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Saturday, March 26, 2016

Ladies, what would you do if you get a message like this?

Respect yourself & stop calling at odd hours or report her to her husband-to-be? See the rest after the cut..


156 comments:

Bukas Vlog said...

Lol.
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Ichebi Christian said...

Ion get it

Anonymous said...

I did same to one stupid gal dat calls my husband @ odd hours too!

Adaobilinda her sexcellency said...

Orisirisi things I see. Fiance n already warning someone. she should stop calling him jare. Make him dey call her not her calling him

Godswill mabilo said...

So true.some ladies think with their Anus

AQO said...

Why would I call another person's man at odd hours? I can't even take that.








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vinna saviour said...

Me sef lack wat to say...but his not yet married to her wat right does she ve to pick his calls?

Chidozie Bruce said...

You Stop stop callin' den

Anonymous said...

Why would she be calling another mans husband at 10pm too?its not right.whatever it is can wait till the next morning except if it is an emergency and that doesn't happen everyday.

Debbie Chelsea said...

She should just do what the fiance said, stop calling at night, she doesn't like it period

cheltreacy said...

D message mean no harm. So?

Uju Phil said...

Calling constantly at wee hours is a bad idea. But insecurity is a plaque. #Balance

omoh samuel said...

Well I tink it's ok for her to do dat!tho I won't

yvejohn said...

She should stop calling,its as simple as that.why will she be calling him at that time?oloshi.some girls will be pretending to be just a family friend, but deep down,they want to devour and destroy. Barawo

Billionaire Wife luxury lifestyle said...

Am sure someone send this message to Linda

Daniel Pam said...

Adjust, of course!...

Long live the Queen...
(Linda Ikeji)...

joestar4sho said...

Respect yourself and stop calling at Odd hours. But the Fiancee sef need to chill. Man never marry u, u don start to quarrell with him family friend. The woman is either a very jealous lover or a control freak.

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Well... Thats a wake up call.. lol

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Anonymous said...

Please who is going to bless me with like 5k for the easter,I don't have a hope of feeding that day at all to God who made me. still struggling with life. happy easter to you all.
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Edem victor said...

Call during the day or better still if u prefer night, text..

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Benefit said...

I won't say anything oo, but am sure I will still call back by 10pm just to make alot of trouble or rather will call by 12 instead

Benefit said...

I won't say anything oo, but am sure I will still call back by 10pm just to make alot of trouble or rather will call by 12 instead

ONYX linda ikeji first son GODWIN said...

Report to the husband. She has no right to dictate who should call him at any time

Ivy Godspower said...

Just respect ursef as the lady said









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Saheed Abiola as Cooldude. said...

Simple nd straight forward. Respect urslf as she adviced #shikenan

Ogenah Boris said...

Apologise and never call at that time again

linaluv said...

I will definitely respect my self by stop calling @ last hours.

Anonymous said...

You too stop calling him at that time of the day.


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Ndubisi Tochukwu said...

All this family friends wit mutual benefits.

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Peace Alfred said...

Respect yourself..must you call @ night? Some pple don't use common sense

oluwa andy said...

Their business

Anonymous said...

Why report, why call at late hours, please let her respect herself and call during the day, if not it would be an habit.

oluwa andy said...

their business

Hunny Lee said...

I would 'jejely' respect myself...

opeyemi joshua said...

Just respect myself and stop calling at odd hours. Shikena

Andy Ebhomhan said...

Over to the ladies

Anonymous said...

I'll simply respect myself and stop calling at odd hours

Yes, I Said It said...

Mia, this is how you respond, apologise for calling at ungodly hour and promise not to repeat such.

Don't make it an habit of calling people at ungodly hours except it is an emergency. Whatever you want to discuss can wait till morning.

DJ Cnior said...

Women and their worries

pastor Joshua Bamisaye said...

Oga ooh she should just take her time sha

Anonymous said...

Lol is simple dn't respond and dn't call at odd hours...I mean put yourself in her shoes.

Anonymous said...

You brought money head and not husband head Linda.... Lol..

bukky said...

Will just ignore

Zenki Moye Asek said...

The msg is simple enough.


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Ibekwe Chidimma said...

I support the lady . Stop calling at odd hours except is urgent.

SongsOfSUSSAN said...

The guy is in deep shit. If the lady is not careful, their marriage will not last because most guys hate possessive ladies.

udeze obumneme said...

Me no ladies o

Merit Dike said...

Respect yourself and stop calling at odd hours,you can the guy too

Agbonghale Debby Usiaho said...

Why should she be calling at odd hours if her intentions are pure, I don't buy this family friend bullshit joh

Anonymous said...

Respect urself and stop calling at odd hours.

livingstone chibuike said...

