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Thursday, 3 November 2016

"Control your anger"- Alibaba shares story of a friend who was jailed after catching his wife with her lover in their matrimonial home

To caution people on how to manage their anger when they are faced with serious issues, Comedian Alibaba shared this story of how a married man became an ex-convict after he found his wife with her lover in their matrimonial home in Abuja. Read below
"This story I am about to share, you would have heard, told several times, in different ways. But mine is not a story. A friend of ours, a lawyer, in Abuja, was at a 5 day retreat and decided to dash back home to get something that couldn't wait. And meets his madam in an uncompromising position. And just as he and the lover boy got into a fight, lover boy broke free, ran for the door to the balcony, opened it and jumped for his dear life, when he heard madam say don't shoot him, shoot me instead. And he jumped to his conclusion. He hit his skull against something and died instantly. The case took like a year and our guy was jailed. The wife was held responsible for the whole tragedy. She tried to make people see how sorry she was, and even tried to say there was no more love between them... but the deed was done. No one cared. Now pause for a minute. Agreed the man had a right to get angry. Agreed the lover boy was wrong to go to a matrimonial home. Agreed he should not have gone for his gun. What if he had recorded it and told her to move out? Would he be an ex convict today? Guess what? The woman is living her life now and the only thing is she is adulterous. Not an ex convict. She can still run for elections. Remarry. And hey! She DID remarry. She tried to see him in prison but after she realized the futility, because the family banned her from even coming near her son, she gave up, relocated and started a new life abroad. The lesson in this is,#MaaSheyBooSheTo! Don't let your emotions make you use all your power and connections to deal with an issue that will be an overkill. Control your anger. Avoid people who work you up. Think twice. If you can not stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen. If you can not do the time don't do the crime... let us learn to control our emotions and anger. You don't want to know what the consequences of road rage have amounted to in surveys. No ones life is worth your life sentence. Think fast. Think twice. Think well".

65 comments:

livingstone chibuike said...

Hmm d worst nyt mare a man can imagine

Ogenah Boris said...

Good advice. Anger management is a good thing

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Ok

OSINANL said...

Alibaba is jobless now... He's now a writer

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.



~glo rule your world~ cos I do•

Abosede Ojuade said...

Seen.

Nseabasi Ekpo said...

you are right Alibaba, but sometimes its extremely difficult to control ones temper at that point; i always tell people if such happens to me and i manage to work away, dont let me come back and meet you there; because i will not be able to control myself anymore; may God help us.

Chizzy Liz said...

**************************its easier sed than done ****** my own vex fit last for 5 days *****over on ish ooo !!!! Bur me I sabi advice !!!!!!!

Chizzy Liz said...

**************************its easier sed than done ****** my own vex fit last for 5 days *****over on ish ooo !!!! Bur me I sabi advice !!!!!!!

Juliet Iwuno said...

Wait until it happens to you den you can advise. Linda take note!

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Unfortunate but true


...merited happiness

JEMBETE(KEY-POINT) said...

TRU TALK

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

Nice one Alibaba. The lady who committed the adultery is free while the innocent man is in jail... irony of life

Long Live LIB

Odibe Blessing said...

Yeahhhh anger can be dangerous if u don't or can't control urs

daniel ubong said...

Is not just easy in this king of situation now!but I understand everything u said.

Ndubisi Tochukwu said...

Na wao. I don't know wat to say but I'm caught up inbtw 2 decisions. Anyway nice write up.
Signed
LibBadBoy

pettersons petersons said...

On point bro. Just praying for grace to stand firm even when the situation is so daunting.

Uju Phil said...

It's well...dnt ever pray to find yourself in this man's shoes anyways,cos anything can happen! #EmoIntelligenceStill

lucky sparks said...

The defence lawyer in these case ain't worth hiring a beg,and the man should file for appeal, questions to be asked are 1.did he shoot the lover boy,2 did he push the lover boy 3 was the fistfight between the lover boy and the man fought on the balcony.what sort of dumbass defence lawyer did the man hire,and what weed was the judge smoking to convict a person in such a situation.the case. Nigeria court system is crazy.

tochukwu afamefuna said...

Oh so sad

Anonymous said...

The day I found two of your private numbers and your pictures in my wife's phone, I always laugh at your posts. thank God I divorced her

Anonymous said...

Thank you sir. I needed this right now!!

evy claret said...

Anger is just a letter less of Danger

Eva Da Diva...

Orobosa Austin said...

that's right think twice! and that mean reasoning the situation from both ends , that means thinking what could go wrong if you act so and if you don't act so.. and also thinking what could go right if you act so and otherwise.

Saphire Muna said...

In a nut shell , dnt panic in the face of crisis, take a deep breath and pause for awhile before taking decision.... Nothing worth your life, nothing worth your freedom, nothing worth your happiness...














............ Liber maniac..........

Orobosa Austin said...

that's right think twice! and that mean reasoning the situation from both ends , that means thinking what could go wrong if you act so and if you don't act so.. and also thinking what could go right if you act so and otherwise. and one need to make these decisions fast enough to contain the situation.

ike manuel said...

Food for thought... He who has ears should hear

Na me talk am!

Long Live Lib!!!

Blessing Umezinwa said...

thank you

Blessing Umezinwa said...

thank you

Blessing Umezinwa said...

thank you

Anonymous said...

Was he sentenced to life???..Not fear.

Jamila Shaibu said...

Okkkk

Mecious said...

Words of wisdom. He has said it all. Give yourself brain

tai of Iyara Kg/St said...

e be lik say Alibaba go get pay from linda for this write up on her blog.

tai of Iyara Kg/St said...

yes o

Martins Virus Code said...

Guy i tire o .... it just doesnt make any sense

Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin said...

ododo oro!

Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin said...

ododo oro!

