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Tuesday, 20 September 2016

Photos:Victim of domestic violence, Ivie Edobor, shares her story, cries for justice

Ivie Edobor, a Mother of three, took to her Facebook wall to accuse her husband, John Edobor, of attacking her after they went they separated ways following their failed marriage. She wrote
Dear friend, To shed more light on my ordeal, this is my story. Two years ago my husband kick me out of his house along with my 3 daughters ages 9, 7 and 4. I was forced to move back to my father's house and struggled to provide for my 3 children as he completely neglected them and even took them of his medical insurance provided by his office Zenith Bank Plc.

After much struggle, I finally got back on my feet. Got a great job, enrolled my kids in a new school and rented an apartment for my 3 kids and I. About Easter time this year he decides he was to be part of my children's life again. I allowed him access to the children as I felt we could be civil to each other for the sake of our children. At this time I had started putting my documentation together for the divorce process.  
Early hours of June 19th on my way back from a function, a friend had parked right in front of the gate of my apartment to press the bell for the gateman to open the gate and let me into the compound when suddenly he was rushed at and attacked by a man waving an object. The first impression was that it was an armed robber trying to rob us. My friend(a man) pushed he away but he came charging back; at this point I looked out the opened door and realized it was John Edobor my enstrange husband. Before we could react a group of area boys showed up but rather than saving us from the assailant, they joined him. The proceeded to be my friend on the floor giving John the opportunity to focus his attack on me. He used a metal bar(wheel spanner/ metal rod) to try hitting me on the head through the opened drivers door but I shielded it. Not satisfied with that, he turned to the passengers door dragged out to the floor. I landed on the floor with my legs extended where he proceeded to hit me on the leg continuously with the metal. When he was satisfied he was about going back to join the area boys who had gathered my friend when my neighbour who had heard my screams for help and seen from his window a man striking someone on the floor thinking it was an armed robber, numbed down his balcony with a machete to save whoever was being attacked. On getting down he was faced with my enstrange husband whom he had prevented from entering my compound without my permission on 2 occasions so he recognised him. It was at that point he overpowered John. The area boys recognised him as a member of the security team for the street and backed off my friend. By that time I couldn't stand up and my leg was bleeding profusely. I was rushed to the hospital where my jeans was torn off my leg to see the nature of my injury. The injury was so severe that my broken bone torn through my skin puncturing an artery in the process. 

Almost 3months and 2 surgeries later, I have titanium plates and screws to keep my leg in place and I am unable to use my right leg. I still have my 3 children to care for and my life is at a stand still. The perpetuator was charged to court and released on bail 3 days later. Now he moves around freely carrying on with his life. Now is it wrong for me to cry for Justice.


101 comments:

OSINANL said...

That man must be a beast....


Linda someone is impersonating me on this blog... please take note

The real OSINANL is in BLACK while the impersonator is in RED

Uju Phil said...

It's quite sad what's happening in marriages these days,may God help my generation! Say no to #DomesticViolence

livingstone chibuike said...

Hmmm marriage wit dere wahala won't stop escalating...

edDREAMZ said...

a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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That leg is really destroyed though no doubt...
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

okechukwu nnoduechi said...

NAWA O









AUNTY LINDA ๐Ÿ‘ฉ

Ndubisi Tochukwu said...

So much for marriage.
Signed
LibBadBoy

merryfrancee said...

The story is on one lane.. but is so wrong to hit a woman...shame man!!!

Anonymous said...

Call your brothers and go for revenge mission . beat the crap out of him and report him also to his office. They will sack him immediately.

Anonymous said...

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joe said...

Marriages these days dey taya person oo God save us.

winniejoy said...

Is. Quite sad how marriages turn out be ,where the Sweet man you married would turn into a monster overnight, is very alarming. This should be an eye opener for some girls ,marriage is not everything ,your life is more important

Nelly Uwaifo said...

He is a sick mad man that needs rehabilitation in Jail.

