comment of condemnation to this evil woman. Linda ikeji thank you for publishing this piece and God bless you.

Mary said...

From this man's story, he loved Ivie and was ready to over-look her excesses but Ivie was too high-handed. The man discovered that you were married before without you opening up to him and telling him yet he forgave you. There is no man that wont see his wife with another man that wont get angry. It is normal. The only thing is that he went too far by involving himself in a fight. He should have just collected his children and walk away. I also noticed that Ivie is a liar and a cheat plus she loves money too much. Maybe her husband wasnt giving her enough money because he didnt really have enough, afterall, he is not the MD of the bank where he works. Well, i pray that God heals your marraige

Steve said...

This case be like watin go hot oh. The husband also has a lot to say about his wife. Linda thank you for this update. You are always giving us the latest gist. Ivie na wah for you sha oh. You sef get wahala too.

Anonymous said...

See women that are asking for woman equality...over sabi woman..women like law to protect them, bu don't like law to caution or correct them..oya over to una women

Anonymous said...

See women that are asking for woman equality...over sabi woman..women like law to protect them, bu don't like law to caution or correct them..oya over to una women

onyii debby said...

Hmmmm.....this is y its good to hear from both sides b4 u conclude....chaiii...

Anonymous said...

See women that are asking for woman equality...over sabi woman..women like law to protect them, bu don't like law to caution or correct them..oya over to una women

Anonymous said...

See women that are asking for woman equality...over sabi woman..women like law to protect them, bu don't like law to caution or correct them..oya over to una women

Emeka said...

If all this man said is true, then Ivie must be a cronic liar and an adulterer.

Anonymous said...

See women that are asking for woman equality...over sabi woman..women like law to protect them, bu don't like law to caution or correct them..oya over to una women

Emeka said...

Ivie you are too greedy for money. What are you borrowing so much money for? Why are you embarrassing your husband? Debtors coming to your house to knock. Na wa oh. So you be serial wife wey dey marry husbands up and down? You must be a hand-full. Anyways, i wish you speedy recovery and i suggest that you and your husband should see a marriage counsellor for the sake of the children involved because this case don pass "be careful".

Anonymous said...

See women that are asking for woman equality...over sabi woman..women like law to protect them, bu don't like law to caution or correct them..oya over to una women

Victor Charles said...

Chai. Umu nne Delilah. Marriage and the ugly side.
#ODIA

Xavier Xerxes said...

Hmmm Na wa o....women.

Uzodave Startech said...

Jesus I can't believe this, Wwwwoooommmmeeeeennnn what have men do to deserve this evil treatment.
I fear for my matrimonial home.

Kate said...

It is always good to hear from both sides. I will advise that both of you should take your personal issues off the public and court and sort it out within the family.

Stella said...

This was how Tiwa Savage and her husband disgraced themselves on social media. We only heard from her husband until Tiwa responded and cleared the air and everybody now knew the husband's dirty secret that he was a drug addict. Ivie if you knew you had some dirty secrets, you shouldnt have gone public. Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones. Next time, be wise!

Anonymous said...

and we wonder why Nigerian men don't marry Nigerian women

Grace said...

If what the Jonh guy said here is true, then Ivie you yab. you no try at all. you fall my hand. i have been supporting you since but with what i am seeing here, you don fall my hand big time. Adultery is a grievious sin, abortion is also attempted murder without the consent of the father of the babies. Also, concealed lie of having an ex-husband without letting your new husband know about it, is criminal. You have a lot of sins hanging on your head that can cause provocation although i am not in support of the breaking of your legs.

Ben Ileo said...

Na wa ooo, I believe this man die, that woman get problem

Unknown said...

Goddammit! Way to go guy. Mhen, always two sides to a story, better if your story is backed with proof. That's how you outshit a shitter!

Duku Mevabor said...

This man is a lair... See his long and cooked story. The key thing is dat he premeditated n attacked the poor woman.

celynkay said...

Na waoh, who we go believe now

Loyalwify said...

Nawaoooo.... That's why it's not good to judge from one sided person without hearing from the two parties involved. This young man lost his job cuz he married a wicked and heartless woman. Men please always pray very well and know much about the woman you want to marry before getting married

Anonymous said...

After reading the story and the text Msgs, all I can say is that this man is a green snake in green grass. Look at the way he set the woman up for a fall in the chat, he rarely say anything and when he does, he chooses his words carefully and makes them few, he was done with her long time and was looking for something to hold on to and quit the marriage, she was still into the marriage asking to be treated as a wife. This man is a manipulations abuser.