Some ladies can b funny

Adenike Bamigboye said...

Why will I be calling at odd hours too

Anonymous said...

This is t fiancée's way of saying "back off bi***h! Lol! Sisi stop calling at 10pm family friend" or not. Don't reply and respect her wishes others you will soon stop being a "friend"

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Jude Akinwole said...

Lobatan! You just jejely respect yourself and call at even hours o!

Pearlie said...

Tell the guy and stop calling at odd hours

Anonymous said...

i'd respect her and leave the man alone. the fiancee is right in being concerned about another woman always calling her man at such odd hours, but she should have spoken to the man about it.

Anonymous said...

Please who is going to bless me with like 5k for the easter,I don't have a hope of feeding that day at all to God who made me. still struggling with life. happy easter to you all.
Petsuri@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

Please who is going to bless me with like 5k for the easter,I don't have a hope of feeding that day at all to God who made me. still struggling with life. happy easter to you all.
Petsuri@yahoo.com

Jamila Shaibu said...

Hian!! Na wa ooo

christie benjamin said...

Ignore or stop callin'

Anonymous said...

Respect myself. That Miss A is shameless.

JOHN MILES said...

What it means, leave someone husband alone, go look for yours, Fuck girl!

Odibe Blessing said...

Lolz dis one nah better warning,I wil kukuma respect her wish,after all I'm not getting married to d man...

Pretty face said...

Hmmmm

Anonymous said...

I don't see anything wrong in that message!! Infact, she was polite enough and obviously tried not to be rude. Because of the kind of person i am, i would not send that warning to anyone.i wld rather my fiance call her and and make it stop.i have been in her shoes like 2 times!! Lol
Hubby knows i'm not the kind of person that complain alot. But when i do he knows his cup is way too full. Lol!!!

Anonymous said...

Report her to her husband because you never can tell. Someday she might send that silly message to an important buisness partner of her husband and that can cost a big damage to her husbands buisness.

adefunke Cynthia said...

She's so rude n insecure wil help her fry her own pepper

Hephzibah Okeke said...

Ignore her and don't report. Just let it go , unless you have feelings for the guy.

Chidinma Eze said...

Nne pls stop calling at odd hours. its disheartening to see a lover of yours receiving calls from the opposite sex at odd hours. Abeg respect ur self.

PrettyChi said...

I will just quit d relationship

Uduak Etim said...

My dear please go ahead and RESPECT YOURSELF!. If you've been innocent, you would see something wrong in what you are doing instead of getting defensive.
Report her for committing what crime exactly? As far as this looks, the fiancee was very polite. People have lost their relationships n marriages to their blood sisters/relatives in broad daylight talk about a family friend who creeps at night. What kind of family friend issues always crop up after 10pm that cant wait till the ff morning? Why try to mess his head with your own voice late at night before he goes to bed? Troubles are always easy when you're on the giving end but never when you're on the receiving end.

Uduak Etim said...

My dear please go ahead and RESPECT YOURSELF!. If you've been innocent, you would see something wrong in what you are doing instead of getting defensive.
Report her for committing what crime exactly? As far as this looks, the fiancee was very polite. People have lost their relationships n marriages to their blood sisters/relatives in broad daylight talk about a family friend who creeps at night. What kind of family friend issues always crop up after 10pm that cant wait till the ff morning? Why try to mess his head with your own voice late at night before he goes to bed? Troubles are always easy when you're on the giving end but never when you're on the receiving end.

Olaaliu said...

She should respect herself and stop calling at that hour too.. Simple
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Okuru Bennett said...

It is a VERY, VERY IMPORTANT LESSON for you to LEARN that there are ODD HOURS for you to call people, irrespective of the RELATIONSHIP!!!
When such calls come at odd hours, of course one understands, it could most certainly be an EMERGENCY ONE!!!
THAT IS PART OF EDUCATION!!!
However, with advent of FREE NIGHT CALLS, people think they can abuse such!!!
For every free thing, there is always a disadvantage, abuse or a price to pay!!!

Neneh Diallo said...

Well ,it depends on who the parson really is to you for me I won't reply,

Anonymous said...

Respect yourself, no need to report anyone, simply respect the fact that he has a significant other in his life now. It is that simple. You sef, do they forbid you to call him during the day? Khian!!!

Ifeyinwa Oputa said...

yes let the girl too respect the guy's fiancé by not calling at odd hours. Personally I think it is the height of disrespect calling a guy or married man after 8:30pm who is not your brother, fiancée, husband or father! Unless it is an emergency and it can't wait until the next day, then pls do the honorable thing and keep your fingers from reaching for the dial. That is how these thirsty thots be catching feelings thinking cos they can call a guy at anytime, means something is up. Bloody idiots!