Nelly Uwaifo said...

The guy is a sick man that needs rehabilitation in Jail.

Juliet Iwuno said...

The heart of a man is desperately wicked. I pray he meets his Waterloo soon. Linda take note!

princess said...

Monster ex husband... but ma'am, I hope that' friend isn't your lover cause you are not divorced legally o.. * just thinking a loud

Anonymous said...

This is the culture Nigerians speak of! The culture of abuse and animalism, and depravity.

This is trauma these children will have to endure for the rest of their lives, in the knowledge that because they are female, the law to "protect and serve", somehow does not apply to them.

This is what people think is fair, this is what the institution of marriage is, that you all claim to protect so vehemently.

You are party to the problem if you wilfully support these archaic standards of prejudice and inequality. You are even worse, if you sit by passively and victim blame!

There is no way, we will ever reach our potential as the great and industrious people we are meant to be, because we sit and watch passively, when domestic violence, child abuse and mob violence flourish in our communities; behind closed doors, in broad daylight, and in front of our progenies.

Let's stop being facilitators of pain and misery, and be enthusiastic about civility, compassion, and equality, instead of looking for new ways to perpetuate cycles of hate, bigotry, discrimination and prejudices.

People were railing this woman for telling her story, instead of celebrating her and her bravery.

A culture of testimonies has made it normal for people only to share "good news" for feel good factor, people are making up nonsense, to reinforce their lies and exploit, so, now people get shamed into suffering in silence.

Countless are suffering in fear, they should and "need to" see this as a cautionary tale, instead you're all forming Bible studies nonsense, and telling her to be humble and go and look for reconciliation...

Are you for real?! Reconciliation is not in form of a body bag or a casket! Heaven helps those who help themselves. Love, marriage, having a family, none of these things should be a life sentence to misery, injury, paranoia and depression.

I pray you find strength Ma'am and make a swift recovery, may you and your children find peace and help, and may you be comforted and strengthened.

Please, lawyers and authorities, this is your responsibility, these are the people who's lives you can make a difference in, her children are those you can inspire, you can be a force of good in her journey. Fight her corner!

Anonymous said...

All these Edohor.. Edubor... Edo whatever..... Women should be wiser.

Alot of Men these days are really terrible

Anonymous said...

This story got me really sad as the said man is a relation and its even our family that is prosecuting him. I pray she finds the strength to pull through. One thing I know is justice would be served eventually esp with help from good folks that read this.

Anonymous said...

The African way of doing marriage can be so undermining for women.

When you sit at home waiting on a man to give you money, how can you not be destitute when he throws you out?? At least in the western world, a man will think twice about hitting his wife.

That is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, which stays on your record for life, and can keep you from finding a decent job.

A smart wife, who is also a stay-at- home mother, should be saving money for herself.

Not for anyone else but YOURSELF and you'd be stupid to tell ANYONE else it. Friends and parents alike.

All that money some women spend on parties and aso-ebi when you yourself don't have a job is pure nonsense.

Judging by the age of child #1, this lady had at least 10yrs in the marriage before getting kicked out. If she'd been saving money during that time, life would have been a little easier.

As for the man, sue him to court. Stop answering calls from people who are not on your side. Stop talking to people without your best interest in mind. Get your neighbors on your side to watch out for you. Change your church if you have to.

Find and associate with people who will support you during this difficult time.

Your ex should be forced to pay your medical bills and support you FINANCIALLY during this time. Even if he has to sell his own assets to do so.




***Lush

Married man said...

It's wrong to hit a woman. If you cannot cope with the situation, simply walk away.

Anonymous said...

Separated ... she's free to have relationships

Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin said...

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Joyous Babe Lindaikeji First Cousin said...

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Anonymous said...

Juliet...Perhaps women should start raising decent and respectful/respectable young men. Men don't just emerge wicked, stop with the "diminished responsibility" nonsense, you're perpetuating the culture.

