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Dear men, do you agree with this?

That's coming from a man. Do you guys agree with him...(let the argument begin...*sigh*)

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Anonymous said...

Try am na.. See how your life will be..

Anonymous said...

SO TRUE!! IT TAKES WISDOM AND A WISE GUY TO REALLY UNDERSTAND THIS SAYING!!!

Anonymous said...

taaaaahhh!!!! shuttup there...

Anonymous said...

huh??? abi thsts when you have literally dug up your grave.

3faya said...

ermmmmm,waiting for d argument to start *sips juice*

FIDEL MIO said...

I will not agree 2 dat,it depends on aw u handle ur family affair.4 me its a different dimension.

Anonymous said...

So who go control who?! This Bullshit is on an all time high.

hilary obiorah said...

Truth is if a woman is a pushover, she isn't much fun. If a woman does EVERYTHING you ask her to do without hesitation then for me that relationship is doomed, because it's tiring having a puppy for girlfriend/wife. A woman should have her own mind and mustn't do everything a guy wants especially when such wants are contrary to has. Every lady should be able to find a balance between being a pushover and independent.

omoke said...

I'm a lady! first to comment

Anonymous said...

Even d *Good one is written in a faint form, so d man must b high on mutafofo terata

Rector said...

a good one, bc listenin and understanding maks a happy family nt controlin or takin charge

PurelyP said...

Yes nahh! Its true! #hides from missiles#

Anonymous said...

Yes to an extent. Femmefatale

Anonymous said...

So far as she's not controlling me.

Aduojo Obaje said...

A woman should be guided not ne bossed, if she not willing then there Will Be no basis for the Relationship

Aduojo Obaje said...

A woman should Be guided not bossed, if she Is not willing then There Is no basis for a Relationship

Anonymous said...

Let d answers roll in!

Anonymous said...

he must ave his reasn 4 sayin dat. But i do agree, avin a gud woman doesnt mean u must ave control ova ha

KAHLAN said...

I agreee ...100% am a lady so I knw....~@amnel_kahlan~

babajide said...

First of all, who is this man that said this?
And by what standard does this philosophy come from?
I don't concur at all!
A man must be the head of the house and must control all affairs, including the wife's affairs.
If anything happens to the wife, who would be held responsible?
The wife was handed over to the man at marraige..........Common!

Anonymous said...

I wouldnt want to control my wife, but we both have to respect each other, its weird to think any man would want to control their wife, i mean how would you build an empire and marriage that is genuine?

Anonymous said...

I dont! Cant you see what is in his front?....he is speaking under the influence of the "GREEN" bottle .........................Emm-why said so

Anonymous said...

its just a dp not necessarily coming from a man. anyone cld have created the dp, man or woman. the message is as empty as good morning.

michael umeadi said...

So he's trying to say that women who are out of control are the best who the fuck is this dude?

Anonymous said...

He must b drunk

Anonymous said...

I was married to a controlling husband and it was hell, i left after 7yrs and 2 kids, a controlling man is an abusive man, he will eventually beat you up if you dont jump when he says so... Controlling men usually look handsome and cheat everyday but want a slave in doors

Anonymous said...

Men who want to control the woman are insecure men and are dangerous, they want a yes sir wife so they can chance her n she wudnt bat an eyelid.. They can go as far as bringing women to d matrimonial home n slap d wife if she barks

Pamela Brooks said...

yes

colinz bii said...

I swear na truth.... 1st to comment!

Anonymous said...

Men who think contolling their women is okay r werey men

Anonymous said...

Na controling men dey pour acid 4 their gfs n wives, na dem dey beat women n dey kill dem. sistas mk una run 4 ur lives if u see small sign say he wan control u

Anonymous said...

He's md upstairs...biko

scenty said...

Where are the guys say sumtin plzzz

Felix said...

Absolutely wrong,,,,,,,i guess the statement is meant for only him,,,

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Anonymous said...

HE IS A PUNK AND SMELLS PUSSY.

Anonymous said...

Dis is outright rubbish...... I totally disagree

Anonymous said...

No o,agree ke.He's a foreigner that's their believe over der nt here in Africa.

BONARIO NNAGS said...

And with that green bottle by his side,I doubt the mental state of the proponent of this theory.

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

Sommie E said...