Anonymous said...

Wow.....

sholetoga said...

If what this man said is the truth then this Ivie is evil and shameless. How can a mother of 3 girls be flaunting another man besides her husband in public glare . She is a very useless woman. Her children won't forgive her for making their Dad loose his job......SMH for your miserable life

Anonymous said...

Uncle your defense game is weak
Forget all your stories, how did that fight between you and her lover scatter her legs because it doesn't add up. I c u quickly brought pregnancy just in case she lost it earlier due to your beatings.
You want to slut shame her because she's a divorcee,she married you as a virgin so I'm sorry.
Go to jail and flex your snap muscles in all glory...... Idiot.

Anonymous said...

Omo see documentation

Anonymous said...

After these idiots will go on Linda and write under Linda's picture GO AND GET MARRIED. Banza

Anonymous said...

Na wah. So the wife get her own issues too?

Anonymous said...

I said it, that people should not judge by one side of the story. My brother, you did well by defending yourself both in writing and warfront. I'm a lady but let's call a spade a spade. She's irresponsible, harlot and a big liar. Cover up dear woman but let's see how far this will take you. Idiot. Bad luck

Anonymous said...

Oya! Make all those Yimu Yimu people talk nau! Linda Self when no dey investigate b4 she jump to conclude we dey wait make u talk too. Seeing the woman's face you will know she is an Ashi.

Anonymous said...

The issue at hand is that you attempted to kill your wife. From all your epistles and explanations, you have still not justified the attack.

Anonymous said...

It's very wrong for Edobor to brutalise and abuse his wife...It's not justifiable.Ivie is a known fraudster,a notorious 419 kingpin and a thief.Residents of Abraham Adesanya housing estate,Thomas Estate and Ajah environs are in better position to speak of her evil exploits.She has swindle friends and residents of their hard earned money under the guise of doing business together.

Karma is a bitch!

Smiling tee said...

doesn't have the right to beat her

Anonymous said...

Ok because u re in charge u have the right to cheat(which she forgave u several times) but she doesn't. #slutshaming

Anonymous said...

Go and answer ur attempted murder case

Ade Olasengbe said...

That's why is good to hear the other side of a story. Only God knows the truth.

Anonymous said...

Well the guys abandoned her from 2014. Does he think she will just sit there and not move on with her life. Now in 2016 he has the effontary to make noise. Himself and his sister through her out on the basis that she raked up debts . it was never concensual for her to move to her fathers house. If my husband raked up a debt of 3 million i wont leave him..Marriage is for better or worse. .he was quick to through her out...be betrayed his love for her by that act. They should have worked out a payment plan as husband and wife. ..He should have supported her..when her business failed not threw her out...

Also he claims she was married to someone else. . yet from everything he has said he still wanted to get back with her irrespective hence the whole jealousy. Thus he was privy to the fact that she was married already and he was fine with it. How many people do things like marry for paper or citizenship or even change our original birth dates to favour us.. oh pls he should stop maoaning...let us see her marriage certificate...

I cannot judge her on the abortion. That is between her and God.

From the messages it seems like they were being civil to each other and there was hope of a reunion but there was hesitancy on both parts. If i were her i would be hesistant that if i move back in with him. ..why wont he throw me out again when things so bad!

Anonymous said...

Well the guys abandoned her from 2014. Does he think she will just sit there and not move on with her life. Now in 2016 he has the effontary to make noise. Himself and his sister through her out on the basis that she raked up debts . it was never concensual for her to move to her fathers house. If my husband raked up a debt of 3 million i wont leave him..Marriage is for better or worse. .he was quick to through her out...be betrayed his love for her by that act. They should have worked out a payment plan as husband and wife. ..He should have supported her..when her business failed not threw her out...

Also he claims she was married to someone else. . yet from everything he has said he still wanted to get back with her irrespective hence the whole jealousy. Thus he was privy to the fact that she was married already and he was fine with it. How many people do things like marry for paper or citizenship or even change our original birth dates to favour us.. oh pls he should stop maoaning...let us see her marriage certificate...

I cannot judge her on the abortion. That is between her and God.

From the messages it seems like they were being civil to each other and there was hope of a reunion but there was hesitancy on both parts. If i were her i would be hesistant that if i move back in with him. ..why wont he throw me out again when things so bad!

Michael said...

After hearing from both sides, my conclusion is; the woman cheated on him and he beat her up. He cannot tell me that he didnt touch her. Both of them are wrong. Just go and pay her hospital bills and take your marraige issues off social media for your children's sake

Anonymous said...

