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Friday, 26 February 2016

You're not God, you can't change a man- Benita Okojie tells women

As shared by the singer on her Instagram page...



92 comments:

Olaaliu said...

Of course ,I knw that already

ONYX linda ikeji first son GODWIN said...

Olodo...u can't change him? Yes u can! You can influence his demeanor so he can become a better person. And please calm down with the foundation!!

emeka ilouno said...

This small girl geh brain shaa o,,, nice 1 benita

Bonita Bislam said...

Not only Samson, Paul is a good example of only God can change a man.Don't mind them girls, in this life there are only two truths that remain constant.Off or on,Black or white,True or false.,

AbokiDaWarriBoy said...

Is she turning into pastor ne??? Just open church!

alan blessing said...

True talk...u can never change a man,unless he wants to change...

Uju Phil said...

Holy Spirit does the change not ladies,or any man! #Truth xo

El Fidel said...

She's said it all. oh ah..
Women are always busy ranting abt men:cheating on them..My question is:
Are they running after fellow guys? shebi na women dem d run after...

Women back to back

End time Worries
let me not say much

christiana christiana said...

Buti kinda support ha

Sge said d fuckn truth


#spritual

Anonymous said...

Oya tell us who Samson is....

NaijaDeltaBabe said...

Abi o


...merited happiness

rahila anni said...

Soo she wants to b a marriage counselor now or wa???? Ll u go and read ur books or sing a song. Change ko,buhari ni. Mtchewwww NEXT!!!!!

Mab said...

Hmm, it's rare but it happens

Y.F.C. Omrex said...

Noticed.

Anonymous Personified said...

She made a lot of sense.
You can't change a grown man.

Sylvia said...

Yes ooo... Buh u can influence d process of d change

Eric Nesty aka LIB'S FINEST said...

Okay. ..


#FINEST

BEKEE said...

Hian! Everyone wants to be heard diz days,what does this one know about men? Grow up first biko before u start studying men!

BEKEE said...

Hian! Everyone wants to be heard diz days,what does this one know about men? Grow up first biko before u start studying men!

Chioma Okonkwo said...

There is truth in it

voke dabonor said...

I concur.

favour ezeh said...

Just like that.Abi linda!

Teemah Salau said...

So true

otee elizabeth said...

Hmmmmmmm

Miriam Aguzie said...

I disagree with her#Lindangwanu#

Nseabasi Ekpo said...

well said

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Same applies to women.

. ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

ROYAL PRIESTHOOD said...

True talk!

Chop Chop said...

Seriously?

mycheezee.blogspot.com said...

I guess samson is her bf, she said the truth.

LINUX ALHASSAN said...

True talk

dee boi said...

All I see here is her over powdered face... dee

udeh martha said...

Are you sure Benita.

Anonymous said...

exactly. BEKEE read my mind. wetin Benita know about men. make she pack well.

ROYAL PRIESTHOOD said...

She looks lik Michael Jackson though I concur wit wht she said.

Racheal.reks said...

True...

ROYAL PRIESTHOOD said...

Oif u can not tolerate d character of ur partner pls don't marry or else OYO 4u.

Ohiren's Zone said...

Absolutely wrong my dear...God can use you as his child to change anyone & redirect them back from their demonic ways to the right part of life.Pls,be more matured in your reasoning & understanding of life in general.Most Women have been known(in recent & in time past)to have changed their spouses life dramatically in a positive way.

Juliet Iwuno said...

Hian! Benita of yesteryear, nna na wa o! Linda take note!

Anonymous said...

You can't teach an old dog new tricks..And yea only God can change a grown ass man..As for you faggot called Onyx, grow a brain while you at it olodo!

OSINANL said...

bleaching thingz...

Flakkie Chris said...

So you can say you're grown like this? Yet you're commenting on a blog like an imbecilic ape.
Na she tell you make you no get opinion? No be on top her personal instagram page Linda go tiff this thing come? Did she ask Linda to copy it?

Anonymous said...

U can comment without being insulting, thank u

Favour Nwachukwu said...

made a lot of sense

Leady said...

Nice 1

diuto said...

True talk dear

Anonymous said...

Benita u make brain

Anonymous said...

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just moa said...

True

Anonymous said...

Hmmm

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm

Oshios Baba said...

Cool

Prisca Chijioke said...

When did dis one start na?


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Olusweets said...

See how people are saying,"see Ben it a of yesterday ".Benita no be that pikin of yesterday, she should be in her late 20s by now,27/28....
She's got an opinion and you are asking ,what does she know?

What she said there is truth itself, not that God can't use anybody to change anybody but we all know what she's trying to say but we are looking at it from a different angle.

When a woman is in love, she shouldn't tell or make herself believe she can change a man (except God personally ministers that to you), if there are any signs the man is not the kind of person you want in your future, denounce him not and don't take him further into your future and DON'T ever think, he will change because you did him a favour of marrying him.
God bless us all.

