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Monday, 17 October 2016

'As a man, wearing a dress, heels and stockings is liberating for me' - Gay Rights activist Bisi Alimi

UK based Nigerian Gay rights activist, Bisi Alimi continues the countdown to his wedding while recalling the very first time he tried on women clothing and how liberating it now is to him. Read below.
Day 13 of 30 days to my wedding of 30 things to be grateful for. The first time I put on a dress was at university of Lagos. I was drafted to act a role at the last minute as the character did not turn up. I am sure @denrele_edun will remember this event.
We were acting for Atiku's wife while she was visiting. Many times after that, I have dressed up. I dressed up hosting many gay parties in#Lagos. In 1999, as a very young 24years old, I won the glamorous Miss Gay Lagos. It was an honour. As a man (yes, just in case some of you are confused) wearing a dress and heels and stockings is liberating for me. I am not a woman and I do not want to be a woman. When I wear dresses, I wear them as a man and this is why it is very liberating for me. It connects with my vulnerability. As an African man, there is an expectation of what it means to be a man. Wearing a dress is also a statement of fuck you to patriarchy. I don't do conformity. I live in my head and in my world. I would go naked and take a picture of it if I feel so good about it. Then came last year and I met @msposhp and she changed my world. She made me understand that beauty has no gender and a dress is a dress is a dress. The joy I feel when I take on the character of Ms Posh is overwhelming. She takes me to another level. Also when@obehinoir makes her up, she transforms into this beautiful woman I have been dying to meet and know. Ms Posh is an act, she is only real in my head and in your imagination. That imagination if you let it loose will change the way you see women and treat women. As a man in a dress, I have experience sexual harassment and verbal abuse and to me it is interesting how just a dress changed the way people treat me. Unfortunately, Ms Posh is not invited to me wedding, but I am sure, she will be standing next to me in my head when I say 'I Do' to my man.#samesexmarriage #samesexwedding#30daysofthankfulness#equalmarriage #weddingday#dragqueen

73 comments:

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

Good for you

Fortunatus Ifenna said...

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livingstone chibuike said...

Dis one is gone already

livingstone chibuike said...

Dis guy is a bastard

Iphie Abraham said...

Hell awaits you








Lib addict#just passing#

Ndubisi Tochukwu said...

Damn this guy is ugly as fuck.
Signed
LibBadBoy

Anonymous said...

A typical Yoruba man

Jennifer Ngozi said...

ugly she or he..abeg park well

Jennifer Ngozi said...

ndi ara everywhere. mtchewwww

LIB REP (中华人民共和国) said...

YAKK I WANNA THROW UP ON THIS FUCKTARD

Nseabasi Ekpo said...

rubbish talk

Okwuchukwu Okafor said...

No1 z a saint, buh I wonder how people like ds live with themselves...Onyx, care to enlighten me???

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Anonymous said...

Idiot







Naked Video Of A Patient Sleeping Doctor

Anonymous said...

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T_Lixir Lixir said...

So Lagos peeps have been having gay affiliations for that long? There's an underworld of butt screwing going on there.

Rebecca Shema said...

Hmmmmm!Some time I wonder if some people are normala upstair.

Anonymous said...

Bonga fish, okporoko, ogwu azu, may thunder fire your wide leaking ass hole.

Anonymous said...

RICH LAGOS BASED SUGAR MUMMY NEEDS A NICE PLAYBOY IN LAGOS
.
SWEETPURRY NEEDS A SMART GUY THAT CAN PLAY HER WAIST
.
EARN 200-400K A MONTH LOVING AN OLDER WOMAN
.
CURVY MONALISA IS IN NEED OF A YOUNG ROMANTIC GUY
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FELICIA NEEDS A FRESH GUY FOR ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP
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KADIJA IN KANO NEEDS SOMEONE TO HAVE FUN WITH
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SHE LOOKS EXTREMELY HOT EVEN WITHOUT EXPOSING HER ASSETS(PHOTOS)

Uju Phil said...

Does he have Hiv too? Yuck, anumpam madu! #Yukish

Philips choice said...

Serious madness...cancer of the anus is gyming for you.

Ike Louisa said...

OK

Ike Louisa said...

OK

ONYX linda ikeji first son GODWIN said...

Lol.. lixir, the gay world in Nigeria Is even more active than the straight one. There are parties, hook ups, and constant sex, for a country that's homophobic, y'all are blind to what's going on right in your faces! Who's the joke on? Lol

ONYX linda ikeji first son GODWIN said...

Lol.. yes, miss gay Lagos! Still don't understand the pageant, but hey! Be who you are and be happy! As long as no one is hurting

Udolisa Ugochukwu said...

Please anybody here to help me with N10000 to pay up my house rent,please before my landlord rent out my room,please contact me through my number or whatsappp me 08183165717..God bless you as you help me.