Mr, You dont have a wife... You Only have a document of marriage. abeg try and divorce, even Our saviour advice it.

Anonymous said...

Your comment is unbelievable, nothing justifies a broken leg, marriage is not an excuse for violence, there are other ways to resolve issues. Take the matter to court, get an injunction, get a divorce!

Every relationship should never leave you worse of than when you met that person, no matter the circumstance we want leave people, unscathed and unscarred, this man is an animal, and no matter the explanation, he's implicated in this situation, and must face the consequences and made an example of.

You're evidently unqualified and inexperienced to appreciate the weight of this situation. Admit that to yourself and move on, because there is absolutely no "but" in the spelling of unacceptable.

Anonymous said...

The person that advised this man to spill these lies failed him. He typed out this conversation meaning he can state whatever he wants. Oga you are the text book version of a sadist. Even if the Nigerian courts free you, God will deal with you appropriately. If you want to show proof, provide screen shots with the right dates on them, not these lies you have cooked up.

Oloyede Michael said...

For those of you who do not care if she cheated or not and your emphasis has been on him breaking her legs. You will marry a cheating woman or man ad you will get to know the pain of emotional fraud. May be your head will have a reset. Most of you are just psychotic and disgusting.

sazszy said...

This dude was done with this last last long time ago mayb he just accomodated her for the kids but this is a Fla set up by the wide her story has no proof word of mouth but John has evidence lets track down Mathew but I knw he's by gonna admit .matyew broke her leg unintentionally.

Anonymous said...

Let's get Mathew Ivie loves him and shes covering for him.mattews wife pls trouble ur husband until he comes out

Dr olaspecial said...

As a doctor all I see is a scan that says there's a single ton (meaning 1) live fetus...so where did u get twins from. Did u pay a quack dr to give u scan for twin pregnancy and u proudly bring to the internet

Deyvid Nigeria said...

When people lie like they eat, the world can only be a dead dry field. Ivie has NOT only failed in her ways to make John look evil but has shown the world what a terrible woman she is. From these stories, I salute Mr John who never wanted to mess up this woman after all her lies. That could only be genuine love.But it is time for the cat to be out.
We keep advocatin for laws to protect the women but how many men are protected?
But why do women cheat? Why can't they be faithful? Why must they want to be Jezebel?
Why will Zenith yield to pressure and sack John without investigation and can this stupid Mike be arrested?
With all I have read about Ivie,I believe that John will get more terrible remarks and point from her first husband. Let him locate him.
Ivie's records of lies, love for money and serial borrowin from her places of work has made this case a NOT.I wish I am the judge. I would have......
You know what I mean. I am so sad right now. #women!!!

Anonymous said...

9.55pm, and the best comment award goes to you.

soul child said...

Restore ke??? You don't know Zenith then. Staff are quite disposable, and once there is negative publicity, OYO is your name!!!

Anonymous said...

guy, why did it take you this long before you voice out, till your employer sacked you and end your career as a bank staff. this is too much and i believe if you are saying the truth here you will definitely win her but if not.......................be guided.

Esther Norah said...

Moron dey got separated dint u get d gist. D man discovered so many tins abt her n dey agreed to separate. Always read

Anonymous said...

You don't have the right to have a brain and not use it

Anonymous said...

☝🏽you most be an adulterer yourself, to base your judgement Sorely on the beating . People do things out of rage.

Anonymous said...

This man's story is incredible. He's not even a smart liar. There are too many holes in his his story and purported ordeal.

pam eucharia said...

Try reading dz piece it would do u a great lot

pam eucharia said...

U sound intelligent, be logical in digesting dz piece.

Anonymous said...

Perhaps for d sake of their kids or d fact dt she is got great skills in bed

De Golden Stars Engineering Companies said...

If only I can have like my father's attitude and my wife have that of my mother, we will never have any problem in our marriage. My parents are God fearing and perfect example to a successful marriage, may God continually be with them in Jesus name, amen.

Anonymous said...

See as ur mouth de sharp, u go do worse if Na u

Anonymous said...

Coz silence z golden

Anonymous said...

Gbam

omidele olatunji said...

That is woman for u. 80% of them are fake. I always know this from day one.

omidele olatunji said...

@zakari . Do u have memory at all? Or is it that u have problem with reading. I am sure u are sick in the head.

omidele olatunji said...