Iphie Abraham said...

That man is a beast. He thought she wouldn't cope without him,now she's got her life back and he can't stand it. I hope he pays for it










Lib addict#just passing#

Zibah said...

Make sure ur male cousins destroy his face and really fuck his life up, destroy all he got and soooooooo fucking make sure u slam him real hard so so hard. I know how it goes been in an abusive marriage. Fuck the dude up, if u need someone to follow and beat him call me.

Anonymous said...

Linda I wish you can update your blog so people can either like, dislike a comment. Rily love some comment made here and to encourage people to contribute meaningful to a topic

Anonymous said...

Zenith bank should fire him animal.plus which one is bail. He attacked someone police dont know their work at all.

Ed Lyn said...

Spot on.๐Ÿ‘Œ

Thelma Black said...

Lord please, when im eventually ready to get married. Please i beg you, give me someone who will respect me and be my best friend. Amen.

Anonymous said...

ZENITH BANK SHOULD SACK THIS MAN. I CAN BET THIS GUY WILL BE ONE OF THOSE WRONG EMPLOYEE OF BANKS.

NO MATTER WHAT A WOMAN DOES, YOU DO NOT BEAT HER!!!

dee boi said...

Police will def release him wen they get their regular egunje. U made a mistake by allowing to come to ur house after the separation. A beast will always be one,no matter how many times he pretends. I wish u quick recovery... dee

Anonymous said...

Zenith bank..take note. Fire him please. Any staff that has that power should please see to it. Woman, please join Female in Nigeria on Facebook (Fin).

Anonymous said...

Your comment is stupid, backwards and reductive. Insinuating that she's deserving of domestic violence, because she dared to carry on with her life, makes you reprehensible.

Anonymous said...

Zenith Bank should throw out such a beast.out of their organization. Where is justice in Nigeria, i have lost word for Nigerian police. Linda pls assist and escalate this heartless incident until the relevant authorities step in.

Auxy Said So! said...

I hope Zenith Bank Fired that Maniac if they didn't then they are psychopaths too. So Sad! Sanity is scarce in this country. Linda adopt me Nah... I am your birthday mate.

Anonymous said...

Is having a boyfriend now a criminal offence. Your wife isn't your property abeg, men should learn to deal with rejection just as women do often.

Vivian Reginalds said...

chai people suffer o
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

Anonymous said...

This guy is an MBA 2 student at OAU. I am so dissapointed.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said.......

But let's think of it! Is ivie being truthful?

I have lived with her before and she knows how to fabricate lies.

Why did she not tell the world how she went about borrowing money from people that led to her exit from her husband's house?

Why did she refused to tell the world the name of the boy friend whom she went to a hotel to pass the night with whose name is Matthew Agbaire he work with Centrix, design and Building

Contractors with the following phone numbers 08066087998, 08125095075.

What function was she coming from at that time of the night(12a.m. in the morning) ? While the three small children where left alone at home with a small girl called help.?

I sincerely think you guys need to hear from John before concluding.

Anonymous said...

Anonymous said.......

But let's think of it! Is ivie being truthful?

I have lived with her before and she knows how to fabricate lies.

Why did she not tell the world how she went about borrowing money from people that led to her exit from her husband's house?

Why did she refused to tell the world the name of the boy friend whom she went to a hotel to pass the night with whose name is Matthew Agbaire he work with Centrix, design and Building

Contractors with the following phone numbers 08066087998, 08125095075.

What function was she coming from at that time of the night(12a.m. in the morning) ? While the three small children where left alone at home with a small girl called help.?

I sincerely think you guys need to hear from John before concluding.

Anonymous said...

There is this govt body called office of public defender. Take it up my dear and don't let him get away, when you see them in suit they look like decent human beings, but they are just wolve.

Eddy Ogbunambala said...

The man is a beast

Twingle Tangle said...

Are we sure this 'man friend is not the reason for their divorce? Women should not be evil. It's not easy to drive a man to do such things.