Juliet Iwuno said...

Tufiakwa! Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

yoruba Goat, may u die of AIDS

RareSpecie Z said...

True Talk.

Anonymous said...

one word...yukk!

Anonymous said...

He just confirmed denrele is gay

Anonymous said...

He just confirmed denrele is gay

OSINANL said...

GO TO HELL BISI

Anonymous said...

He just confirmed denrele is gay

Anonymous said...

He just confirmed denrele is gay

evy claret said...

Hmmm

Eva Da Diva...

CHISOM EGBUNAM said...

What a rejected soul..... How on earth do think you look like a woman ehh or is it becoz u're wearing those filty makeup on ur ugly face nawa o! I think u need to be beaten up messlessly so that ur brain can regain its thinking...... Chisos ...... Disgusting ugly fool ....

CHISOM EGBUNAM said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

This world must surely come to an end.

Stephanie Eric said...

Lord have mercy, chai.

Eugenia Ekeji said...

Shey people wey born u no go see u dey cry like dis?.

Anonymous said...

Alimi seems somewhat confused. First, he says he is gay, then he says wearing women's clothing is liberating for him. So, which is which, Bisi??? Plus, you don't really look good dressed as a woman!

Amos Mohammed said...

What the fuck.....

Francisca said...

Lmao! God knew what he was doing when he created you a man, see how stupid he looks as a female... Smh

Yoruba people and orishirishi... Bisi alimi, Bobby risky, denrele, etc

Anonymous said...

Either way you are ugly, remain the man GOD made you to be. That should be more consoling for you. egbe!

Anonymous said...

Miss Gay Lagos, meet booharee for the other room pls

Anonymous said...

I love Nigerians we are smart. Number 1. He confirmed there is a gay union going on before our fore fathers in lagos. Jesu oluwa !! Since 1999???
And also that derenle is gay.
I love
Nigerians we sabi

Abbiba Abbi said...

This guy is sick upstairs #Abkeeys#

vinna saviour said...

They need Jesus in their lives

favour onyekwere said...

Even dressed as a man you are ugly talkless of dressing like a woman.

favour onyekwere said...

Your elder brother in the gay business

Vivian Reginalds said...

ode fag
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Phoenix said...

HOOOOOOWWW NAAAAAOOOOO!!!!THESE MOFOS ARE REALLY TAKING A PISS!!! Who the f**k is this joker again ooo! Fine, you no fine yet you get up and put on a dress and disgrace your family for a simple slice of shame. Goodness, no be madness be dis one so???? guy go and get your stone looking self a job and stop giving fahlz something to say. non-sense!

Teetod said...

When are you gonna come Out??

Teetod said...

He looks Fugly (fucking-Ugly)

Anonymous said...

God will punish you and your family!

linda ikeji's driver. said...

U dis sick looking individual, imagine the rubbish u said, ur first comment before dis one,i pity for ur parents, bicos u ar already headed in dat direction

Anonymous said...

Do you suck dick..I got a 10inch long dick for you to suck asshole

Eze Chinyere said...

You look so disguting

Ambrose said...

na dis kind peo[le women suppose to dey abort dey thro way

Dan Udele said...

hmmmmm all is well oo!!! God help us

mackie hyacinth said...

Too ugly..you look weird and stupid too.women's clothing doesn't look good on u one bit..you had better take off those shit you're wearing..#bat

Anonymous said...

Please leave the poor boy alone don't crucify him for who he is. Like he said be who you are and be happy... You all are bloody hypocrites THERE IS NOTHING WRONG IN BEING GAY #HumanRightStillExists

Anonymous said...

Very urgly gay;dried no flesh,dirty colour i wounder what the white man will touch pity u becos i know u already have aids .gyess ur mum wuld have prefered u where flushed out with menses.

Anonymous said...

So Linda when r u d number one LGBT promoter gonna come out of your closet?

Anonymous said...

Onyx don cum out taya,e remain bonario

Anonymous said...

D guy don get aids since na,he don talk am years ago

Oke said...

ONLY A "SISSY" WOULD TALK LIKE THAT, "FEEL LIBERATED IN WOMEN CLOTHING".

Julius Idowu said...

Ugly mugo

Eleojo Blessing said...

So disgusting

Anonymous said...

Clowns!!!

SIMPLYCOCK said...

Just look at this HIV disaster!

And he's still heady and brazen!

peter odutola said...

Demon is living inside this guy... No be small matter

Anonymous said...

I do not understand why our Nigerian blogs/bloggers are still allowing such people screen time. There are more pressing matters than that of a transgender male, I am totally fed up with media giving these people airtime to express themselves, I personally feel we need to stop promoting gay rights movements when we cant even get our women's right bill accepted.

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