Posh Queen said...

Respect yourself and stop calling at odd hours.

Anonymous said...

Will free my friend till a more convenient time depending on the reason why I was calling or wait for a family gathering shebi I be family friend ?? Bfr acid reach my face loll

Vela said...

That's if am dating him. I would stop calling and try to hear 4rm him b4 taking out any decision.

Vela said...

That's if am dating him. I would stop calling and try to hear 4rm him b4 taking out any decision.

daniela desmond said...

Well she shouldn't be calling him at odd hours, only side chics do that...unless the dude is playing both of them. The lady was even nice enuf to say she could call during the day, and the shameless girl posted it online... Mcheeew!

Anonymous said...

On Point ...i do not appreciate people calling my woman at odd hours either, except family.....

Anonymous said...

On Point ...i do not appreciate people calling my woman at odd hours either, except family.....

favour onyekwere said...

Hen make she self stop to de call for nite..buh d fiance kala gan,they neva marry her she don de strict if dem marry her na 8pm all female family member go fit call be dat

okunlola seun said...

Kindly oblige!

amaka Agatha said...

I will respect myself.

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okechukwu jessica said...

If she's a supposed fam frnd, why wud she be calling @ odd hours? Respect urself nd call @ d appropriate time!!

okechukwu jessica said...

@least, d message is respectful Enuf..m

Akanbi Vera said...

Will ignore the message

Akanbi Vera said...

Will ignore the message

tracey411 said...

Just ignore or if u wish to reply u could just apologise as long as u not guilty

Anonymous said...

She should stop calling. E no go pass money or prick wey she dey find. Dem no fit dey discuss any beta thing by that time.

tempo said...

The woman na sharp dog, aja one.. lol

sean eko said...

lmao.... shes must be very stupid.... the fiance is even more stupid for giving her access to his phone.....

Anonymous said...

which one is family friend again? Sister respect yourself and stop calling at odd hours

September27..... said...

Please hunnay,respect yourself.

Iphie Abraham said...

Nothing,d message is polite. I will. Gladly obey









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Anon said...

Na wa o...I go respect myself jeje o...achorom nsogbu

Sylvia said...

Its clear she is not ok with ur relationship with her man... She feels it's more Dan family friend gist..... ND she could be right.... My advice....watch ur steps... ND Mk sure u are a family friend indeed....

Alma said...

Yea av been in the senders shoes before, calling my hubby @ 11pm, what happened to calling him @ day time? Nice msg.

Anonymous said...

Of course stop calling at odd hours!!!!! She's been upfront honest and polite enough to send you this message. She's just laying down some barriers. Why do you keep calling your 'family friend' so late at night??? He has a fiancé now and that's typically the time they would really be together so why are you interrupting. Like she said call during the day when normal people do! The fact you have a problem with her message tells a lot. If you were a good person you would have responded telling her her wish is noted and you meant no harm by your actions rather than bringing it to a blog to ask a daft question.

Anonymous said...

Very daft question madam! What is so urgent you need to call late at night???? What's such a big deal in you calling your family friend during the day? Better wake up and smell the coffee. Whatever relationship you had with him has changed now he has a fiancé. Deal with it and respect his girl's space. Family friend oshi

SHE said...

Hmmmmmm, fiance even not wife. if is me,l will report it as scam Lol

ahabike daniel said...

Word

anyanwu.Bigman said...

she will remain unmarried for ever

Mayberry said...

Gbam!!!
It's only a warning,so u repect ur self.
Edobabe#replinda#

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mimi.amsterdam said...

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Chris Chidebe said...

Very polite










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Di Mateo Xavie said...

Jejeli oblige her request

Demmy said...

Hmmmm is ga ju! Insult aye! Me dnt chew more than I can swallow so I dnt know what I'ld say or do in dat situation.

Anonymous said...

Well......Stop calling at odd times and call at normal time as stated or text instead. I personally do not pick calls anything after 10pm, except for my family which rarely happened.
And this is how to reply: Hello ......, I am sorry to have caused you to be worried about my late calls to ......., after a long day at work and coming home to do some house chores etc, I find this time okay to make calls to my family and friends. I promise it would not happen again, please accept my apology.

Thank you,

Miss A

cynthia kama said...

Why will you be calling someone that is not your bæ at odd hours? Unless it's an emergency I don't think It's right.






Okbye.

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Anonymous said...

She should respect herself mschew

chioma jacinta said...

Omo see Gobe! * its well*

Ogbukwa Blessing said...

That odd hour call won't make sense at all I will react the same

Anonymous said...