1st of all the diction is flawed. The word control conotes negativity because Men actually should lead & not control their women.
Now, substituting control for lead in the above quote makes the quote wrong because a good woman should mostly follow her man's lead...

Anonymous said...

True

BLOGLORD said...

Hmñnnnnn.....

Anonymous said...

No no no. Though in a way your woman should have some level of authority.

JAYISM said...

I STRONGLY DISAGREE.

Anonymous said...

Nigerian men will NEVER agree.

Anonymous said...

No

Anonymous said...

Cheat on ur woman and get a bout of nagging,but cheat on ur beer and get millions of bubbling smile saying "welcome back.

missy said...

U know,Linda...I c u as a lion keeper n LIiBers (me inclusive,lol) as hungry lions..u hand down d meat(d story) n we pounce on it,tearin it into pieces,sometimes fyting ourselves in d process while u fold ur arms n look on *smh* dats y ud bring dis 1 for us to answer...Anyway sha,I agree with d dude,a woman worth keeping shud have a mind of her own.

Anonymous said...

This statement is not complete.

Anonymous said...

If u no fit control her she go control u nau,den u go become her first class mugu/maga 4 life

Anonymous said...

A

Anonymous said...

so not true @jus2incrediible

@umehoma said...

Story story. Na dis kind talk make me swallow frog

HATERS-SLAYER said...

oyibo woman and nigerian woman no b dsame,if u no control your woman she go turn u to house boy.im speaking from experience trust me guys. Oyibo oma nke na okur.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm!!! Me I disagree to this one o , because even the bible say's a man should have full control of his wife.so even if am not in a relationship I still no that men are to control there wive's or dat....

kinglordebus said...

that's shit statement :.very wrong

Anonymous said...

Its actually coming from wat he has in front of him

Anonymous said...

Really?

Dozie said...

You sef Linda tink am...what's good in something, or someone you can't control? Am sure that 't was a typo....

Rotimi Arogundade said...

Control is relative and it depends from which perspective one is looking at it. From my own point of view I want a woman who is strong willed with sound independent mind, a woman who is highly intuitive and not afraid of taking decisions thru the use of sound knowledge n initiatives but in all of these, she must be submissive to my headship but not in a subservient kind of way.

Any man who finds such a woman described above finds a priceless gem.

Anonymous said...

Yes oohh*dis guy dey talk true abeg*make guy learn abeg oohhh

Anonymous said...

Control? No one can control anyone.I don't agree.

Anonymous said...

men should not control a woman, we are not dogs. A man who feels he has to control a woman, is a coward and a bully, who lacks self- control. Most nigerian men fall into this catergory that why there is a lot of domestic abuse, which can maim a woman or cause death. Also most nigerian woman accept control, because they believe, they are being a good wife. Pure rubbish biggest mistake they ever made. Men are to love and care for their wives. Vise-visa.

Anonymous said...

No wonder marital break-downs has reached an all time high.

Anonymous said...

It really depends on both parties, but as an African man's mentality, its not true.

Anonymous said...

True

Anonymous said...

DUKE says.......
Based on mutual understanding, U shouldn't control ur woman, U should rather agree

Anonymous said...

100% correct! Men want women who have their own heart

jordan eniola said...

Dat just an edited pic, who said he said it.....jeez!!! #hovagodmc

Anonymous said...

A naija man will neva agree 2 dis

bbm pin 23491053 said...

Where is the good one, oh you mean the green empty bottle. That's ok for lazy poor men to control. But if you want to keep it cool, take a glass of champagne, smile to the bank and move the most expensive four tire wheels and see your woman and women, daughters and mothers, sisters and eX's respect you like you are their fathers and masters (god). Simple way to gain your respect. Cheers. Engr E.

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Anonymous said...

As a man, well I don't agree at all wif dat

Anonymous said...

Naaa! I don't agree!

Anonymous said...

He's drunk for chrissake!....once im eye clear,he will disagree wt him sef

Anonymous said...

You'd be making a mistake if you think you can actually control any woman.




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Nnenna said...

Any man that feels the need to "control" his woman is a bad man!#boobye

Anonymous said...

Very funny..

sumtin said...

Hmmmmmm.... I can't wait to read their comments... Men please say/write something, we ladies are waiting!!!!

Anonymous said...

yeah right, from a man drinking...

Anonymous said...

Whats that in his front?Beer?
He s under an influence no doubt

Anonymous said...