Anonymous said...

You're clearly unwell? None of the statements you've made, justify the violence this woman has endured. You should be investigated for being an apologist to the handy work of the mad man you're defending. You should be ashamed for trying to tarnish her reputation, even under these circumstances.

Anonymous said...

That's enough to break her legs ????? Can u create a bone ???? Shut up if u have nothing better to say

Anonymous said...

I don't think debt is an offense p urnishable by attempted murder. Even if she had a boyfriend after 2 years of separation what's the issue. Will she be the first to for a function.

I know the man and the wife. Especially after he put a shameless picture of himself and another woman having sex on Facebook about a year ago. I even know the woman in warri one Orezime Jockey of Mamaray. I believe the lady is also married too. She was the one John replaced his wife with when he kicked her out.

So where is the justification for the murder attempt on the wife because of debt? Or because she moved on.

The sickness a man.

Anonymous said...

I don't think debt is an offense p urnishable by attempted murder. Even if she had a boyfriend after 2 years of separation what's the issue. Will she be the first to for a function.

I know the man and the wife. Especially after he put a shameless picture of himself and another woman having sex on Facebook about a year ago. I even know the woman in warri one Orezime Jockey of Mamaray. I believe the lady is also married too. She was the one John replaced his wife with when he kicked her out.

So where is the justification for the murder attempt on the wife because of debt? Or because she moved on.

The sickness a man.

Anonymous said...

When did debt become an offense punishable by death.

One Angry Single mother said...


The guy is an animal!!!! how dare he beat her with a spanner. The mother of his daughters, he forgets he has a mother or sisters?? whatever she did, doesn't warrant the treatment. so what if she got back at 1.30 am, is she not entitled to move on... after 2 years of separation, she should just sit home with three young kids with no social life. The double standard fool wants to say, he has never stepped outside the door since he has been married. The minute his so called madam steps out, he feels insecure and jealous!!!! Did he really think, she would not move on??? I pray God fights this war for her. How can some one be sooo wicked??? Zenith Bank needs to get rid of this woman beater. Stingy bastard that is not even taking care of his kids. what a deadbeat loser!!!

Anonymous said...

When did debt become an offense punishable by death. If you saw your wife with another man after 2 years of seperation why not walk away.

The funny thing is I know the family and I know when the man moved on to an older woman that lives in warri. Orezime Jockey Mamaray company.

I also remember the man circulating a shameless picture of the Orezime Jockey and himself making love on Facebook.

Can someone tell me if he shouldn't be hung as the lady he was dating is also married with daughter.
Such an irony.

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Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 4:53PM shut up there! Is it only a woman's job to raise up men? It is the man and woman's responsibility to raise up male children. Let this stick into your empty brain. Lazy idiot

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 4:52PM you are a silly cow. So it is only a woman's job to raise up responsible male children? What happened to the husband that fucked her? What is his own duty? So his duty is just to fuck and eat food? He cannot train his own son too? You need brain surgery. Stupid goat!

Anonymous said...

Zenith bank should sack the man. They cant have such babric wicked fool working for them. He can hit a female staff too if care is not taken

Anonymous said...

Oh so it is okay for a man to move on and have a girlfriend without proper divorce but it is not ok for a woman to do same abi? Una don see as e dey pain abi? She is free to have a boyfriend. It is only marraige that she cannot do because the divorce is not through yet but as soon as the divorce is through, she can marry. But before then, she can have relationships because she is seperated. But na the man throw her out of his house na. So what do u expect her to do? Sit down like a widow and be begging for money? She has moved on with her life and the man should accept defeat. Afterall, he started it all.

Anonymous said...

Even if she doesn't come home for a year she doesn't deserve it..don't justify violence,don't be a bastard!!

