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Monday, 10 October 2016

Toke Makinwa replies critics of her VLog asking girls in their 20s to have tattos, one night stand

Toke in one of her Vlogs posted in July, asked girls in their 20s to live life and have fun while they are young. In the Vlog, Toke advised girls within that age range to get a tattoo, have one night stands among other things. Many people who recently saw the video, felt it was not right for her to advise young ladies to engage in one night stands. She took to twitter this afternoon to react to these criticisms. See the video below and tell us what you think...

 

81 comments:

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Just negodi

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Ana akogheri

Paul Ocheke said...

Rubbish... Double your hustle

livingstone chibuike said...

She get time to start replying fans..some people ar meant to be ignored

Anonymous said...

Stupid bleached out monkey

shibi said...

lmao the aunty is feeling like amber rose.mama na 9ja u dey o...

ONYX linda ikeji first son GODWIN said...

Ermmmmm... Tattoos no, one night stands? Hell yeah! If you haven't had one, then you're missing!

Juliet Iwuno said...

See who dey advice person. Linda take note!

St mabel said...

True talk mehn....who you help...lol!

Anonymous said...

Idiot, I see why your husband got another woman pregnant.

Anonymous said...

Not everyone is made for talk-show ,she needs to learn command- communication ,before you clearly relate to audience.1st , she needs a English Class,2nd How to flow fluently,even with an accent .and 3rd PRONUNCIATION. So you could reach larger audience.

TheRealAkon said...

She is not a Certified Life Coach and should not be giving advice to young people. This sort of platform -Vlog she's using is bad when you're not speaking authoritatively backed with a certain level of qualifications in the field.
I think a lot of young people are misled and misinformed invariably confused.

There has to be a form of legitimate checks to regulate channels where people access and reach out randomly to vulnerable young people.

Quite frankly, her approach is wrong as notably young women are her fans therefore exposed to ill advice.

Anonymous said...

Everyone seems to forget that life is for living. If you're meant to be angels, you'd be in heaven.

People need to "live" their lives, instead of minding other people's businesses.

Enjoy your lives, have fun, most importantly, be safe.

Odibe Blessing said...

Hmmmmm seriously did she advised dat,it's not right if it's true abeg....dn't lead the youth astray with ur advise abeg ooo

munachi ann said...

lol......I don't think that is right to advise young ladies in their twenties who are yet to make life decisions and have every propensity to make mistakes. I am not against toke makinwa neither am I sides with anyone. the thing key thing is education coupled with some good command of maturity in every aspect of their live. I don't fathom any sense in doing a one night stand and you are not backed up with a quality education. nah!!

Anonymous said...

shameless girl. what is the world turning into? do you know how many girls life has been ruined from one night stand? how can you advised that? Though it is not a crime to have tattoo but our society/radition as of now is not favorable to it, so stop encouraging young girls to do so against the wish of their parents and society. we are not in the western world and you must remember that. The whites are not trying to behave like us, they don't encourage polygamy etc. but our own busy body always want to copy cat the western world at their own expense. shameless girl. if you have any endorsement you should be stripped off.

munachi ann said...

lol......I don't think that is right to advise young ladies in their twenties who are yet to make life decisions and have every propensity to make mistakes. I am not against toke makinwa neither am I sides with anyone. the key thing is education, coupled with some good command of maturity in every aspect of their live. I don't fathom any sense in doing a one night stand and you are not backed up with a quality education. nah!!

Anonymous said...

Who listens to this 2 cents bitch

Anonymous said...

so now Toke is now the queen of prostitution. advising young girls to get tattoos and one night stands and on sunday she will go to church and open her rotten bleached mouth to say thank you Jesus. Is that what the bible teach you? what if the contract aids, or get pregnant? no wonder that ugly guy dump you, so this is what you have been doing. so you are a world trade centre that anyone comes and goes as they like???? My God.

have you forgotten that God says enjoy your life but remember judgement. since when is Tattoos and one night stand with men enjoyment? I just lost respect for this crazy ugly bleached lady... rubbish

Anonymous said...