I would stop calling at such odd hours. Nigerians need to understand phone manners. You do not call people at odd hours of the night except in an emergency. It just isn't right. At best you can send a text message if you have to and must. Otherwise leave the call till the following day. Except of course if the person is your husband or wife, Gf or Bf. Period.

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Chinedu Mgbemena said...

Mind ur fucking business

chommy said...

Stop calling. Linda observe!

Chika Tina said...

The lady won't be this polite next time. Biko stop calling at odd hour and give them some space. The text was simple.

Anonymous said...

What has that got to do with your hungry life? A husband doesn't define one. Sorry, looks like your husband beat you again and you are mad about others independence. Get a life

Juliet Iwuno said...

Wetin come concern us??? Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

You should respect the name of God Faith, I sent you 5k today, you got something so just ask people to assist you nd not say you don't have hope! Take care nd God bless.

Yetty k said...

Of courde I wont respond at all.d lady dt sent d text is nice sha

Anonymous said...

Keep ur song to yourself! Na ur type dey sing music to other plp men @ odd hrs. Madam stop calling him, mind your business. Me have warned a lady before n he also asked her to stop.

Anonymous said...

NEVER EVER CALL OR TEXT SOMEONE YOU FIND AS A THREAT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE.IT'S THE MOST STUPID THING TO DO! JUST FACE YOUR PARTNER ONLY.
FOR THE REPLY TO THIS TEXT, I WILL SAY, HE NEVER COMPLAINS AND HE RETURNS MY CALLS AT ODD HOURS TOO. " EVEN IF HE DOESN'T".

Anonymous said...

if the hour is odd, why is the phone still on. People need to switch off their phones when if they think its beyond time to receive calls from outsiders. Secondly i think the fiancee is being rude to her soon to be husband by cautioning people on his phone. She ought to discuss her discomfort with the man and have him draw the line.

Daughter of Zion said...

I don't mean to sound harsh, do you belong to a church? Even if you don't you can work/ help someone on that day and I trust Nigerians they would feed you for the day. In the long term, think outside the box and find something to do, no matter how menial; Rome was not built in a day.

Anonymous said...

Best response I've seen here. I totally agree with you anonymous 1.25 pm.

Anonymous said...

You're obviously a home wrecker. It's clear you don't have respect for your partner, that's if you have any.

Anonymous said...

At anonymous March 26, 2016 at 5:26 PM, That is a stupid question you are asking as to the fact of why other people's phone is still on. If I want my alarm in the morning how would that be possible if the phone is off?

Anonymous said...

She shud put herself in the girl's shoes and make her decision from there

Funny Naija said...

could this be fashion or Nudity? C what a bursty lady wore.

Funny Naija said...

could this be fashion or Nudity? C what a bursty lady wore.

Anonymous said...

Oh please!So what-They are engaged to be married. What's wrong is wrong.

Mayreeh M said...

One thing is she is insecure. She doesn't want him to be interested in her at all by mistake because as a family friend, the whole family will support him if he changes his mind.

Mayreeh M said...

Fiance is different from boyfriend ooo

Mayreeh M said...

Fiance is different from boyfriend ooo

Anonymous said...

look at this way, the girl could actually be the guys girlfriend not knowing he is engaged or married. in order for the guys fiance not to be suspicious he tell her their just family. but the fiance has had enough and confronts the the girl,and this is how the girl finds out her so called boo has a permanent boo

Anonymous said...

lol

Anonymous said...

shut up u no b woman u b man,u bigot

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Anonymous said...

Apologise to a freaking fucking fiance, not even wife

Anonymous said...

Calling at odd hrs is wrong (If it's constant)

Calling him at odd hrs is actually none of her business!

Talking to someone (friend or family) like that from your husbands side is disrespectful & lame! Talk to your husband/fiancee instead.

Anonymous said...

She has no right as a wife you say? Children everywhere....

Stacy Anibuko said...

She has every right to pick his calls, if he gives her the right!

Stacy Anibuko said...

As in... simple and short!

chyyy said...

Hardship & unemploymt hv made some Nigeria ladies miserable & a cheap sex toys 4 guys. Some of them can not afford food without sleeping wth a guy, even if u are married they keep flashing & calling them in odd hours cos if they don't dash them or take them out, no food 4 them.

JAO said...

What's this Sean Eko saying? She should stop calling at odd hours, is that too much to ask? Peeps like you won't allow ur wife/gf's fone to rest.

tarila goldpin said...

insecurity why does the girl have your mans number?? and why did you not just talk about it with your man to tell her, why did you pick your man call?? are you married to him?? mumu do you know if thats his fiancée too women be acting too strange what if something is happening or shes a business partner and need to pass a message thats important??? what if your fiancée asked her to ???

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