He can never go to jail my broda. God will vindicate him. See all his proofs na.
I pray you wont be in his shoes.

omidele olatunji said...

Learn to read. That is why u will remaim a dullard

Anonymous said...

Am I the only one who thinks his story is wack?
Okay, so this Mathew guy was blackmailing her in October 2014 and she was still dating him till June 2016, I'm just thinking, but why would Ivie still be dating someone that was blackmailing her two years ago and even allegedly get pregnant for him, which sane human being would do that? Smh.......... Well I think John needs to go back to edit his story, because it doesn't make sense..... Perhaps more calculated lies will convince me, and he still never got to explain how her legs got broken

omidele olatunji said...

Upon all the proof u see. U can still say all dis. Brainless woman

omidele olatunji said...

Learn to read. Imbecile.
I know that is how you also fornicate around

Stern said...

This is why I really hate and despise feminists! This why Killary will never rule America. This is why I pray that all feminist's legs will be broken!!!

Stop feminism! Some Women are beasts in human clothing.

SEE THIS NEVER SEEN BEFORE PICTURES OF KIM KARDASHIAN'S VAGINA OR LEMME CALL IT PUSSY. MORE CLOSER AND CLEARER THAN IN HER SEX TAPE

BUT YOU MUST BE 18+

PLS, I SAID 18+

Anonymous said...

Oga oo.....u av issues o.....did u even read d story at all.mumu

Anonymous said...

Dere is no justice in dis country

Anonymous said...

I feel he should av broken her spinal cord instead...lol

Emy said...

Not surprised though. The might not have to the truth as it happened but i dont doubt some of the thing he said. I encourage singles not to be in a haste to jump into marriage, there are more that meets the eyes. Marriage is not 'boyfriend and girlfriend' thing. Just be prepared to love each other irrespective of your expectations.

Famous Davies said...

Mr John I won't say it was your fault but I believe if you have being enlighten by God it won't have gone these far.. I know yo full of regret that why things heard to end up these way but it ain't your fault.. I believe today we the world now know da truth and I feel its really a big lesson to many ladies and men today... Not trying to blame anybody bt I think if you are so drawned to the word of God you would have endure and overcome some acts and God would have consoled you.. Bt its never late to make it right and I believe you have made it right.. She is still your wife and I believe it can be sorted out better for the sake of your lovely kids. I pray God grant her a remorse of heart and makes things as better as it was before. #Peace

Anonymous said...

This man is lying....I don't belive him. Ok, Mathew want to hit you with the hammer then you dogged it. What are you doing in her house? You knew she was sleeping with mathew and uou were still sleeping with her? Lies!...put up the video you have the kids telling you about Mathew giving them suya. All this your paper evidence can be forged you hear.hear yourself...she owes 25million and then leaves the house to leave else where while you stay there alone. Does that stop the people she's owing from not arresting you?? You are lie this man.
. You dint speak up since until now your lawyer have told you what to say.

Anonymous said...

This is how someone will come and go and marry lucifer's first cousin and put in the house without knowing. The heart of man desperately wicked. Only God knows the truth in this matter

Anonymous said...

Den u need to read it,he didn't beat her,it was her lover DT accidentally hit her as he was trying to hit the ladies husband with a hammer

Anonymous said...

You can say DT again

Lol said...

U took the words out of my mouth. Would u believe I was discussing this same issue with a friend a few days ago n he claimed no black magic could keep him married to a devil ? This is what some evil women r using to stay married these days, it is real pple, it's real!

Lol said...

Shut your mouth. U r the loser. How many men do u think will take such rubbish? Mumu

Lol said...

Great comment.

Lol said...

Marriage is an establishment. Only fools indulge in that trash. I would rather exchange women like shoes than end up with one for the rest of my life. Thank God for sorrugacy.

Anonymous said...

Mr Anonymous. I do other know you but, do not take part one sided.

Anonymous said...

THIs man is a pathological liar. The two separated for two years, he came begging her in April this year. The incident happened on June 18, which was two months after initial contact. So where is 7 months pregnancy from!! He printed text messages history , which might actually be from his own Phones, 😂. No phone number details. You no try at all. You lawyers may be stupid enough to release this, but the judges , I trust, would be upright with their judgement 😂

omidele olatunji said...

Because u are a lawyer and tell lies does not mean everybody is a liar. U are bloody liar

omidele olatunji said...

No mind dem. Women can be annoying atimes. They dont like correction . Na only dem sabi everything

Anonymous said...