E meglio sola che mal accompagnato!

Vela said...

U can change someone. Change is a personal decision and the holy spirit does the change.

Austin Eloka said...

Why are you contradicting your self? You disagreed with her, and you concluded by bringing God to it. It simply means that that change won't be possible without God. The summary is put God first.

Austin Eloka said...

Why are you contradicting your self? You disagreed with her, and you concluded by bringing God to it. It simply means that the change won't be possible without God. The summary is put God first. You haven't written anything different from what she wrote. People actually think it's by their power to change people but the truth is that it is only by God's grace.

Charles Okafor said...

Totally agreed.













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celena said...

Nt always true.

rhodajc said...

Everybody is just seeking attention now

vee said...

Apparently you as immature as I've always thought. Kid!

vee said...

Those women prayed to God for the change. They didn't go about it on their own and I don't think she meant that God would come down from heaven to change the person.

Mayreeh M said...

I concur 100% but God can use you to change a man. He won't come down from heaven to change the man, sometimes he uses us as agents of change in people's lives.

Anonymous said...

If a christian speaks bible sense he or she becomes "pastor" but if a muslim does same he or she is just a muslim... twisted ideology

Iphie Abraham said...

True talk,U can't change a man no matter what.










LIB ADDICT#just passing#

Anonymous said...

totally agree....thumbs up

Vivian Louis said...

U are becoming unbearable, plz stop feeling urself. What she said is 100% right. Face ur studies and quit insulting ur elders.

BEKEE said...

Ape, neither did I tell u to menstruate under comment. Go and die if e pain u

Pretty face said...

True talk

Anonymous said...

Please my fellow women...she is young and might not have the wealth of experience other ladies might have but let's not underate her. She is a growing lady and I believe that anyone can be used as a vessel to give help, depends on the point of view... Most men can change if their women encourage them positively and keep praying cos there is nothing impossible with God. Lets be positive and tolerant...pecks!!!

Anonymous said...

You can't change him you can only influence him.stop being insultive

#blessed said...

On point!!!! Like i responded Bekee, anyone could be wrong and anyone could be right for no one is perfect.I'm verily married for more than a decade and I believe in change cos I've experienced it not only in my marriage, but also in those I've counseled... I believe in change, I believe in being used as a vessel of change, I believe in God and his possibilities...

chommy said...

She is ryt. Linda observe!

Anonymous said...

It's still God.. still God.

Anonymous said...

U this dry bone dat looks like sumtin breeze will push to d ground... u r calling her olodo cos u have sense more than her bah?... sigh.. all u celebrities on blogs dat act like u knw it all... mumu dey worry u.. and influencing a change isn't d same as turning the person around...from her example I guess u will understand well..

Anonymous said...

Asin eee.. I dnt undstand how most of u on this blog reason.. thank u Chris.. u said it all.. and u bekee.. jst cos she was a child star doesn't mean she hasn't grown into a woman.. most of u Nigerians are soo dumb I can't deal..

Anonymous said...

Pple change cos they want to change and cos the holy spirit arrested them.. They didn't change cos of the influencer.. God uses pple, God still doesn't force anyone to change and become better.. if not we want have sinners..it's not every sinner in church dat goes out for alter call, even when u can Clearly hear the truth.. u see the signs and listen to the influencer.. it's left for u to do what u heard or dump it in the bin.. Everything in life is choice...

Adam Obute said...

True talk

Bertila Clu said...

Smilin......

Anonymous said...

Abeg, go siddon. Wetin you know or have experienced in life small girl.
Abeg

Anonymous said...

Must you use the "F" word?
Illiterate.

truth. hurts said...

Well said .......I agree with her 100%......no one can change anyone.....and love is not enough in marriage. ......

Anonymous said...

You are so stupid onyx aka Linda's first son. Anyway of course you won't understand the truth in her statement cause you don't know what it is to be in a relationship. Na only gay you know!

Vivian Reginalds said...

True
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

evy claret said...

Well said Mayreeh. God can use a woman to change a man. A prayerful woman is a powerful woman

Eva Da Diva...

Anonymous said...

Who is this fool

Ogbukwa Blessing said...

Hmmmmm

fun femme. said...

She's entitled to her own opinions...yadi yada yidi ho


That foundation tho...calm down

Adashu Tanko said...

Kip dreaming.. I pity u, beta concur to simple advise, agent of change koo, re-agent nii.. Mtscheew

Adashu Tanko said...

Kip dreaming.. I pity u, beta concur to simple advise, agent of change koo, re-agent nii.. Mtscheew

Anonymous said...

Dis fag is an idiot. I guess someone changed you to what you are today. Faggot oshi

Anonymous said...

Ode,you nko?

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