What of HIV, condom burst, pregnancy, loss of confidence, all the other shit in between? So, the best she can do to help the young is to encourage them to fuck 1 nite stand e kwa? In this age of diseases eh? Ok!!!

She just flaunted one guy recently as her new catch, this time he will impregnate another lady with twins, mark my words on a wall.

Anyone who, not minding the way things are in Nigeria, all she can run to is encourage "fast sex", that person is gini? Sutupeed! Period!

My name: Chika

Anonymous said...

Leviticus 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."1
Leviticus 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them."

1 Corinthians 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

so all this your self pity story is rubbish and also woe to you linda who support evil.

Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who substitute darkness for light and light for darkness; Who substitute bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter! 21Woe to those who are wise in their own eyes And clever in their own sight

Anonymous said...

No wonder your life is like this Toke.

Anonymous said...

Financial capable guy that can have fun with me and pay my rent or at least give me 40k for my time as I lost my job and 2 months late on rent. No one to assist so I have decided to do this. I a matured man in his thirthies upwards. I'm 26,tall plumpy bbw and very attractive. My email omalichaokoye@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Financial capable guy that can have fun with me and pay my rent or at least give me 50k for my time as I lost my job and 2 months late on rent. No one to assist so I have decided to do this. I a matured man in his thirthies upwards. I'm 26, plumpy bbw and very attractive. My email omalichaokoye@yahoo.com

Adanna Elechi said...

You need that class too. Focus on punctuation

Anonymous said...

Toke! you irritate...

Anonymous said...

This is most disappointing from Toke, it definitely tells a lot about her and it's not good. One thing is, don't ever advise nobody on irreversible decisions/actions.

alandnid said...

Toke,you really don't have to ask people to do that. It's like you are passing your anger from your experience from a failed marriage to your audience. Don't do that, because you are hurt,should not be a license to lead other astray.

CHERYL (aka FROM GLORY to GLORY) said...

I love u Toke, but pls tread carefully. Morality amongst the youth especially those in 20s should continue to be enforced. This advise is a no-no. Maybe u didn't take life seriously that's why ur marriage crashed. Just saying

Long Live LIB

okafor richard said...

She is just a bad bitch her husband decided to find himself a wife..now everyone is sayin he cheated

Abby Oba said...

She needs to be advised on how not to bleach ones body.She is not in any position to advice anybody. She wants the younger ones to copy her wayward life! Get a life woman.If you don't have any positive things to say just close that mouth pls!

komolafe oluwafemi clement said...

Boring. She sounds like a frustrated single-again hoe. Good message but passed in a stupid manner. Get a life

RareSpecie Z said...

Retard.

dee boi said...

HIV/AIDS is real pls play safe in whatever u do... dee

OdofT said...

Pointless n senseless talk

LOL said...

I would definitely love to have a on nyt stand with u Toke but will u allow me put a bag over ur head whilst we do that shit eh?





Fugly Hag .....

Anonymous said...

She was actually an aristo chick in the dept of English, UNILAG 2006 graduating set. I see a bit of hypocrisy here. Toks I hope u have changed for good. What you are insinuating now is that since u r single at the moment u are obviously currently involved in many one night stands. You just casted yourself.

Helen Bature said...

So u can't advice them to get closer to God abi...na wa oooooo...pls learn from Linda ikeji...

Vivian Reginalds said...

Her accent dikwa poor
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

TOKE!!! ARE You a Nigerian? I understand what you're saying but you words are confusing and wrong.By the way, I got married at 21.2 boys and a girl.my husband respects me and am presently enjoying my 5th year,so your wrong.Choose your words wisely.

Anonymous said...

Her message is from pet of hell.

osazee iyekekpolo said...

In one word- orhue

Anonymous said...

Toke is a dissapointment. I don't hate you, I hate the words and what she is inspiring the young ones to do. Everything is not about trending, money and fame. Toke is not a good toke model she is not a good inspiration. I remember that time she said linda ikeji is not a role model, now we know who the real role model is. For someone who had gone through real life issues ,I dont expect this fr her. God bless linda and the rest who are truly inspireing.

sholetoga said...