Eleojo Blessing said...

Nice one there

Damilare said...

Why not walk away instead of landing yourself in jail. I knw it's not easy sha but try walking away.

Kiki said...

For the first time this aboki write well.

Reno said...

O Boy U wicked.u get bad mouth.haba writer.lolz.Funny Guy

Anonymous said...

Sorry dear, I don't believe the sorry. Nobody get jailed for a crime he didn't commit. He got his gun, dud he use it? No. Did he push the man over the balcony? No. Just like a burglar, if an intruder comes to your house and you chase him away and he runs to his dead that you didn't make happen, are you liable to his death? No. Anyway going back to anger and catching your wife in the act in your matrimonial bed, come back and advice us, when it happen to you.

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Anonymous said...

Thank you

Anonymous said...

Alibaba goan sit down. Trying hard to sound intelligent. On what grounds was the man convicted? Man found an intruder in his house ..goes for his gun and the idiot jumps ..Alibaba na wah 4 you oh na small children stoey be this naw. Did he shoot? Even the woman is more culpable than the man on grounds of incitement. Self defense will eveb clear the man sef. The only crime the man would have commited is if his gun isnt licensed ..which of course isnt such a big offense since the weapon wasnt used. So oga Alibaba try another story to help you stay relevant this one no work you hear? Linda you sef receive sense and dont post this kind of balderdash abegi

Anonymous said...

Alibaba goan sit down. Trying hard to sound intelligent. On what grounds was the man convicted? Man found an intruder in his house ..goes for his gun and the idiot jumps ..Alibaba na wah 4 you oh na small children stoey be this naw. Did he shoot? Even the woman is more culpable than the man on grounds of incitement. Self defense will eveb clear the man sef. The only crime the man would have commited is if his gun isnt licensed ..which of course isnt such a big offense since the weapon wasnt used. So oga Alibaba try another story to help you stay relevant this one no work you hear? Linda you sef receive sense and dont post this kind of balderdash abegi

chinelo okafor said...

*WORD***

maverick said...

Well said... Effed-up judiciary system

Anonymous said...

And what is this story going round that basket mouth is chopping your wife @ Ali?

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Anonymous said...

Nice one boss

Anonymous said...

Some of you that are taking this advice for granted, may it not happen to you because after killing the lover boy and you are calmed, you will then realise it is never worth the trouble you will face after all.

Stella said...

Most men can't even deal with bf and gf issue talk more of wifey.That's how that idiot wanted to kill himself cos his gf dumped him for his best friend

Anonymous said...

Hope we all learn from this? Life is precious and we must understand that it has no duplicate. Once you waste it, its difficult to get it back. Jesus has paid the supreme price for us all, so there is no need to waste yours. he did it because He had the power to take it back. you and I have no such powers. be wise. Alibaba, thank you for such thought provoking and heart-breaking story.

Anonymous said...

From the facts you provided, the loverboy jumped to his death, he was neither shot nor pushed over the balcony by the lawyer, he was a trespasser/intruder trying to escape from the lawyer's house so why would the lawyer be convicted for his death. Abeg something doesn't add up in this Ali Baba story.

Oluwasegun Bada said...

Best and a very good advice,, ow I wish d brakes is applied asap . Walk away is d gratetess wisdom God can bestowed on us.

Eziokwu said...

@ Lucky Sparks thank you oh. I wonder how the man is guilty for a lover boy that jumped from the balcony

wasiu opas said...

Similar case happened to me 2 days ago, I met my neighbor at bar where we normally watch football they were showing Arsenal Match and I am a Barca fan my Neighbor his Arsenal fan and I asked is it only Arsenal match they are showing other people there said NO they are going to show Barca at the second half after they first half of Arsenal to satisfied everyone cos they all bought drinks cos of football matches but after the first half my neighbor disagreed that his only his own match they must show and i asked him Bros this is not right is what other people agreed on that they should follow which made the Bar attendance to changed the channel knowingly my neighbor was angry that i caused that I disrespected him before I know it he landed me HOT SLAPS twice, my temper was already HIGH I took bottle to break on his head but I controlled my angry because if I don't I will break the bottle on his head and he might die or been in Coma because he was drunk already... So this is my own story people should just pls learn how to control there hanger Cos is begging of fight we know we don't know the ends.

wasiu opas said...

Similar case happened to me 2 days ago, I met my neighbor at bar where we normally watch football they were showing Arsenal Match and I am a Barca fan my Neighbor his Arsenal fan and I asked is it only Arsenal match they are showing other people there said NO they are going to show Barca at the second half after they first half of Arsenal to satisfied everyone cos they all bought drinks cos of football matches but after the first half my neighbor disagreed that his only his own match they must show and i asked him Bros this is not right is what other people agreed on that they should follow which made the Bar attendance to changed the channel knowingly my neighbor was angry that i caused that I disrespected him before I know it he landed me HOT SLAPS twice, my temper was already HIGH I took bottle to break on his head but I controlled my angry because if I don't I will break the bottle on his head and he might die or been in Coma because he was drunk already... So this is my own story people should just pls learn how to control there hanger Cos is begging of fight we know we don't know the ends.

Anonymous said...

I'm from TEXAS i'll shoot the SON OF BITCH through his eyes Fuck-him.

Kemeni Manuel said...

which kind stupid story be this?.......

He's in jail for doing what precisely?......which kind stupid lawyer he employ?...

Did he push the boy?.....did he force him to jump....

Alibaba for christ sake......dont tell this kind of stupid stories......is the lover boy a guest in his house?

Your friend and his lawyers na big Ode!

Anonymous said...

Exactly,is when you be in sane position that is only when you can know your reactions.Tenkiu

Anonymous said...

Ezatily!

pope said...

alibaba the writer......

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