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 11:17PM you sound like her husband hiding under anonymous to comment. Well let me respond to your comment:-
1) First and foremost, her husband had no right to hit her no matter what she did because she is not an animal or a piece of wood.
2) If she borrows money from people, that means her husband does not give her money for her upkeep. He is stingy and selfish.
3) She has the right to date any man or enter into any relationship of her choice because her husband throw her out of his house. You cannot expect her to remain single for the rest of her life just because she was once married to a man-beater. She has to move on with her life. The only thing she cannot do, is get married for now until the divorce comes through. So the woman is on the right path is you ask me.
4) If her husband refuse to accept her divorce proposal, the divorce will automatically come through after 5 years of seperation or after 5 years of filing for a divorce without a response from the second party. I am a lawyer and i know what i am talking about.

Anonymous said...

Marraige is not by force. You dont force it. Let it come naturally. If there is no more love, then there is no need for the marraige. I dont see love in a marraige of domestic violence. If she finds love and care somewhere else, then it is the man that caused it by pushing her out of the house.

Anonymous said...

Marraige is not by force. You dont force it. Let it come naturally. If there is no more love, then there is no need for the marraige. I dont see love in a marraige of domestic violence. If she finds love and care somewhere else, then it is the man that caused it by pushing her out of the house.

Anonymous said...

The woman no get family sef? She no get brothers? Make her family deal with the man. Make them break him legs too. Stupid man!

Anonymous said...

If she comes home at 12am, it is her house and it is her life. She is seperated and she has the right to live her life the way she wants it. Afterall, it is her husband that caused it by throwing her out. So he shouldnt complain. Say no to domestic violence!!!

Anonymous said...

I know the man very well and was aware when he kicked his wife and kids out. He openly started a relationship with an older married woman Orezime Jockey of Mamaray global foods. He even posted explicit photos of himself and d lady on social media. The Orezime lady moved in with him while his wife struggledv with 3 kids.

So why does he attack her if she decided to move on. He must be a very silly man.

Why didn't the husband of the Orezime Jockey a mother of one daughter beaten too.
Smh

Anonymous said...

Woman please change your house. Move to a new house that your husband or his people dont know about. Also change your children's school. If he wants to see his children, take them with security accompanying you to a neutral place like Mr biggs or a restaurant and meet there. If possible change your town. Move to another state or town. Afterall, he also threw his children out along with you

Anonymous said...

I thought the wife of the president, Aisha Buhari and Michelle Obama are currently in a conference in New york trying to tackle issues concerning women abuse and protecting the girl child? Please they should pass a bill into law fast because if a bill is not passed, domestic violence will not stop. They should also pass a bill against jungle justice too

Anonymous said...

Stupid man. You threw her out. Then another man picked her up and dusted her. You saw her as trash by throwing her out but another man saw her as diamond and picked her up. Such is life.

Anonymous said...

John na u be that.... Hahaha. Fogerrit! U going down!!!!! Bush Meat๐Ÿ˜’

Anonymous said...

Really??? Are you God who passes judgement? So you feel cool now providing information of another man nobody asked you for? So because she borrowed money she should be killed? Was John not warned about Ivie before marriage? Where was he for the past two years when he threw them out and she begged for school fees? Didnt he say they should go to his mother in the village? Now she's picked herself and moved out her father's house he comes with area boys to disable her? why wait 2 years? Was he not displaying pics on Facebook of him and a woman? If you think it is allowed then let me pray, I pray for you that you will receive the pain she did in 100folds, maybe your legs and hands should be broken since you are human and you also fabricate lies. Beast that's what you are if you condone this.

Sam said...

The husband is irresponsible and lacks home training as far as i am concerned. You are the one that threw her out of your house, yet you are the one now complaining that she now has a boyfriend. What do you expect? Before nkor? Were you expecting her to wait for you that is a wife beater and monster? You need brain surgery if you think she will wait for you to come and beat her again. Idiot

Pascal said...

Notwithstanding, no matter what she did, he had no right to break her legs. Is he God that created her? Can he create bones? Rubbish!

Akinolu said...

