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Monday, 10 October 2016

U.S-based Nigerian woman loses custody of her children

The unnamed U.S-based Nigerian woman shared her story with Brandon Stanton, American blogger, best selling author and founder of Humans Of New York.

53 comments:

livingstone chibuike said...

K

Eleojo Blessing said...

Eyahh

livingstone chibuike said...

Too bad..dats d worst dat can happend to a lady

vinna saviour said...

Eyaaa sorry nne

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

So sorry

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Oh dear!


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Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Eyaa, but this oyibo law get as e be o, why can't I heat my children if they did anything wrong,too bad I felt for her thou.

Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin said...

Eyaa, but this oyibo law get as e be o, why can't I heat my children if they did anything wrong,too bad I felt for her thou.

Anonymous said...

when is sweet, u enjoy, when its bitter, u endure....u had the chance of coming back u, but u choose yankee.....thats the different btw BUHARI and OBAMA......Sorry

Juliet Iwuno said...

Why did she hit her when she knows dat it's not acceptable there??? Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

My dear that's how it works oh nobody is oppressing you with power it is the law you are maybe talking about well that's the American dream they are talking about unfortunately.

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BONARIO NNAGS said...

Nawao! So a mother can't best to correct her children again, same wouldn't have applied. No wonder they raise children who wake up oneday and start shooting them.



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Muna said...

I hope that child of urs is enjoying being free from having a mother's love. I guess she will know what she has missed out on later in life.

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APPLELIPX said...

She had the choice of leaving d abusive man, but she dint. Because she had an American dream. You left him 6 months after u arrived there!!!! User

Now that d American dream has become a night mare u r crying wolf
If you had left d relationship early enough n remained in Nigeria, m sure ur children wouldn't have been influenced by this foreign culture

Just like you rightly stated dat its ok for some mofos to abuse women in Nigeria, u should have also remembered that its a toboo to spank ur children over der

Eluke Tobias said...

You must sha fine fault... always have something to say.
bush geh!

tochukwu afamefuna said...

Chai

kalombe said...

haha good for her. What goes around comes around haha. You ran away with yours n husbands kids now the govt r doing the same to u why r u bitter then?

Anonymous said...

lol it's funny how she abandoned her husband and now her child has abandoned her. Lol the woman will suffer die with the hustle job shes doing she will only have enough to eat and pay rent for the rest of her life

Twingle Tangle said...

Oh! so your husband can't hit you no matter what you do but you can hit powerless, defenceless children. God don catch you. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Now you can feel how their father felt when you deprived him off his children.

busolami modupe said...

My dear they ain't oppressing you oh,,, it's their law and you have to respect it,,, keep praying,,,

Vincent Otugo said...

This is fucking shit for a man to hit a woman and again she was too slow bcos she should called the cops as soon as he hit her since she did not called the cops

Vincent Otugo said...

Koko Douglas I think this is 419

Chiichii said...

They don't take kids away for ordinary beating. She must have been Pana beating her kids eh, pouring out all her frustrations on them before CPS will act oh.

IBOLORD said...

That sort of behaviour is accepted in Nigeria, they will say you disciplined your child. If your child goes to the Police, they will tell her to obey your mother. But things are different in America. What were you thinking ma'am?

Anonymous said...

You bring strange women to your matrimonial home but your wife can't question toyr actions?. It is bastards like your smelling self that make people think Nigeria is a hub for domestic violence! Get help psycho! Bastard

Udoka Jane said...

It's a pity.
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Anonymous said...

that is karma for u

Emma Riches said...

Thunder fire you . Karma is a bitch remember. You threw away the man that brought you to USA in less than 6 months of your arrival. You are proud to answer a single mum at the expense of the man who toils and suffers to pay you child support for his children who you denied the joy of being a father.

Emma Riches said...

Thunder fire you . Na so Una dry mess men up for USA denying them assess to their kids and yet collect child support every month. Karma is a bitch, remember.

Anonymous said...

I like how the woman told her story, she is opening up herself to criticisms, she wants to learn what is right. She didn't compromise the truth by lying about not hitting her daughter to gain our pity.

Anonymous said...