No man, I am a girl and I don't like guys who can't be in control! A man has to be a man

Anonymous said...

LOL linda see who u want us 2 agree wit. Guess he said dat wen he was drunk.... Cox I can sight a bottle of Alcohol on his table

Sunset said...

As a woman I just want to say that in a relationship, no one should control the other!!!! There should be MUTUAL respect! Above all, there should be love! All these control nonsense is something from the past and no one should be subjected to such!

soladunn said...

well lets have d opinion of them brovas

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Anonymous said...

the reason is because eve was not able to be controlled by Adam...he told her what God said...and she chose to do what she wants to do...this is the reason for divorce!!!

There should be a balance in everything...maybe the word shouldn't be control...wives should submit to their husbands...Ephesians 6:12

Anonymous said...

I disagree..I think the man is high..see dah green bottle beside him..

LadyGaby said...

Yup!

Anonymous said...

If you can't control your woman...you have found a VERY BAD ONE...WOMAN WEY YOU NO FIT CONTROL....YOUR LIFE DON SCATTER BI THAT....And na breakup things......

Bekongfe Samuel said...

Correct man

khemorah said...

Stfu! Dunce.

Anonymous said...

Very true my dear, ve bin in it n tws hell

Bekongfe Samuel said...

Correct man

khemorah said...

Shut up! Nobody is sposed to control anybody! Use ur brain! R/ship is partnership.

Bekongfe Samuel said...

Correct man

khemorah said...

Keep doubting! D smart ones know its true! Controlling is nt a needed element in a r/ship at all!!! Stupid men dah jst full dis Nigeria!

khemorah said...

Biko, keep quiet! Mr. English! Mtchew! The word control was purposely used!!!!! Cos most stupid men love to control dier women and dahs wat d writer meant! Controlling sm1 is jst wrong!

khemorah said...

Dahs why ya dull! Mtchew. (˘̯˘ )

khemorah said...

Shet up eee! Controlling sm1 means d person has no authority at all!! So u either agree or u dnt!

Anonymous said...

Lol u r a clown

khemorah said...

Illiterate!

khemorah said...

Stark illiterate!

Anonymous said...

Wait a minute dis man didn't say u hv found a good woman. He said "you have found a good one" So I think he means you'hv found a good agbaya, or u hv found a good grave 4 urself. Dats my spin on it. Ebe ano!

Yours Truly Blog said...

Very well said , Hillary!

Yours Truly Blog said...

lol

Anonymous said...

Bunch male poppin egos commenting.plz go ask ur pop he“ll tell u d beta.totally agree wt him.over the yrz men are seen as lords n gods of women bt funnily enuf,even d mst bravest,wittest n wisest of dem will alwz fall under d subtle bt powerful control of a woman.jst dt one woman,bingo!Unfortuntely to mst men,ignorantly tfink otherwise n dts y wen dey meet dt 1 gud woman,they end up abusin n makin themselves control freaks n beast.(forgettin dt control is a mind power game nt a fist sort of mastery)

Anonymous said...

Control is all about the male egos. Case in point look at some of the comments stated already on this issue by men. They are insulting the man for his statement, one thing i have noticed about nigerian men is that most have an ape-ish mentality. They are bullies, cowards, and wimps, the prefer women they can dominate. They are afraid of women that are strong and opinonated. Yeah Hate-slayer stop giving one-sided story, white women somes have the upper hand because they are in a sham marriage with a nigerian for green card or some other immigration papers. So some white ladies use that as leverage against nigerian men. i have several friends who are white, that are married to nigerian men. They are happy is can be with children. You see over here in the States women won't tolerate the babaric nature of some of the attitudes of nigerian men ( prison is very real for domestic abuse/ violence against women). This is why nigerian women need to stop their bickering/jealousy amongst each other, and Unite to form women rights organizations. Help each other, to stand up against violence (sisterhood). A good woman is an alive one not a dead one. Rise up my sisters

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha,na real green bottle

ONYX GODWIN said...

Ok ooo,marry maheeda,tonto dike,rihana,and cum tell us ur state of mind in d next 1year!yeye! *ONYX GODWIN*

Anonymous said...

Beht why will you wanna control another human in the first place...

Anonymous said...

Recipe for keeping ur woman: listen to her, f*ck her good, give her money, and let her know who's boss from time to time.

Ugoo Okafor said...