He should control his temper. Men do worse things and women dont break their legs. #saynotodomesticviolence

Anonymous said...

Is there anyplace I can attach the photograph of him and the woman he was with after chasing ivie out? Cos i have it.

Anonymous said...

John Edobor or whatever they call your name, you are nothing but a beast in human flesh. You chased a woman away and your children for 2 years and in this 2 years you too was frolicking with women or were you a monk all these period. How did you expect your wife and children to survive and now you acuse her of moving in with another man. Was that the reason you almost killed her with some thugs with you? That action of yours was unmanly, uncultured and irrational. I have always said that instead of a marriage to result to this kind of violence or outright murder on either party, that marriage should be terminated because nobody has the right to destroy what he/she cannot creat. It is only God Almighty that has the power to create and destroy. My wish for you John is that you will never go unpunished for this attempted murder. What is good for the goose is also good for the gender. May God have mercy on you. Fooooooooooooool!

Anonymous said...

this guy look like some one i no back in the village, (okeksan by name.if non truth hummmm

Anonymous said...

He is the one. Okeikhan John Edobor

Anonymous said...

Send the picture to Linda Ikeji's email address. You can find this on the profile page of her twitter, instagram or blog

Anonymous said...

Oh so you were expecting her to sit down and wait for you for two years without sending money for the children's upkeep or school fees? The man needs to re-examine his brain abeg

Anonymous said...

If she was borrowing money here and there, is that enough reason to kick her out of the marraige? It is obvious that her husband is stingy and selfish that's why his wife was borrowing money up and down. What else will make a woman borrow money? The poor woman was suffering in silence with a self-centred husband

Anonymous said...

My dear, this is not the 1960 era of our grand parents when a woman will start suffering after her husband abandons her. This is modern time. Most women are now educated and they know their rights. If you throw them out or abandon them, they will just move on. Time waits for no one these days. The moment you let this stick into your brain, the better for you violent men

Steve said...

My dear, this is not the 1960 era of our grand parents when a woman will start suffering after her husband abandons her. This is modern time. Most women are now educated and they know their rights. If you throw them out or abandon them, they will just move on. Time waits for no one these days. The moment you let this stick into your brain, the better for you violent men

Anonymous said...

I know you will ot post this Linda. Ask Ivie, who Justus Ukwade is? This is a mother of three that sleeps round and hang around men of questionable wealth. She has the guts to bring a men into her matrimonial bed and her husband finds out and does this. Not that I support beating one's wife, but she called it on herself.

Yoruba will say, "esinsin je elegbo, e soro. Ti elegbo ba nje esinsin, ema soro." (When the fly eats at the injury of the injured, you don't complain. Now that the injured decides to eat the fly, una come dey shout).

Hiannnnn......

Anonymous said...

You must be really lame. Matrimonial bed my foot. An apartment she got for her kids and herself after 2yrs of seperation. You must be a wife beater yourself. Where Otis it said that a woman must sit down and wait for a dead beat husband after 2 years seperation. If anyone brought a woman on to their matrimonial bed it's John now we all saw it on his Facebook page. Linda don't worry we will send you the picture of John and his old hag mistress on their matrimonial bed.

He is a beast and should be punished.

And you did anonymous above the man in question Mr J is her brother in law that took care of she her children and her debts when the dead beat husband kicked her out with 3 kids.

Wake up and small the coffee.

Sandra said...

You are a fool. You beat her and the man at the gate before her landlord came to rescue her. How did the man enter matrimonial bed? Abi has gate now become matrimonial bed? Was it not at the gate that you beat them up? Thank God her landlord was a witness. Even if you found her with a man on a matrimonial bed as you claim, you still had no right to break her legs. I wish the judge gives her ex-husband 10 years jail term to teach him a lesson. Stupid babaric man

Anonymous said...

Matthew my guy I beg ride o! But you for share with us, you only do your thing codedly. The babe is a beautiful woman but be careful o! You know you have your wife children too. It would have been better if you allow single and searching guy like me to handle her.