Heheheee! Am even surprised anyone will take advice from Toke. Has all her advice work for her life, anyone who take advice from Toke will end up an old unmarried lady.......Toke borrow sense and stop this your ITK, its not working for you or anyone

Inabeto said...

If you understand how Tole talks you will know she's not LITERALLY telling you to sleep around with strangers, that's was a way of saying "have fun to the fullest". Iv been her fan for years and I can't relate to Tokes "Hi" or "Hey" Like she said those who get it get it.

Eleojo Blessing said...

HmMmmmmm

Anonymous said...

My comment is about Tone glow, hehehe, no one in their right minds want to look like you babe. You have this scary look, something about your cheek bones.

I wonder how someone who uses Toke glow can snatch another's boo, when Owner of the Glow can't keep her husband.

I'm disgusted at this video, there are a million ways you could have passed on this message. You are no role model. Hopefully before my children grow, your lot will be replaced by exemplary models.

chinelo okafor said...

DEMENTED...

Mayreeh M said...

I totally understand her

Ngozi said...

My take..... life should be lived to the fullest But in accordance to Our Lord's word.

Anonymous said...

Better repent genuinely, old bleached hag!

Anonymous said...

Is Toke ok ? i mean is she alright ? why would you advice young girls to pass through this channel that never worked for you.public figures turning into public nuisance

Chijioke Okafor said...

I swear this lady is just sack & so fake...kai...see talkshow...see adviser...its only 1 with self esteem issues that will listen to u...end time bitch...I pity men who ever spent time with u...let me hear u didn't do many 1 nyt stand...akwuna lagos

Laura.I. said...

see what the silly girl said, 'I didnt have a one night stand but you can' very silly girl allowing the devil to work through her. so she knows one night stand is bad, disconnects herself from it but advices young girl to do that. I blame Linda Ikeji for making unimportant people seem like something

Anonymous said...

Once you mess your life up at your 20s your are doomed. She should encourage young ones to study further. Who says you can't be successful at biz or a nice career at your 20s. So kissing and partying like a fool is the advice this moron is giving the youth. Shameless idiot!

Anonymous said...

"An English class" @anon 5:42 ....Thank me laterπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Thats not how to go about becoming a role model, when your daughter turns 20 pls send her to me ok..... i go wait patiently Mumu. i wonder what planet you came from..... Nonsense

Anonymous said...

Thanks Toke and i totally agree with you that the Vlog isn't for everyone. Its simple, shes not asking you to take her advise neither is she saying go get a one night stand, tattos etc. Shes saying do the stuff you are meant to do while you are at an early age so as not to regretor miss out that u never did them whilst you are ageing ( 30 and above). Take life simple while in your 20"s shikina.. If the matter no suit you kindly let her be than judge or call her names. Shes human too you know.

@Toke God bless your hustle.. Just press control ignore..

Anonymous said...

Thanks Toke and i totally agree with you that the Vlog isn't for everyone. Its simple, shes not asking you to take her advise neither is she saying go get a one night stand, tattos etc. Shes saying do the stuff you are meant to do while you are at an early age so as not to regretor miss out that u never did them whilst you are ageing ( 30 and above). Take life simple while in your 20"s shikina.. If the matter no suit you kindly let her be than judge or call her names. Shes human too you know.

@Toke God bless your hustle.. Just press control ignore..

Anonymous said...

Thanks Toke and i totally agree with you that the Vlog isn't for everyone. Its simple, shes not asking you to take her advise neither is she saying go get a one night stand, tattos etc. Shes saying do the stuff you are meant to do while you are at an early age so as not to regretor miss out that u never did them whilst you are ageing ( 30 and above). Take life simple while in your 20"s shikina.. If the matter no suit you kindly let her be than judge or call her names. Shes human too you know.

@Toke God bless your hustle.. Just press control ignore..

Anonymous said...