In other words, a good woman is one that's OUT OF CONTROL; or is IN CONTROL of you.
Issorait!

Anonymous said...

Ironical remark. Zion

Anonymous said...

Control is a negative word when applied to any form of human being, male, female or child. A controlling man is a dangerous man...

Control should be a no no in any relationship, home or work or school. Strive to LEAD and lead by example.

People read and digest English before you spew ignorance on social media. It tells a story about us to the world.

Anonymous said...

I bought a bottle of perfume from essenza shop rite Ikeuwa and it was 3000 more expensive at essenza than at Montaigne in the same mall,I went back to essenza 5minuites after and was refused a refund or discount,this really hurts and pls Linda publish this so other Nigerians don't get scammed,am so disappointed,I thought they had a reputation to protect obviously their only thoughts is to rip people

Anonymous said...

Haaaeeeey!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! U sef

NONSO NNOLI said...

Odikwaegwu....

Anonymous said...

So all u dude want to control ur women? Happy marriage then. But check it out if it was the other way round. (Laughing u guys in syria).

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

wisdom in display*smiles*

Anonymous said...

who asked you? Outdated!,,linda no dey do me bad tin na

Anonymous said...

I'm a woman, and I'm impressed by ur comment.

Anonymous said...

The bottle of alcohol in front of him says it all. He is drunk and out of his mind.

Anonymous said...

AM SO SURPRISED NO ONE NOTICED THE MAN IS DRUNK,WHEN HES SOBER HE COME TO THE REALITY!!!

OZZIE @Ozziefied said...

CANT YOU SEE THE WOMAN HE'S TALKING ABOUT WITH HIM, THE GREEN BOTTLE BEER HE MEANT

makasteve said...

Nah lie ooo for naija I tried it 1 day wit ma boo hmmm d rest na history lol

Anonymous said...

Woman shouldn't be controlled by men likewise men,everyone has a say and d right to air their opinion,and not always the man doing that.

Anonymous said...

If a man can't control a woman he has found a good one,if he is able to see someone that can not do all he wants,and has her own opinion

Anonymous said...

MEN, we are all confused, right?

Anonymous said...

In my opinion YOU can never control a WOMAN..Never!!! UNLESS she submits to your authority. If she doesn't submit forget it! The man is OYO. Because even if you beat her and scream at her one day she will rebel and nearly break your head.. Every Man should just pray for their wife to be submissive. You can't control her because she's not a DOG!!! She decides to submit to your authority as a man and walk with you or cooperate . ------- Sona

Anonymous said...

What fuck is dis dude is say, make una de do dat one 4 una country.

Anonymous said...

Dat caption is so right, my hubby can't control me, and I cnt control him either, we have a mutual understanding and respect 4 each other, we can never hurt each other or take each other for granted! I always pity women dat are always at d mercy of their hubby, ur man shld not control u, it is wrong!

Anonymous said...

My dear u have not seen some stupid men dat think they are god bcos they married u..

grace oni said...

Cheat on ur woman and get a
bout of nagging

Anonymous said...

U are so right

lasisi ramoni said...

kk

Anonymous said...

Lol...this is a euphemism. How can a guys on booze give a sound judgement. Very funny !!!

Anonymous said...

Dis iz rediculous,such a tin has neva occur in my generatn.linda post dis

Anonymous said...

So U think "good morning" is empty? Why not try RIP!!

Proxy said...

Make una leave am, he's regretin of wat he hs done, tryin to console his self.

Anonymous said...

Wot he means Is that men tend 2 mak wrong decisons SOoº° to hav a woman dt makes sure U̶̲̥̅̊ mak right decisions is a plus.....that said *Dame Patience* is an exception cos d woman's gotta hav sumfin upstairs. I mean hw cn U̶̲̥̅̊ be SOoº° ignorant n b a control freak at d same tym...eishh

bonita bislam said...

As untrue as dis sayin may sound,too bad its actualy true.men r naturally associated wt dominance whch meks dem most tym bullies.reverse d case to a woman,nd d equatn is balanced coz an acquired dominance(women) can neva overpower a natural dominance(men).instead it balances d scale of mutual understandin

OliviaSilk said...

I am sorry to say this Linda.. A greater percent of your blog visitors are illiterates,Cant decipher a simple English sentence and very immature.

Anonymous said...