........Austino.

Anonymous said...

Sent to email

Anonymous said...

John you broke ivies leg and refused to pay the hospital bills. You haven't paid your children's fees in over 2 years. You dont even know how they feed or live And you have mouth to talk. Remember your mother still walks on her 2 legs and Those ugly sisters of yours too. How would you feel if all 3 of them had thier legs broken just like YOU BROKE ivies legs? Think about it. The law is going to deal with you for attempted murder. You open ur mouth and speak of her brother in law who had mercy on her and helped her and YOUR children, how ungrateful can you be? The same brother in law you are expecting to help you pay ivies hospital bills? You are worse than an animal,nothing but a lowlife loser. I advise you to shut your mouth and think of how to get your stupid self out of the mess you have created and stop talking.

Anonymous said...

Please ivie invite us for the sentencing!!! And the after party. Next time u see woman u go run. Bush Meat๐Ÿ˜’

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha. No be small. To enter woman problem na de greatest danger for man o

Human rights lawyer said...

Ivie please charge this man to court immediately. I am interested in this case

Anonymous said...

Okekian why shud u do such a tin. Remeber dat u have three sister ooh. One good turn deserve anoda. Am ashamed of u guy. Ur body never still cool down. All the yeye tinz u did at ambrose ali university ekpoma, na im u still carry enta marriage. Ladies always pray before getting any marriage oo. I no dis too well, we grew up together at esan south east ubiaja edo state.

Anonymous said...

Amaka you are very unwell and dangerous. After sleeping with John that was not enough for you. I pity the women that marry those sons of yours. You are wicked woman and that is why your husband divorced you. Wicked soul!

Anonymous said...

This is Amaka and her wickedness on this blog. Tarnishing a poor woman's reputation. God will purnish you!

demolaoo7 said...

That man must really be a monster

Gabi Gbagi said...

I knew it would get to this. This couple accused me wrongly of something I know nothing about in 2010 which caused me to sleep in the police station and at the end, we sensed that John was looking for a way to ditch his wife. I almost petitioned the inspector general of police making mention of the false accusation and arrest without proper investigation. Mind you, prior to the case, I had never seen any one of them, only for me to start receiving threat calls from the husband (John) few days before then. How he got my number still remained a mystery. I told them then that My God will disgrace them both and look at how God had disgraced them both nationally only 6yrs down the line. Immediately I saw him (John) I sensed in my spirit that he was not a good person only for me to find out that he lived on cases as a student in AAU then doing all sorts of indecent things to survive.
Well, when you touch whom God has blessed, this is what happens to you. FACE THE CONSEQUENCES. As for you Ivie, I wish you quick recovery

Gabi Gbagi said...

I knew it would get to this. This couple accused me wrongly of something I know nothing about in 2010 which caused me to sleep in the police station and at the end, we sensed that John was looking for a way to ditch his wife. I almost petitioned the inspector general of police making mention of the false accusation and arrest without proper investigation. Mind you, prior to the case, I had never seen any one of them, only for me to start receiving threat calls from the husband (John) few days before then. How he got my number still remained a mystery. I told them then that My God will disgrace them both and look at how God had disgraced them both nationally only 6yrs down the line. Immediately I saw him (John) I sensed in my spirit that he was not a good person only for me to find out that he lived on cases as a student in AAU then doing all sorts of indecent things to survive.
Well, when you touch whom God has blessed, this is what happens to you. FACE THE CONSEQUENCES. As for you Ivie, I wish you quick recovery

Anonymous said...

Part 1

This Ivie lady has such a coloured past. A very long history of lies, lies and many more lies. She pretended to be married when she worked with in Econet (now Airtel) at the call center. With one story after another, she borrowed money from all of us and never repaid. We donated money for her "so called pregnancy" medical bills. Her tummy was growing daily before our very eyes. Her water even broke in the office. Guess what at the end of the day we found out she was never pregnant and the man she claimed was her husband came to say he was never married to her. Econet disengaged her because her lies were found out.
I'm not sure her husband, John even knew about this because it was way before he met her. She was similarly thrown out of Stanbic for other sharp practices.