Thanks Toke and i totally agree with you that the Vlog isn't for everyone. Its simple, shes not asking you to take her advise neither is she saying go get a one night stand, tattos etc. Shes saying do the stuff you are meant to do while you are at an early age so as not to regretor miss out that u never did them whilst you are ageing ( 30 and above). Take life simple while in your 20"s shikina.. If the matter no suit you kindly let her be than judge or call her names. Shes human too you know.

@Toke God bless your hustle.. Just press control ignore..

Anonymous said...

Thanks Toke and i totally agree with you that the Vlog isn't for everyone. Its simple, shes not asking you to take her advise neither is she saying go get a one night stand, tattos etc. Shes saying do the stuff you are meant to do while you are at an early age so as not to regretor miss out that u never did them whilst you are ageing ( 30 and above). Take life simple while in your 20"s shikina.. If the matter no suit you kindly let her be than judge or call her names. Shes human too you know.

@Toke God bless your hustle.. Just press control ignore..

Anonymous said...

i respect u dear, keep it up, the advise is not for the pretenders its for the mature minds, all u said is the truth nothing but truth. 08169125556

Anthony Usoro said...

She is totally right....dont be too serious in your twenties. enjoy your life and as life progress get more and more serious with your life.

Emy said...

@Toke,so you want to transfer your frustrations to these young ones abi? You have failed woefully. Instead of you to advise them better based on your experience you want them to tow your line. Sorry girl, you have gat nothing to offer.

Chukwuogor Chinwe said...

To be honest, i feel like slapping Toke.. After all the wrong advices she just gave, she had mouth to call God. So wrong! Youths have to understand that once you call your self a christian, the only prescribed manual for instructions is the word of God. Not human or societal standards. Once someone gives you an advice, run back to the word of God to see if God instructed on it. This life we live is not ours, and one day we must all answer to the almighty God who created us.. whether we like it or not.
Just like Anon 6:28 quoted Isaiah 5:20-24 ... Lets all be wise and seek what is right. It is either black or white with God. Meaning that whatever we do is either leading us to heaven, or leading us to hell. There's no inbetweens. God's grace to everyone.

Edward Anyanwu said...

This is Bullshit.

Anonymous said...

I think Toke is a sweet person but she is beginning to have misplaced priority if i should say that. I have listened to her previous v-logs from when she just started and i remember her talking about not giving in to fornication and now this? Not long ago she talked about being a spiritual person and this has now got me confused. I definitely agree with living your life. I am an advocate of having an independent mind especially for ladies who tie everything to a man, who wouldn't be happy just because the man isn't there. But definitely not will i agree to one night stands, kissing a stranger or even tattoo. Some of her fans loved what she said but do you know we all can be applauded to Hell? What i see is that Toke is gradually giving into whats acceptable by society irrespective of her "spirituality".

People, live at every point of your life but not without God nor doing what he commands against. Don't let society clap you to hell.

Anonymous said...

I think this lady is high on weed!
I also strongly believe she's a protect of "One night stand"

Anonymous said...

The lady has no virtue. She is just a cheap slut. How can you advice women to be sluts and have one night stands? For example, if someone has a one night stand today, it could backfire in future. Imagine meeting someone in future for marriage and you are told a friend of yours had a one night stand with her? I met my wife at age 20 and we are married today. Stupid advice from a woman that has no virtue and content inside of her. No wonder the Maye guy left. Opo

PS Please ask her if she would allow her own daughter to have one night stands week in week out, kiss strangers, get tattoos etc

Anonymous said...

The stupidity of this woman is simply boundless. What manner of advice is this?! How can you as a responsible adult encourage youths to engage in such moral depravity??!! This is what happens when a society takes freedom too far.....

Ellen said...

Lol because all the people condemning her right now have lived/ are living such virtuous lives and are giving young people the very valued advice?!
Log and speck country

Lolly said...

People misunderstanding things since 19000... just that her choice of words and examples she gave are not fitting at all. she is simply saying 'do the right thing at the right time'. let's stop blowing things out of proportion cos we've gat lots of troubles already in hands as Nigerians e.g recession etc. thanks .

Anonymous said...

Bleached chicken like her...hisss...advice urself first. no wonder Mr Husband behaved dat way.