The domestic violence and child abuse laws were designed to protect the "weak". This fictional Lady eagerly used it against her husband (just 6 months after the couple arrived in the US) and now her daughter (learning from her mother) has used it against her...Karma?

Anonymous said...

Very good for u..am so happy the americans took away your kids...u left ur husband, immediately he helped u to america, u tout u were in heaven abi, u betray him, america has betrayed u too now...I want to laugh at u

Anonymous said...

Very good for u..am so happy the americans took away your kids...u left ur husband, immediately he helped u to america, u tout u were in heaven abi, u betray him, america has betrayed u too now...I want to laugh at u

Anonymous said...

Very good for u..am so happy the americans took away your kids...u left ur husband, immediately he helped u to america, u tout u were in heaven abi, u betray him, america has betrayed u too now...I want to laugh at u

Anonymous said...

Very good for u..am so happy the americans took away your kids...u left ur husband, immediately he helped u to america, u tout u were in heaven abi, u betray him, america has betrayed u too now...I want to laugh at u

Anonymous said...

Abeg tell her. She even said is her right.

Anonymous said...

The same law that forbids your husband to hit you, forbids you to hit your children. Karma is real.

Ture said...

It's the daughter that will regret this later on. If her Father can hit her mother, he most definitely will hit her too. She will likely call the cops again and then this time will live in foster homes. She will even miss her mother's beating.

Anonymous said...

I do not know the whole story but placing her on the stake isn't what we're supposed to be doing. You know how difficult it is to loose one's children. You know how difficult it is to train children in this corrupt society where everyone thinks they are liable to no one including preteens. I fear we are just criticizing her cos she is a Nigerian. We all should try overcome this social network need of emotionally oppressing others.
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Chidyz said...

Your husband hit you and then you find fault in him hitting you but you see it as faultless hitting your own children abi? in-fact, craze dey your head. welcome to America.


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Anonymous said...

You claimed you asked your husband whom the mystery lady was and he hit you for asking. Really? You never said what you did next or said before he hit you for asking. Women always play the victim. Your uncouth behaviours and inability to bridle your sharp tongues push men to the wall and when they run out of patience and react, they call it violence. "He hit me". They deprive the men of the joy of seeing their kids, they say "my kids". Please, do kids belong to the woman alone? Why not 'our kids'? Selfish women! They get abroad, discover they've got rights and then mess their husbands up! Ruin them indeed! You were glad to deprive a man of his joy of being with his children, you claimed domestic violence; you left him because he hit you, you said, but now, the tables have turned against you, you hit them, they are taken off you and you complain? Enjoy the 'joy' of living without your kids just like you have put their father through. Women; once they discover they can survive without their husbands, they begin to show the demons in them and try to pitch the kids against their father!No sympathies, woman. I am a lady too, I have lived in the diaspora and soon will be relocating with my husband. But, never will I allow the Western mentality get to me. I value family bonds. I fear God. Please, pardon all typos.

Anonymous said...

The same law you exploited to your advantage is being used for you.
Don't be annoyed.

kamustaka79 bluestone said...

When u left ur husband, u should have relocated to naija..and go back much later with ur kids when they are well groomed to the naija mentality and know what's up! It wouldn't have been easy maybe, bt u would be thanking God for that decision later in life. I pray God shows up for u. Keep praying. It is well

dee boi said...

Na wah... dee

Iyasports said...

Whatever you do in front of your children they learn from it, why are you complaining? you left your husband because he hit and your children left you because you hit them and you forget that is not nigeria, no marriage is perfect you make your marriage perfect. waiting to hear from your husband side of the story

Uju Phil said...

Quite sad...it's obtainable over there.Also,you endured your husband's excesses cos you think he has every right to hit you after all,hitting a woman is a norm in Nigeria. Come of it pls,this is a height of misconception! FYI Mam,domestic violence is never a norm in Nigeria,people are rising up against it for years now,human right activists,NGOS,individuals even are fighting with all they've got against it,it's evil,it's unacceptable!

Ruby Rose said...

Anyway, my own is: you had a choice. if you must go to another man's land, you must adhere to their rules, why is she crying about loosing her children? Second base o jare!

Anonymous said...

he who lives by the sword dies by the sword

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