Last I heard she owes a multitude of people over N50 Million. I hope she is paying her debt with all the monies she is getting from all this public support. She has caused her many creditors a lot of heartache.

What broke the marriage was all this debt. Creditors were beating down their matrimonial home as early as 5 a.m. She could never explain why she asked for the money or more importantly what she used it for. John bailed her out as much as he could. She went as far as borrowing from his colleagues and stealing his zenith customers numbers from his phone and contacting them directly asking to borrow money and asking them not to tell John. John was forced to pay back the monies she 'borrowed" from his colleagues and customers in order to save his job.

Anonymous said...

Part 2
A month after the separation, she claimed she was pregnant with twins. Poor John was then ready to reconcile. Somewhere along the line, John found out that she had a long term lover MATTHEW AGBAIRE. They both went for counseling at St Dominic’s Church. John was ready to forgive for the sake of his children as the Church advised his only caveat was that DNA must be done on the pregnancy to ensure it was his. DNA can be performed on a pregnancy! It is believed that Ivie was not too sure so herself and Matthew terminated the pregnancy. She later claimed she had a miscarriage at almost 6 months.
Matthew Agbaire is her nemesis. She can’t seem to do without him. He has the looks and he sabi the thing!
Ivie and John still despite all that had happened, attempted reconciling at the beginning of the year. She helped John move into his new abode where they were eventually to move into as a family to start afresh in a new part of Lagos. John was spending time sleeping over at her place too. Only for that un-fateful night brought about by the innocent phone call of a child to her father, that they were alone at home with the young relative house help of about 13 years. I believe the oldest of the 3 girls is about 9 years old.
Unbeknownst to Ivie; John was in the house with the kids when he called her and she said she was at home and that the girls were sleeping. He decided to stay outside and await her return, to once again catch her in a lie. By John’s account, Ivie and Matthew drove in way after midnight. Of course a fighting match ensued between husband and wife. Matthew Agbaire, a married man with 2 children, stepped in as the gallant boyfriend. A fight ensued between the 2 men. Matthew who works with Centrix Construction was the one who brought out the crowbar from his car to use on John. Ivie stepped into the mix and got hit during the scuffle. People around stepped in to restrain all parties. Ivie opted to be taken to the hospital by her loverboy Matthew Agbaire.

Anonymous said...

Part 3

To date all Ivie's medical bills have been paid. She never needed financial help from the larger society for her bills or for her kids. John pays school fees and has receipts. So all of you donating to her “cause” are being duped. You are just continuing to feed her incessant and dangerous need for money. What she does with it nobody ever knows. Its free money for Ivie, left right and centre. Christmas has come early for Ivie.
Ivie use it to pay all your many creditors please and for once think of your children. What you are doing to them by destroying their father’s life, is it fair? Will they really forgive you for they will one day know the truth!

Ladie Beckie said...

Go and look for John Edobor on face book and read his own story with evidence. This woman is just smartly playing the victim here

Ladie Beckie said...

If you want to hear the full details of the story go to face book and search for John Edobor. He has his story well prepared. Women always like to play the victim of circumstances. May God help their marriage. That woman though... If all he said about her was true then she's a disgrace to motherhood. Marriage was never a bed of roses. But apparently she went in with the hope of going into a fairytale. Mtchew nonsense. Now the poor man's children will think their daddy a monster.

Anonymous said...

My dear,this is bad, but for other women who may find themselves in this situation, it is safe to wait for the divorce to be over before you start bringing men in. After all all men are thesame. They just use us. Then they go for the next victim. We women should learn to respect ourselves.why is he angry when you say he sent you packing. Na wah.

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