Anonymous said...

Oh please Mr. Freeze, spare us. Setting what trends? For who? I disagree with the views Toke shared in her sage counsel to 20'somethings. I am currently 23 and have no interest in doing any of the things she recommended. Not because I am boring or an old spirit, but because I have tasted some of those things and find them all vain and worthless. Here Toke is using the medium that "God gave her" to encourage young people to live frivolous lifestyles, and stack up on them before they hit 25. Has she not read in her Bible where it says "You who are young, be happy while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth. Follow the ways of your heart and whatever your eyes see, but know that for all these things God will bring you into judgment" (Ecc. 11:9)? Or "Don't let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity." (1 Tim 4:12). Or she's only a Christian when her online presence booms? I catch your drift Toke but admonish you to not to discourage young people from choosing to live responsibly from an early age. I wonder what would have happened to Joseph in the Bible if he decided to catch fun with his brothers while young and keep his "destiny stuff" until later, or if David chose to sit at home and chase girls instead of going out to fight Goliath. I can confidently go all Bible on you since you claim your faith so vehemently. Otherwise, you need look no further today than the Mark Zuckerbergs and Malala Yousafzais who are living right from/in their youth. Not saying we can all be like them, but we can at least strive to be our best.

Benjamin Alozie said...

She is right in the sense have fun while you are young and wrong in the sense,she is to supporting infidelity at a young age which is totally wrong because most lucky people found real love in a young age and even till this 21st century real love still exist youthfully.

Anonymous said...

I am 35 now, and I dated someone who had the same ideas of not taking life too seriously in her 20’s. She couldn’t marry any guy within the area because she had fuc!ed all the men around.

So she married some random dude and got divorced after a year. If you focus your energy in a good relationship in your 20’s, it is the building blocks for a marriage in your mid-20’s.

I have 2 daughters and wouldn’t want them sleeping around with random guys!!! Just thinking, I really liked you before but you seem to be one of those “girls” – your ex-husband did the right thing leaving you!

SMH….

Anonymous said...

Devil incarnate!!!!!

Ninirah said...

I believe in having fun while you are young, BUT if you believe in God, no age excuses doing anything you would need to ask forgiveness for.
We have our moments of mental rebellion but biko it should end there.

Dammie said...

Everyone is prone to make mistakes. But not everyone is capable of dramatic turn around from those mistakes. Some do find it easier than others to move on, others are completely shattered. Let's build ourselves with wholesome talk and actions. I have never seen anyone regret doing the right thing. Youths at the said age bracket are vulnerable. We know we do live in a world full of depravity and pervertedness. We should be careful not to lead our young ones down the path of torment and regret. Godliness with contentment is great gain. You don't need to make many mistakes to be wise. Wisdom comes not from our experiences, but only God is the true author of wisdom. You have two choices: God's way or the way of the world. You need not condemn anyone, for who are you? You however need to speak out for the truth and be godly not only in SPEECH but also in your daily life.

Dammie said...

Enough of the name calling. Who do you think you are? Are you better than Toke? Do you think you have earned the right to point fingers at her character? Do you think you have the right to condemn her? It's a pity! So because it's free to post comments you think you have earned the right to condemn someone? I honestly think you need to revaluate your value system. I honestly do not agree with the message She's passing to the young ones, and I'm not a fan. I would not start now, yet that doesn't give me the right to cast aspersions on her or anyone else for that matter; whose ideals and advice I do not agree with. Mistakes never made anyone better. It's rather the lessons learnt from such that made all the difference. Why put it your hand in fire when you can only get burnt. I know some people learn the hard way. But why should everyone else go through the same process that isn't rewarding and only laced with torment and regret. Mistakes don't make you wiser. For wisdom comes only from God. If you want to know how to go through life without a feeling of emptiness and loneliness, find solace in the truth in God's word. It's astounding how young people find time to comment in social media platforms and not devote even 20 mins a day to searching fundamental truths in God's word. I pray that God will give many young people of this generation the will to stand for the upright, godly and fulfilling life. God bless you.

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