Do not take sides because the man can be right or the woman can be wrong.The womman can be right and the man wrong. But for the woman to bring her marriage to public shows there is a question mark there.Why will she pit herself innocent.If it is true that she actually owning people,flush out her pregnancy and date another man,then she is questionable.

omidele olatunji said...

How do u know a liar? Do u have lie detector. Someone gave u proofs and all u could say is this. ARE U A MAN AT ALL? Becos u are reasoning like a woman

omidele olatunji said...

Virgin ke? Do u even have brain at all? Ivie dat is married before is wat u are calling a virgin? Shame on u because u cant read.

Lols

Anonymous said...

Linda many dumb people on your blog! Mr man shut your stinking trap and dont divert the attention here. The bottom line is why did you break her legs. Even if she did heaven and earth you should have simply divorced her. You would go to jail for attempted murder asshole.

Gabi Gbagi said...

Nobody should should sympathize with John. He is a crook. I have said before that him and his wife accused me of something I never knew about in 2010 and I was locked up for a day for it. He even generated so many print outs saying that they were my text msgs, not knowing that my immediate previous unit where I worked was in-charge of generating such at the request of EFCC, Police or any security agency. The format was different from what he printed. My elder sister even said that they were classmates at AAU ekpoma and that he was such a bad boy from school days, who lived off troubles. He was the type that would steal your file from the department, come to inform you that your file is missing and that you should bring money for him to help you sort it out. That is his kind of person. So when I saw all the print outs (his so-called evidences) this morning, I laughed and said to myself that John is at it again.
It was when my aunty who was a deputy comptroller in prisons came, the matter was brought to the DPO and after thorough questioning, we found out that they were having family issues and that John was looking for a way to throw Ivie out of his out( mind you this was in 2010). So many things not honorable came to our knowledge that day and at the end of it, they were ashamed of themselves. That was how the matter ended. Though I wanted to petition the inspector general of police making mention of the case, but i decided to leave the case to God after careful consultations.
I can still remember telling him that my God whom I serve will disgrace him openly. This is just 2016, what a national, family and open disgrace. Indeed God still answers speedily

Gabi Gbagi said...

Nobody should should sympathize with John. He is a crook. I have said before that him and his wife accused me of something I never knew about in 2010 and I was locked up for a day for it. He even generated so many print outs saying that they were my text msgs, not knowing that my immediate previous unit where I worked was in-charge of generating such at the request of EFCC, Police or any security agency. The format was different from what he printed. My elder sister even said that they were classmates at AAU ekpoma and that he was such a bad boy from school days, who lived off troubles. He was the type that would steal your file from the department, come to inform you that your file is missing and that you should bring money for him to help you sort it out. That is his kind of person. So when I saw all the print outs (his so-called evidences) this morning, I laughed and said to myself that John is at it again.
It was when my aunty who was a deputy comptroller in prisons came, the matter was brought to the DPO and after thorough questioning, we found out that they were having family issues and that John was looking for a way to throw Ivie out of his out( mind you this was in 2010). So many things not honorable came to our knowledge that day and at the end of it, they were ashamed of themselves. That was how the matter ended. Though I wanted to petition the inspector general of police making mention of the case, but i decided to leave the case to God after careful consultations.
I can still remember telling him that my God whom I serve will disgrace him openly. This is just 2016, what a national, family and open disgrace. Indeed God still answers speedily

Cheta Anastacia Obi said...

always good to hear from both parties, thank God the man spoke.
Even if their stories are half truth, he has an evidence.
So sorry your family is tearing apart.
God grant you a peaceful re-unionism.
But this woman shaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......
This is a wake-up call for the single ones amongst us, lets choose wisely and seek God's face.

Anonymous said...

There is always two side to a story hmmmm

Anonymous said...

I don't know when Nigerian men will change from lying against their wives, I was expecting this, do u know how to identify a Nigerian man, check a man who either beats or kills his wife and comes to accuse her of infidelity to get public sympathy . It has become an anthem here and women should get used to it and move on. That was how tunji lied against tiwa to ruin her career but ended up ruining his. Adultery or not, u are going down coz I don't care anymore. After all adultery is not a crime but a sin and God in his infinite mercy will forgive.

Anonymous said...

If he lied abt everything did also lie abt her pregnancy? Think people

9ja Parrot said...

Every story has at least two sides. See facts coming out now.

Madu Chinenye said...

In fact oga you are a fat lier, woman beater and a disgrace .

Anonymous said...

If he lied abt everything else did he also lie abt d pregnancy? Think people.

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