True...hence havin a wife not scared 2 fight 4 her right n call her man 2 order averts shame frm d home

PAMELA ONYEUKWU said...

He speaks while drinking that buh dat doesn't mean he is under the influence already.. Think deep, he made huge sense. U dnt want to marry a puppet do u???

Ayodeji said...

Agree with u! Aint looking for a puppet as a wife,some1 dat will acknowledge am a boss but still has opinions.

guy bale said...

That Na fat lie Jo

Enyinnaya Emma said...

Wity saying......lol enyinnayaemma.blogspot.com

felix chisom said...

you guys are funny you didn't get what linda meant.It means if you can't control her,is just like the beer he's holding.

He's comparing them with a good strong beer

PAMELA ONYEUKWU said...

He speaks while drinking that buh dat doesn't mean he is under the influence already.. Think deep, he made huge sense. U dnt want to marry a puppet do u???

Anonymous said...

Yes, if his definition of woman is "woe man"(woe to man)but if not hmmm there's great danger oooo!!

Aroh Lyna said...

u jst hit d mace on d head u r so o point, evrywoman shud b able to strike dat balance

Anonymous said...

Eh Linda, the insecure Naija man will read this as something else. You know them na, you even hear them say "Guy, control your wife o". Naija man! Buhahahha, you have stripped some of them of their "birthright". The day some of you will wake up and realize that it is respect that will earn you a good wife, not control via beating, abuses and acid then we will take you seriously. Until then, most Naija men are subject to serious side eye until proven low self esteem less cause honestly we don tire for una rubbish.

Anonymous said...

Sommie, but you speak with so much sense. The saying meant control. Some of your counterparts mistake leadership for control. I hope in your home you are one of the few naija men with the sense to lead (we don't have those anymore like we used to). Now all they want to do is sit and gripe about how the world is against them.

Anonymous said...

Imagine telling your wife she's getting late for work and she says "shut up, it's non of your business". That's what not being able to control your wife turns her to.

Anonymous said...

I think women should be honest and really look into their husbands' eyes and say "I'd like to start calling the shots in this house". Women who are not under the control of their husbands are either witches or they're not in their husband's house. Lol

lucian doris said...

Just to add to Hilary's view, no man wants an 'ok, ok lady'. Men love challenges, a woman they can ague intelligently with. Men miss it when they feel they have to control. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Anonymous said...

Yes very true.

Anonymous said...

Interesting..pals please go to facebook, search for niche naija blog and like the page..thanks

Anonymous said...

It depends on what u see as control.But every man have to exercise some control over the wife.If u the man can't control ur wife to an extent,then u r doomed.

Anonymous said...

A man who luvz his wife wil nt control her but learn 2 listen n undastand her. A controlin man is a weak man!

Anonymous said...

That is what this guy said when he was drunk. Linda did you find out what he said the following day?

Anonymous said...

@Hater-slayer...haba.are u male or female?in some posts u claim to be a woman and now u're a man.oshisco.mtcheeeeeew.

Anonymous said...

Can't you see what is in front of the lunatic that said this.

Maureen said...

Wait again,are you a guy? Then you are a smart one... You applied wisdom here and didn't just rant like a chick...people really need yo sit back and think before they act.You are a real man.

Anonymous said...

Linda this is weird, I had this debate with a male coworker just days ago. Truth is the single men won't get it. It's only the married men that will understand this. So ask more (Happily) married men about it. Single guys are terrified of this fact.

Anonymous said...

The guy is drunk so he can get away with that!

jbankzE said...

C as sum naija uncivilize boiz de gv ansa,Grow up guys dat ERA of "its a man'z world is gone"bible no crown men diff.Rubbish guyz

Anonymous said...

'Coming to America' movie used this theory. Btw no man wants a woman dt agrees to hop or bark like a dog to be loved or show respect. #Newage

Sunday Otuns said...

No matter the love you have for your woman,never allow her to control you or disclose your business document to her.Otherwise,she will make you lose your best friends,families and fortune.even kpai you.They visit shrine frequently.

Anonymous said...

I quite I agree with you. I also recently walked out of a 3 year old relationship. He was a control freak, temperamental and impatient; always wanted things to go his way; selfish and never cares about how I feel about anything that concerns us so longs as it went his way. You got it! Very tall, dark and handsome. Any girl can fall for him at first sight, but he is nothing but a 'miss-road sperm' that got conceived. Women be wise!

Sunday Otuns said...

No matter the love you have for your woman,never allow her to control you or disclose your business document to her.Otherwise,she will make you lose your best friends,families and fortune.even kpai you.They visit shrine frequently.

Anonymous said...

any man that cant control his woman is a looser.

​AMX said...

Nawa for una oo. Can't you guys see ∂ɑ̤̥̈̊ϯ this man don HIGH.That bottle of beer infront of him I̲̣̣̣̥ƨ the 24th bottle he's drinking

Festus Agi said...

Ure already dead,buried n turning to manure d day u start trying it

alluring belle said...

It depends on what he meant by control....

Anonymous said...

Haba Linda there's noting to argue there, obviously you can spot a bottle of beer on the table of that mad man so he was probably drunk when he made that statment

dmj said...

I totally agree.
You shouldn’t have control over your woman...if you do she is a wuss and you are insecure for choosing a woman who wouldn’t challenge you.
We all need to be challenge and questioned sometimes because of our fallibilities and propensity to make poor decisions from time to time.
You need someone who would tell you the truth as it is…not someone who tells you what you want to hear. You need a strong woman!

Festus Agi said...

Ure already dead,buried n turning to manure d day u start trying it......

Anonymous said...

I as a woman,tink control is not d issue. Respect is. Respect ya man n every is peachy. Just sayin...D Curious1

naijahousewife said...

U r so right.

Anonymous said...

if you think you need to control your wife/woman then you must be suffering from a low self esteem/inferiority complex. the respect for each other should come without stress or force. so he is right. if a woman is to scared to challenge your decisions, she is not your wife, she is your slave. women say no to marital slavery

Ebukah Nzeji said...

Listen up ya'll: the white man's world is totally different from ours. If a white man decides not to control his wife, the wife would also on a mutual agreement decide not to disrespect the white man.

Anonymous said...

What a bitter truth!

Chathy White said...

I'M nt a guy, bt I think a guy is meant to be able to controll his woman nd I don't mean dictating her every move

Dessyd

Chathy White said...
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Anonymous said...

This is so wrong the world problem today is bcos men were not able to control women. God created man 1st and he made him stronger bcos God want man to have control over everything Adam was not able to control eve that's why dia is sin everywhere so man must exact a control to have a stable family

Mischievous said...

Relationship is not about control but understanding and tolerance with the woman acknowledging the man as the head.

Chathy White said...

I'M nt a guy, bt I think a guy is meant to be able to controll his woman nd I don't mean dictating her every move

Dessyd

Chathy White said...

I'M nt a guy, bt I think a guy is meant to be able to controll his woman nd I don't mean dictating her every move

Dessyd

Anonymous said...

One shouldn't control his woman, it should be a mutual understanding and that makes it a better relationship.

Loveth said...

Ano 11.31: Do u say shutup? Am sory u dont undastand d philosophical meanin of wut he said. Bein in control means ability of makin ur wif to do 100pacent of wut u want. How do u think dat can be possible, u determin hw/wut she eat, wut she wears, who sh grets, how sh spend her money etc. Then there is no way sh can contribut or say no. My dear control canot work in marriage. A president can control his country but cant control hs wife

Ebukah Nzeji said...

Listen up ya'll: the white man's world is totally different from ours. If a white man decides not to control his wife, the wife would also on a mutual agreement decide not to disrespect the white man.

Anonymous said...

I hate controlling men. I was once in a controlling relationship and my life was hell. It was a matter of life and death but thank God he divorced me because I challenged him for once. Money speaks, if a man is controlling and don't have what it takes to be a man then he should keep quiet.

JuoEmeka Group said...

The good one the man is talking about is the bottle of bear. He meant, if you can't control your wife, alcohol is the only thing to grab and drink over your anger.

chidubem said...

These are the anti christ,... Totally opposing the whole idea of submission to the husband thingy in tha bible!!!

Anonymous said...

I agree

KPAKPANDO said...

Nwanne i ga- adi GOD BLESS YOU

OBy$ said...

I think he means if your woman is submissive then there's no need to prove you wear the pants....its not the interpretation we all see at first reading.

Anonymous said...

A man shouldnt want a woman without her own mind,

Anonymous said...

Respect is different from control, the bible never stated men should control their wives, if you make the right decisions as a man, she'll follow your lead and if not why should she?

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